GS: How did you go about recruiting the girls to participate in the videos?
RL: I was involved in the swinging lifestyle prior to being on videos. So I had plenty of connections with girls that had their own sites and their friends. So that was never a problem. Eventually, I started to scout models myself and now I receive lots of inquiries from girls who want to be on the site. On camera and off camera I might add.
GS: Tell us a bit about your experiences with the swinger scene and how it affected your attitude toward sex/women and your success with women?
RL: I discovered swinging when I first got on the internet. I found there were many like minded people out there who enjoyed sex without strings attached and it seemed like a perfect lifestyle for me. As far as how it “affected” my attitude, I would say that the lifestyle made me realize that sexuality has nothing to do with education, economic class or social class. Also I realized how sexually repressed we are as a society as being a swinger expanded my views in regards to what people are really like behind closed doors.
GS: Did you actually meet women through the swinger scene who were attractive enough to feature in your porn videos?
RL: The question implies swinger women are not attractive, which is a very flawed assumption. Swingers are regular people, they just happen to be sexually liberal. If I could write a book on whom I’ve met at swing parties, I’d make a nice chunk of change. But to answer your question, yes there were several women on my videos who came from the swinging lifestyle. But for the most part swingers or women who favor casual sex (two different things) prefer to keep things private.
GS: Weren’t you required to come as a male-female couple? Who accompanied you to the swinger parties?
RL: I was primarily a single swinger, meaning I usually did not have a female companion. There were cases when I would invite female friends but as a rule I was by myself.
GS: Were you successful at picking up attractive women at clubs?
RL: Depends on what you would consider successful. I had my fair share of beautiful women from clubs but normally clubs are not very good places to pick up women in the first place — too loud to have a conversation.
GS: What lessons did you learn that may help other Asian guys with the club scene?
RL: Again, this is not a racial issue. You either have game or don’t, you can be Asian, white, or green. You need to have well developed social skills to be picking up women at bars and clubs.
GS: What advice would you give Asian men on becoming more successful sexually with women of other races?
RL: There is no short answer to this question. But the starting point should be asking oneself what does one need to do in order to be successful with women in general and not just women of an specific race. There is no such thing as a“trick” to getting an Asian woman, White woman, or an Eskimo woman for that matter.
GS: If you have no special advice for Asian American men, do you feel that Asian American men don’t face any special obstacles to connecting with women?
RL: I do think there are racial issues that affects Asian males when it comes to dating in our society. We have certain negative stereotypes that we have to confront and fight off and that’s one of the primary reasons Asian-man.com came to fruition. With that said, when it comes to connecting to another person at an intimate level your race shouldn’t be an issue. When one strikes a conversation with a woman of any race, one should be looking for ways to connect at a level that transcends race. How one becomes better at interacting and connecting emotionally and intellectually with a woman is another subject altogether. And I am actually working on a website and an e-book to address these issues that affect Asian men specifically.
GS: How many of your porn videos have you appeared in?
RL: I’d say I am in about 600-700 videos.
GS: How are you able to stay anonymous and still appear in 600-700 videos?
RL: I shoot my videos POV (point of view)
GS: Do you pay the girls who appear in the videos or are they amateurs?
RL: Women who allow me to use their image on the site sign a release. And they get a benefit from it since I charge for access to the video.
GS: Give us a blow-by-blow account of what actually happens at a porn video shoot.
RL: You mean the home videos I shoot? What I do is far from what people shooting porn would qualify as a shoot. I basically pick up the girl, bring her to my place or a hotel, have sex and put it on video. I have no camera man, no fancy lights, no expensive cameras.
GS: How do you go about scouting models?
RL: I go on model sites, social networking sites, adult dating sites, etc.
GS: Are you above-average in sexual endowment?
RL: I think I am regular sized. But girls tell me I am thicker than average. However, what sets me apart is how I have sex with girls not my endowment. Anyone who is familiar with my videos knows the difference between how me and the women came across on my videos versus most adult videos. Next
