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ASIAN AMERICAN WOMEN
(Updated 10/23/00 to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Which of the following do you like best about Asian American women?
Beautiful Face | 73%
Attractive Figure | 9%
Attitude & Personality | 13%
Education/Intelligence | 5%

Which of the following do you like least about Asian American women?
Facial Features | 2%
Body Shape & Size | 6%
Personality | 8%
Materialism | 29%
Superficiality | 55%

Which of the following types of men do Asian American women prefer to date?
Ambitious professionals | 33%
Sensitive Soulmates | 57%
Rugged Individualists | 3%
Smooth Laid-Back Partiers | 7%

Which best describes Asian American women in marriage or long-term relationships?
Caring & Thoughtful | 65%
Bossy & Demanding | 23%
Fun & Playful | 7%
Distant/Self-Centered | 5%

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OH my gawd, everyone is sooo stereotypical here!! Unfortunately, most of this is true. I am a Chinese girl, and I have had many experiences with all people. Asian woman are very superficial, good at backstabbing, cunning, sly, intelligent, horny (yea..), and gold diggers. I personally prefer an Asian guy over a white guy, because we will both understand each other emotionally and physically better. I won't have someone asking me "what the hell is that?" when I'm eating something, or ask me to translate everything I say, or show me off to all his other white friends, "yo wassup, check out this cute ass Asian chick I picked up!" Also, why do white guys always have Asian fetishes? One day I saw this nice looking white guy with this butt ugly Asian girl, and I'm just assuming he thinks all Asian women are beautiful just because they're Asian. That's nasty. I think white guys just want a cute lil Asian honey to bring them tea and give them a special massage and say cute things in their language and give them some nice exotic sex or something like that. Dayam.. anywayz.. I'm VERY proud of being Asian, I wouldn't want to be any other race than Asian. Asians are very intelligent and successful, and have good careers. We are probably the least overweight race and talented. Come on, admit Chinese martial arts is tite as hell and Korean music is the best, and Japanese people's Anime and electronics and video gamez. We're hardworking also. Maybe a few bad things is that we may be kind of shallow, dishonest at times, and racist. Anywayz.. I dont care if I see an interacial couple.. as long as it's not some guy I like. Sometimes I do get a little angry, but then again, it's none of my businese.

Any white guys with an asian fetish, please call me now. I like to kick your skinny little sick ass. --Princess Pei Pei

all i can say is that asian women are probably the most dedicated in relationship wise...who cares if their bitchy, self centered, undecisive, whinny, and all that stuff we men complain about...just aslong as we know that everyday there is someone that we can call and make u smile...i know wut ever im saying is crap but either u agree or not its true...and whoever think im a f***ing joke f*** u! --MiFiT

Man I love them! I enjoy talking to them more then other women most of the time. However, I do sense a rough personality from them. But, if I had just one chance to show one my sensitive and caring side I would marry one. But for most black men it is hard to find someone who is willing to enjoy your beliefs. --dvte@juno.com

I'm vietnamese, and i think it's funny how you white guys think we're hot..ever thought of liking us for us..not what we look like on the outside or the features god implanted in us..but for who we are? Anyhow, it just bothers me that all i ever hear about asian women is how they look..get over it..looks disappear..so will your wallets if you don't change.. --My Le/sillfish@asia.com

a lot of asian women are ugly but i am one very beautiful one. hahahah

I grew up in a small town in Western Canada, and I found that I didn't become 'white', I just became an asian who was influenced by my friends and my environment. My best friend did not become 'asian' because she slept over at my house and ate (and loved) my mom's wicked spring rolls. Caucasian guys that solely date asian girls are just as silly as girls (of any race) that only date guys that are rich jerks. In the end, I hope I attract guys because of my intelligence and humour, and I get jobs because I'm the best person for the job. I hate the banana term. Give me a break.

