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ASIAN AMERICAN WOMEN
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:06:28 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Which of the following do you like best about Asian American women?
Beautiful Face | 60%
Attractive Figure | 7%
Attitude & Personality | 15%
Education/Intelligence | 18%

Which of the following do you like least about Asian American women?
Facial Features | 4%
Body Shape & Size | 5%
Personality & Attitude | 12%
Materialism & Superficiality | 79%

Which of the following types of men do Asian American women prefer to date?
Ambitious professionals | 47%
Sensitive Soulmates | 51%
Rugged Individualists | 1%
Smooth Laid-Back Partiers | 0%

Which best describes Asian American women in marriage or long-term relationships?
Caring & Thoughtful | 80%
Bossy & Demanding | 15%
Fun & Playful | 3%
Distant/Self-Centered | 2%

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to gurl
"...i have no desire to talk to the majority of people i see everyday. in fact, i could care less about them".

Respect is a mutual two-way street. If you want respect from people, you should extend them the basic respects that a human being deserves. Now, don't get me wrong...chattering like a magpie and showering your interest on everyone you meet is not prudent simply because there are a few oddballs out there who could take that as a sign that you are enamoured of them and then you will never be able to rid yourself of them; but not caring the least about the sea of people around you results in an "island" mentallity which results in isolationism, which eventually becomes a neurosis that must be treated with medical and psychological care.

"...i don't think it's worth wasting my breath on someone that is super-fake and probably gonna talk shit behind my back anyways".

This is narcissism to the max. Most people have other things to do with their time. They don't have enough energy or time to fixate on you and talk about you behind your back. Also, it takes a very large amount of energy to stay "super-fake" (tons of hairspray and nail polish) and the majority of the folks out there are exactly the way that they are. They're not out there to act phony to you just to get the chance to talk bad about you. They just aren't that interested! Most people actually have a life and believe it or not, YOU are not that exciting to talk about.

So get over the fact that you think people obsess over you. They don't. If you give an honest effort to be a friendly compassionate person, you will find that the sea of "super-fake" people around you will turn out to be caring, supportive, and incredibly sincere.

"...that's why i get along with boys so much better. they don't talk as much and they can just chill without all the gossip and envy that girls have. guys are so less judgemental than girls..."

Guys have different kinds of gossip and envies and can talk just as much as girls do when you hit the right combinations of interests. It's just that you've learned to react to male-type social interactions and still have a lot to learn about the social interactions between females. Boys are just as judgemental, but because so much of it doesn't apply to you, you don't feel or respond to those pressures. For example, it's classic-- that penis-envy (size, girth, experience) car-envy (size, speed, cost) and that muscle-envy (size, girth, strength), not to mention the more adult form of male-envy--Money, Status, Power, and did I mention Girls?.

"...next time you see an asian girl and you don't think she wants to talk to you, you're prolly right."

Maybe...more likely not. It all depends on the girl and the way she's brought up. Not all girls are like you, so speak for yourself and not the rest of us not-so-anti-social females.
MLK Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 21:42:44 (PST)

RE: "the fact that i have no desire to talk to the majority of people i see everyday. in fact, i could care less about them. i don't think i'm better than them...so that is not the same as being snobby. i just don't want to talk to them. call me anti-social or whatever but i don't think it's worth wasting my breath on someone that is super-fake and probably gonna talk shit behind my back anyways"

Ummm... assuming that everyone is super-fake and backstabbing IS thinking that you're better than them and judging them, which makes you a snob.
comment Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 12:45:12 (PST)

MLK:
I'm married to her because I am, and I live up to my decisions and responsiblities. I hope that answers your query.
married to asian woman Tuesday, April 02, 2002 at 09:15:59 (PST)

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