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ASIAN AMERICAN ISSUES
AA MEN SEEK OUT NON-ASIAN WOMEN
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sian women are only interested in non-Asian men and don't give Asian men the time of day. That's the reason cited by many AA men for dating and marrying non-Asians. A minority of AA men say they simply find non-Asian women more physically attractive or more appealing in terms of personality, values and interests.
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Whatever the reasons, the rates at which young Asian men are dating and marrying non-Asian women are quickly approaching the rates at which Asian women are outdating and outmarrying (about 38%). Some Asian women are complaining that they aren't getting a fair shake because Asian men have been brainwashed by media standards of desirability.
What are the real reasons for so many Asian men seeking out non-Asian women? How do Asian women really feel about this trend? Who benefits most from it? Will the trend continue? We want to hear your views.
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To: Some AFs with WMs are jokes.
Although your story was a bit rude and crude; nevertheless, it was quite funny. Maybe it's me, but I seem to see average AF's with average or below average WM's; and beautiful AF's with above average WM's. I have AF's acquaintances that fall into both these categories. Whereas the former tend to be recent immigres, while the latter are 1st or 2nd gens. It could also be that people who are considered beautiful tend to migrate towards the same. If I was some butt-ugly AF, I probably couldn't land someone like Brad Pitt, more like Lyle Lovett (although he did nail Julia).
I've had my fair shares of AF's who try to flaunt their pet in front of me. But, for the most part, I just smile and in my head I am thinking, "Whew, I am glad I am not with her." Sometimes when I am with a WF, and the AF with her WM will give me that, "Hey, WTF, you're with a beautiful WF - that's not supposed to happen -- I want the attention..." look and also her WM boyfriend/spouse looks at my girl and has that, "Damn, I wish I can get a WF like that...."
Of course, I'll run into the other situation where I'll see a good looking AF with her WM, and I'll be thinking, "I wanna hit some of that...."
It goes both ways..... jealousy and hate is equal-opportunistic.
NotConfusedAsianDude
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 23:06:31 (PDT)
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So, you -are- a FOB. No worries about that, Bro. My great grandfather was one. (We all got here by having a FOB in each family, right?) I still however consider myself an Asian man very much attuned to his culture.
Given this, that would explain why you don't seem to understand parts of my posts.
I don't think it'll do any good to reply to your statements, since I don't believe that we'd be seeing eye to eye given our current circumstances.
Thoughts...
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 21:48:23 (PDT)
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I'm curiously piqued about the notion that "sell-out" asian girls rub it in the face of the better looking asian guys.
I've seen so many AF/WM couples trying to do that to me, I consider it abnormal to not see such a couple within the given time of my daily activities. Yet one thing is clear, I notice their reaction to me usually turns negative. #1) Because I don't care anymore and its their decision
#2) They notice the game I have going..
Similarly, when I walk down the street not all af/wm couples stare at me with hostility. But just like walking down any strip, there might be someone who stares at you the wrong way. Well I'm coming to the general conclusion that they feel threatened by my presence, but it makes me realize that not everyone's going to like you despite being asian or whatever.
Anyhow, I'm far more occupied with the numerous glances from WFs than anything else =) .. At the end of the day, who cares? I think just being yourself is important and subsequently WFs notice such personality traits.
trowa in montreal
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 20:50:54 (PDT)
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To: Some AFs with WMs are jokes.
I highly agree and unfortunately would have to say that about 9 out of 10 of these couples I see act like that. They seem to act very cocky!! We were just debating this on one of the other boards.
Curious 1
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 18:14:03 (PDT)
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Azn Pride:
This is similar to the point I was getting across to Maxdacat on the other board... Are AA Women the Real Victims? Reading Don't Ask Me Why...I Don't Know's posts reminded me of it. There was another one before his but I can't remember who posted it. It was very similar though...only it happened in the gym. What I was trying to say is that from my observation, 9 out of 10 times that I see AF/WM couples, the woman (and even perhaps the man) comes off as cocky when they really have no reason to be. You said in the other board that you think my post and WF Dating AM's post were stemmed out of jealousy. Absolutely not. We just don't like to see how many AFs are treating AM and reading posts even on this board shows me that AM are sick of it too!! Don't you agree?
Curious 1
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 18:12:05 (PDT)
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True Brother,
Those WM who do that probably have inferior complexes. They probably have seen enough BM and WF do it to them, so they take it out on the AM.
It's wacked.
Someday we will pay em' back
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 17:05:23 (PDT)
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"You see, those sellout Asian women would not rub it off on the weaker or more nerdy-looking Asian guys. They do it to the more tough or good looking ones."
and what makes you think you qualify, bro? seriously, you have some issues to work out before you honestly have any real chance of having a meaningful relationship with any girl of any ethnicity. besides, you're in the wrong forum. keep the hostility and negativity in the gender-divide forum. ;^)
life and let be (was in wrong forum, sorry)
Monday, September 02, 2002 at 12:35:22 (PDT)
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