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ASIAN AMERICAN WOMEN
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:06:29 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Which of the following do you like best about Asian American women?
Beautiful Face | 60%
Attractive Figure | 7%
Attitude & Personality | 15%
Education/Intelligence | 18%

Which of the following do you like least about Asian American women?
Facial Features | 4%
Body Shape & Size | 5%
Personality & Attitude | 12%
Materialism & Superficiality | 79%

Which of the following types of men do Asian American women prefer to date?
Ambitious professionals | 47%
Sensitive Soulmates | 51%
Rugged Individualists | 1%
Smooth Laid-Back Partiers | 0%

Which best describes Asian American women in marriage or long-term relationships?
Caring & Thoughtful | 80%
Bossy & Demanding | 15%
Fun & Playful | 3%
Distant/Self-Centered | 2%


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I am an AF but I am not plastic and phony. In fact, I am very real and down-to-earth. I admit that I am short and fat, dumb and depressed.

So there.

I am looking for acceptance by AMs, but all I get is rejection because I am 4'11.5", 112 pounds, and not very talkative.

Tell me what I am doing wrong?

Fattie wants help    Saturday, March 30, 2002 at 17:47:17 (PST)
to AM-25
"...It is indeed true that most (not all but most) AF's are snobby and materialistic and look down on everyone else. You can tell it just by their attitude, how they walk and how they look at others. Gotta put on the LV or Prada shoes just to go strut around the supermarket. "

Gosh, which supermarket do you go to? Where I go, the women are in sweat pants and poking around at the fish stall (I know because I'm there poking at the fish too!). Sometimes I'm wearing heels and a jacket, but that's more because I just got out of work and have to get something home for dinner and not because I enjoy buying my trout in designer clothing. Snobby and materialistic? I have to admit, we are kinda thrifty, but that's not a bad trait. Snobby? It's probably more because Asian women are not overly gregarious and loud simply because we're brought up not to oggle at the goodlooking hunks (that's bad manners).
MLK    Friday, March 29, 2002 at 17:37:13 (PST)
to married to asian woman

"...asian women do seem to have a thing about perpetuating their own sterotypes and then complaining about the characterizations. they are becoming so plastic and phony it's sad to see the change."

wooooow!!! better not let her know you think she's plastic and phony. And if you think so, why're you married to her? Why not live the single life?
MLK    Friday, March 29, 2002 at 15:22:48 (PST)
cat:
it's true, as unfortunate as it seems asian women do seem to have a thing about perpetuating their own sterotypes and then complaining about the characterizations. they are becoming so plastic and phony it's sad to see the change.
married to asian woman    Thursday, March 28, 2002 at 09:42:00 (PST)
I find it interesting that in a lot of the posts here both AM and AFs say that AFs suffer from insecurity, identity crisis, severe lack of self esteem, even self hatred. All I ever see is the snobbery and attitude. Perhaps this is a coping mechanism. They must look down on others in order to feel better about themselves.
comment    Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 12:58:46 (PST)
To cat- thank you for admitting the truth! It is indeed true that most (not all but most) AF's are snobby and materialistic and look down on everyone else. You can tell it just by their attitude, how they walk and how they look at others. Gotta put on the LV or Prada shoes just to go strut around the supermarket. I'm not saying that some of them aren't very pretty, but it's their personality that turns me off.
AM- 25    Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 11:00:02 (PST)
I had an AA rommate and all she did was talk on her cell. In fact, she refused to pay for a "normal" phone jack in the apartment.

It's seems kind of mean to stereotype AA women but unfortunately they live up to their stereotypes! Snotty, pretentious, and metrialistic....it's almost as if they have to prove that they're better then everyone else.

I have met quite a few and have found that 90% of them are mean. The other 10% are from my mom's side of the family and so they're nice to me because they have to be :-) But I know that I don't live up to their "standards"....
cat catwiggin@hotmail.com    Wednesday, March 27, 2002 at 07:19:27 (PST)
hahaha you guys are funny:Pbut i know what you mean about the cell phones and the mouth opening like cows...me and my bro laugh about this all the time.
mai    Sunday, March 24, 2002 at 03:39:04 (PST)
Yes the cell phones- oh my god, in stores, in restaurants-they leave them out on the table so they can talk through a meal. How rude! I have a cell phone but when I use it I use it outside and speak in a normal or soft tone of voice so the whole street doesn't hear my conversation.
cool it on the cell!    Friday, March 22, 2002 at 13:42:16 (PST)
The worst of asian women is cell phones.
What the hell are you always yacking about on the damn cell phones ? Or is it as I suspect your "security blanket" so no one will dare look at you as a "sex object" ? Get real asian women get over yourselves most of you are just average just like every race of people including my own !
p.s. I'd like to rip that damn cell phone right outta your face !
not hatin just statin    Friday, March 22, 2002 at 08:27:59 (PST)
Worst of AA women? BAD MANNERS. SO often I see AA women chewing gum with their MOUTHS OPEN- like cows. This is accompanied by a snotty look on the face. Also, eating with the mouth open, and making smacking noises. Disugsting. Just goes to show that money doesn't buy class.
etiquette is nice!    Wednesday, March 20, 2002 at 06:32:33 (PST)

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