So jerks wouldn't know Santa Clause if he were standing in front of him. I've been married to an American Asian lady for over 20 years. Each year she has become more beautiful. Its was the best decision of my life. --FLG

Im a white male, and I think I can give an asian women both good love, but my heart as well!, I think asian women are beutiful, but the side that I like most is the fact that most love to explore new things, so thats my 2 cents, hope its worth something --RookZ

Asian women are the only ones who understand us Asian men. There's less tiresome bulls*** and more emotional connection when you're with have an Asian woman. There are some twits who are totally confused but the majority of them have their heads on straighter. --SoCal AM, 34

My name is jImmY nGuYen and I'm asian. For all yall out there who think they are the shit men f*** u all. Don't know s*** about asian lady shut ta hell up. I think black women is ugly (sorry no offense but they are gross by there fake hair and wig..and Mexican they are alright but try not to eat them nachos & burritos too much fat looking give me goose bump). WELP, final comment is that asian women have a cute face and the little round ass turn me HOT. White women their body is nice but working on the face .....any offense e-mail me at SUPER5TAR5@MSN.COM........PEACE I'M OUT

the brownish black eyes and tan skin makes the asian women very special and so i am very pleased to see her --wippiw

i am an asian female and i am very materialistic. want a rich boyfriend so that he can support me. hahahha --viet fem 19

You know what? I am an Asian man, I date both white and Asian women, but I prefer white women. And they like me back too. So f***ing sue me.

Mean joke: turn them upside down and they all look the same; pussy is pussy.
Some truth to it: it is true that there are some generalities. I have found that Black women have the softest skin and great beautiful full bodies (I love their butts; whenever a Black women in a dress with heels are walking, I think it is so sexy) Asians have the nicest hair and nice petite figures, white women, have beautiful eyes (blue, green, hazel) and Latinas-shit, sexy curls, beautiful butts, and the clothes sexy dressers (especially in SoCAL). But hey, that is the outside and it is general. I have been with women of different races and they are not the stereotypes. There are Asian sluts, just like they are some black women with flat butts (yes, I have seen them)etc. Take time to know the person, people are people. I guess I love women period. We are different outside, but I don't think one is better. If I walk into a club I can tell the ones who are judging me for who I am and the ones who are looking at me for who they think I am (I avoid those). Footnote: some of you Asian women who look down on other men because you are with a white guy, hey, they are only hot in the media, in everyday life, they are just like the rest, if you have a nice, I am happy for you. But if you are with just because you like his baby blues, hey people change physically, the most beautiful person gets old too. I think my idea mate would be a women who I can sit around and talk to and laugh when we are in our eighties. Peace..... --Asian man who has tasted all flavors.

jeez...asian women are just like any other person. For all u white folks who date asian women exclusively...kudos for u but don't put them on a pedestal..ur just stregthening the notion of asian women as prizes or possessions. For those who are too much into "yellow pride" that's great but u also could learn some stuff from other races as well. There are beautiful women of all races and we should just enjoy that. I suspect people who exclusively date in or out of their race are just people hating themselves (some but not all). I am asian male and I love all women of all colors. It's a shame tho in my opinion that there are some asian women who don't date asians just because of "taste" and it's also a shame that white men think that having a asian girlfriend makes them more worldly. I guess that's all i got to say about this. I hope that everyone can just find a way to have a good time in this short life we all share. --BrooklynBum

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Of course all asian women are beautiful. I'm very beautiful, I have warts on my nose, I have buck teeth, I have alot of pimples. I have no ass, I have little pointy ears, yet I'm still beautiful, because I'm asian. And to most white guys all ASIAN are beautiful because they ARE asian. That is so pathetic.--little witch

I know what all Asian women want. That's to be treated like any other American woman, no better, no worse. Unfortunately, most guys either try to treat them like they're dumb and docile or like they're goddesses. That isn't what they want, you dufi (plural of dufus). --Knowledgeable AM, 34

Asian women may be short and petite but they are smart and not as passive as they appear to be. Those who are true to their culture would not stoop so low to marry someone outside their race for wealth or anything else. If they do, you guys fools.

the asian woman is all kool --davyson@yahoo.com

okay folks Im the product of a asian mama-san and a white daddy-O,And i can tell you that the thing that won my my mom over was the fact that my dad loved her for her wit,humor,and general goodness,not some god damn stereotype!treat people right for who they are and you will have a soul mate and not some karate kid style fantasy!....out!- --mike van jagen

yugomark@hotmail.com, you are such a shallow person if the only reason you're dating asian women is because they are attracted to young, upward mobile, good looking, wealthy white men such as yourself. asian women dig deeper than looks and wealth if you have not realized that yet. I think you should read and analyze your post carefully and i think that it's what YOU should think about.

