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ASIAN AMERICAN WOMEN
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:06:26 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Which of the following do you like best about Asian American women?
Beautiful Face | 60%
Attractive Figure | 7%
Attitude & Personality | 15%
Education/Intelligence | 18%

Which of the following do you like least about Asian American women?
Facial Features | 4%
Body Shape & Size | 5%
Personality & Attitude | 12%
Materialism & Superficiality | 79%

Which of the following types of men do Asian American women prefer to date?
Ambitious professionals | 47%
Sensitive Soulmates | 51%
Rugged Individualists | 1%
Smooth Laid-Back Partiers | 0%

Which best describes Asian American women in marriage or long-term relationships?
Caring & Thoughtful | 80%
Bossy & Demanding | 15%
Fun & Playful | 3%
Distant/Self-Centered | 2%


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eeyore-girl
wow, I like your name. Are you a Winnie the Pooh fan or do you just follow the spiritual teachings of the book? Try reading Winnie the Pooh, and tell me what you think.
MLK    Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 00:12:55 (PDT)
gurl
I hope you had some fun. That's what this whole thing is all about. If it's not fun, get off the computer and go play tennis or something. Don't sit there and agonize over a cyber-persona talking to you (even though I am a real person and not just your computer creating words and stringing them together for your amusement).

I am smart. But that doesn't make you dumb, just uninformed.
I am beautiful. But that doesn't make you ugly, just misunderstood.
I can't be all knowing, else I'd be God, but a fool is not the antithesis of God, only evil, and you're not evil, just...uninformed.

No one is perfectly sane. We all have our little neuroses, but yours is getting worse the more you chat in here. I suggest you take a little vacation and get somewhere with some palm trees in the sand, get a tan, get some margaritas in you. Then come back and you'll find that your little neurotic episode will have dissipated. Good luck on your voyage to recovery.
MLK    Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 00:03:24 (PDT)
AC Dropout,

Actually, I work no different than you. I don't include myself in any frat or asian club parties, but I still have a few 'tool' friends, here and there. I can't say they're the most fulfilling friendships though.
For the most part, I agree with you- not all can be enlightened. What I meant to say was that the difficulty is in making worthy, respectable friends. I don't claim to be enlightened myself, but it would be nice if it was easier to meet someone with a better sense of 'awareness'.

I don't think I'd break off any social contacts though, even if I was seeing someone. Believe me, I've tried that once and ended up with no friends at all. At this age, it's tough to start from scratch, especially when you have no firmly established friendships. I learned that the hard way, and I'm still paying for it.
another ABC in NYC    Monday, April 08, 2002 at 08:31:54 (PDT)
help! MLK --I am exactly as you describe "gurl". How does a person find a person to work with?

I have tried in the past to go, but have always hated it. Is there any way to treat yourself without going to someone? any suggested books? -I would prefer this route.
eeyore-girl    Saturday, April 06, 2002 at 06:54:28 (PST)
MLK-
thank you so much for providing me with so much amusement these past couple of days. you are my saviour. without you telling me what i think and how i REALLY feel deep down inside, i'd be like a lost soul wandering on my island of isolationism. i'd be cursing beautiful, intelligent people such as yourself because i'm not capable of using my pseudo-intellect in such a glorious fashion. oh, that beautiful way you use your words. it's no wonder people pay you so much money. in conclusion...

you're smart. i'm dumb.
you're beautiful. i'm ugly.
you're all knowing. i'm a fool.
you're perfectly sane. i'm crazy.

mlk... i love you. i have never loved a woman in this way before. does that make me gay? maybe you can tell me that since you already know everything about me.

p.s. if you want to respond, feel free to use my personal email address
gurl headup@hotmail.com    Friday, April 05, 2002 at 09:40:31 (PST)
another ABC in NYC,

I think we went to the same HS at different times.

I too in college pursued academic and other extra-curricular goals. But it doesn't pr3clude from participating at frat parties and asian club parties. You just don't as often as those in the clique. Just keep a friend or two in each clique to just know what is going on.

I would be socialable for self interest of course. There was a huge campus, so if you wanted to meet all the cute AF or new arriving AF....

Once I got a GF I shut down all uneccesary socialable activity, then I break up and start all over again.

A tool/follower is tool/follower forever. But doesn't mean they can't be friends.

Not all can be enlightened. If everyone was enlgihtened, Buddism would fall apart. Simple Biology, some birds are designed to occupy low altitudes for survival. Some birds occupy high altitudes for survival. Each has a place in life.
AC Dropout    Friday, April 05, 2002 at 09:18:07 (PST)

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