I have found that the more Americanized she becomes the unhappier she becomes. --Johnmiddleton68@cs.com

white chicks are hot till about 25 then they start to age at warp speed.

asian women are the most petite and feminine

You talk about how unattractive asian women are because they are flat chested, etc. Well let's talk about how you white women look like. If you guys have such nice breasts, then why do so many of you have silicone implanted? Maybe if more asian women did the same thing we won't be known as flat chested. How about the tall big noses you guys get, and always running to the plastic surgery to shave it? How about the thin lips you guys run to surgery to have fatten? How about all the tanning salons you guys go to? Oh yeah, when was the last time I seen a white woman with a nice ass like jennifer lopez or janet jackson. Try to find one. If you guys are ever attractive, it is because you ran to the plastic surgery office. White women have fake beauties if they ever had a beauty! --marietta

Asian women are like no other they are smart beautiful. They are simply the best.

I'm a young German hunk who only likes Asian women, unfortunately Germany isn't the best place for guys like me, because Asians only make up about 0.1 percent of the population. Judging from this website Asian American women for the most part seem to suck quite badly compared to the real AW, that�s why I would recommend any Asian-lover to go to Asia directly, not California, because the "Asian" women you'll find in the US are Americanized Bananas (yellow outside, white within), filled with Hamburgers, political correctness crap and feminism s***. Go to China, Vietnam or Korea instead to find the really sweet Asian chicks, an airplane ticket only costs a few-hundred USD, less than you'll spend a month on your AAF-consumption-machines. My personal impression is, the longer Asian females are exposed to Yankee trash "culture", the more bitchy they get, so recent immigrants are still strongly preferrable to those American Girl-type AW born in the States. Finally a message to all proud Asian men: I sincerely admire your culture and your achievements, if you have any problem with those Miss America ladies swarming around Yankee college campuses, look to your ancestor�s native countries for beautiful and dedicated brides.
Yours sincerely
Phil

They simply have the best looks and personality out of any type of woman I have ever met...especailly Thai women! Color blind human male...Jon

Asian women have the most beautiful eyes and faces in the world. I am so attracted to their look. A beautiful Asian girl is second to no one and I used to think blonds were the best.
I'm single and still looking for the Asian girl of my dreams --MM,WM,20

I am a 22-yr-old asian female who refuses to date caucasian men or any other type of man from any race (because ewwwwww...it just doesn't feel kosher!) EWwwwwww!!! They give me the creeps for some reason! I sense they date asian women only because they think we're the a-typical inferior to men and submissive little slaves. That's why I've only dated americanized asian men. The unamericanized asian men are terrible! They are backwards, cheap, mama's boys and unromantic. My current man (for 6 1/2 yrs+ now) is absolutely fabulous and I have never been happier. So I say to the rest of my beautiful asian girls out there - mr. right is out there!! Yes, in case you other squiggley men are speculating, my man is tall (6"0), brilliant, athletic, and tres romantic & sexy. --DW's Spoiled Princess

Asian women are the best!!!
I am a 40 year old, White man. I was raised by a Taiwanese woman(my Step-mom), my late wife Kim, was Korean, I am now engaged to a wonderful Chinese lady. Asian ladies are sweet, wonderful, kind, loving, and loyal!
White women on the other hand are selfish, stuck-up, arrogant, trashy, bitches! I worship the ground that Asian women walk on!
As for Asian men, hey if you want to date, or marry White women, that is cool with me! Maybe you guys can do better with them, and teach them some things, that we White men have not been able to! --jweston1959@yahoo.com

Asian women are in my opinion the most beautiful women in the world. --19 M American

I am so annoyed by the stereotypical comments I see on this poll (only some of them, are). A lot Asian American women can do whatever they want, and they come in all shapes or sizes. Just because they date another race doesn't mean that they are trying to be 'White' or 'Americanized'. Many of 'em like a true relationship. And also, just because we act like ourselves doesn't mean that we are not trying to be less of our race

While you cannot make a blanket statement, from my point of view, overall, Asian women have more class than their counterparts. While physical characteristics certainly play into it (and I'm not trying to objectify), it is the whole package (what is inside and out) which I admire, and consequently am attracted to. And I see no reason to suppress my preferences in the name of racial, ethnic, or cultural purity (I am white), especially given that "purity" is a meaningless word in the context of the human experience. Have you noticed your local Filipino/a lately?
Do it, for he/she is what your descendents will look like. No matter what ethnicity/race/culture you may claim. As far as the observation of good looking Asian women with mediocre Caucasian men, or they make ugly couples, or whatever....who cares? Are lives so petty so as even take the time to notice...and then comment? Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder....and contrary to what they say, beauty can sometimes run much much deeper than the skin. A good heart is much more beautiful than a model's face or figure. I know, I've ran the gamut and am lucky enough to have the most beautiful lady in world (she's Korean) in my eyes. And that is all that counts. --amazed

I'm white and my girlfriend is Asian (she's in Manila right now), and I'm sort of surprised by a few of the comments here. Is there something wrong with "dating outside one's race"? That attitude is a throwback to the 19th century (or Bob Jones U), and I don't understand it. I'm not dating my gf because she's Asian, and I'm not some racist fetishizing male looking for a submissive woman. Does anyone really want to tell me that we shouldn't be dating each other because of differing races? I'd love to hear your reasons. Frankly, I'm frightened by the Asian Pride phenomenon. I'm afraid that it's just like White Pride, and the last thing the world needs is more racial tension. I guess that's another matter entirely though. --19 y.o. white male, halfspin8@yahoo.com

I'm a white male who almost exlusively dates asian women. I date them because they are attracted to young, upward mobile, good looking, wealthy white men such as myself. I find them attractive and intelligent, and I am currently dating an Asian woman. I will with out a doubt marry an Asian woman. Unfortunately, I will warn other white males of the fact that if you even suspect that an asian girl is a gold digger, a user, or insincere, realize that the relationship will probably be one where she sleeps with you and you spend money on her. That is the way my relationships work and it is fine with me, but when I get married I am ultimately going to want to marry a woman who loves more for who I am----Not what I can give her. Other white men should think about this. --yugomark@hotmail.com

Hey Azngirl,
Let me ask you: what exactly is acting "white" or "american" anyway? (And don't bore me by listing off sterotypes.)Anything that goes beyond acting like the asian stereotype? Being able to identify with the culture outside the chinese race? What? Be specific. Back up your words. And what is wrong with "acting American" when you ARE an american? Being an american is not a race, and it does not apply to white people only. Surely there are others out there who may disagree, but in principle, the American culture is SUPPOSED to be for everybody who is a citizen of this country. You are so quick to condemn chinese girls who are not "being who they really are" yet you fail to define the differences that separate "real" from wannabe. Personally, i think everyone's identity should be composed of more than their race. We are more than our ethnicity,we are individuals--members of the HUMAN race, if you may--with our own special quirks and tastes. So if you're going to harp on people who break your imaginary rules, at least mark the boundaries you speak of clearly before you start mouthing off your contempt for their not living in them. You know why? Because you sound like an ABSOLUTE IMBECILE who is so narcissistic as to assume that anyone reading your post must have your narrow mindframe and thus can wholeheartedly understand your prejudices. YOu tried to make a case; you failed miserably. That's just MY observation. --irritated

More than other groups, asian people are conformist. Thinking the same even if it's wrong is not uncommom. But most of the time it is right due to it's survival through the test of time give or take. Anyhow so being superficial is all about survival of the fittest smartest, richest, and cutest. Even though we are superficial we still treat our fellow human beings with kindness which is a beautiful quality. So sorry to you other guys it's not a love connection. It's just nature taking over. It's understood an average man can't have all four quality. So all you complainers pick one and put your butt to work. It's not just asian females that'll judge you it's all females. And talking shit and complaining is not a desirable quality in any man of any race for any girl of any race --23 f

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