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WHAT DO WF LIKE BEST ABOUT AM?
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Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:52:00 PM)
hen many people see a pretty white woman with a good-looking Asian man the question that pops into their heads is "Why's she with him?" more often than "Why's he with her?"
It's only natural. We've been told so often about the desirability of white women that we simply presume that an Asian man too would find a pretty white women desirable. But we are left to guess at her possible motives for being with him. Not that there aren't hundreds of thousands of handsome, charming and successful Asian men who, by all rights, should be attractive to women of any race. But we are all too aware that American society has built up many negative preconceptions about Asian men that would take extraordinary consideration, some special X factor, to overcome.
The many examples of famous AM/WF couples (Mr/Mrs Yo-Yo Ma, Ming Tsai, Scott Oki, Charles Wang etc), don't really help, merely reinforcing the common presumption that the AM must be wealthy and able to provide an exceptional degree of financial security, material comfort or social status. Another common suspicion is that he must be unusually charming, cultured or sexually gifted. Then there's the old standby -- that the woman must have some odd fixation on Asian men or Asian culture.
Of course intellectually we know better. Just as there are many independent-minded Asian men who see through blonde bimbo stereotypes to the real qualities of white women, there are white women who ignore stereotypes about Asian men. Which leads to the question: What's the real draw? Is it the black hair? educational level? smooth skin? cultural values? upslanting eyes? personality and character traits? Here's a chance for white women who love Asian men to set the record straight.
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I'm only 15, but I've been with the same guy for about a year or so now. And yes, he's Asian. He was born in the Phillipines and moved to the US when he was 6. What makes this relationship even more curious to people, is that we live quite a distance apart. I am in Kentucky, and he is in Florida. So, here I am a WF in a long distance relationship with an AM at age 15. We both love eachother, and plan on meeting up in June down in Florida. We're both really serious about this relationship. I have to say I have been attracted to other Asian guys, but it's not just because my guy is Asian that I'm with him. Of course it is a plus, I've been known to have an obbsession with AM from time to time. But I love this guy, he makes me feel whole. I think I've said enough!
Yukihime ~
chica265@hotmail.com
Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 15:36:37 (PDT)
[12.220.232.164]
Ila,
Hey sweetie, what did people ask you [you dating AM]? AW can be sexy but they can also not be sexy, it depends on who you ask. Some guys likes them and some don't; I know b/c i am an AM. And who seems surprise that the man are sexy too? The word man you have down on your post, i assume your reffering to AM, true? This again is true only who you ask, there are girls that think so and not. So do you think the man [AM] is sexy?
Handsome, sexy devil
Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 14:50:09 (PDT)
[162.83.151.218]
I don't know how I came to your site when looking around web, but it interested me. I have only ever dated one Asian man. My problem is that I am tall, 5 ft 9 in, and I am drawn to very tall men, no matter what race. When I met a man named Jonny, and he is a bit taller than me and we dated for a while. I admit I was surprized about how many odd looks we got, even though it was 1999 when we went out for a couple of months. The odd thing is when people would ask me about it, they seemed to have the impression that Asian women were sexy, but seemed to be surprized that the man also are.
Ila
Friday, September 13, 2002 at 17:53:00 (PDT)
[24.136.45.125]
I enjoy dating asian men they are respectful and cute. I am a white female and I like asian men. There is no easy way to describe why asian men are so appealling! They just are really sexy!
Lori
Lori41176@aol.com
Monday, September 09, 2002 at 21:10:51 (PDT)
[205.188.209.170]
Lin from Georgia.
well I used to be a RoK solder and I often saw a number of US female soldiers ,however I've hardly heard any such stories that they had any interest in Korean guys.(there are certain number of KATUSAs,Korean solders who serve in U.S military,but I've never heard such stories from them either)on the other hand, I personally know few female English teachers who get involved with Korean guys .
^ ^
Friday, September 06, 2002 at 17:36:49 (PDT)
[205.188.209.170]
Asian men are gorgeous! (and I'm with the sweetest one of all ...okay I'm biased :) But really, it doesn't matter that he's Asian, he could be purple and striped for all that I care. He's just a wonderful person and we love eachother, that's all that really matters. :)
Gryphon
Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 21:42:13 (PDT)
[64.12.96.232]
i love asian men. their hair and their skin. everything.
linda
jozetter@excite.com
Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 07:06:49 (PDT)
[172.142.68.40]
I personally, as a young and successful white woman, see nothing at all wrong with dating asian men. I tend to do it a lot myself. Most asian men that I've met have, to me, been more attractive, intelligent, witty, and just plain sexier than most of the repressed and macho white guys I've known. To put it more primitively, asian men make me drool.
Red Head
Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 18:57:22 (PDT)
[209.181.20.68]
To all AM,
If a hot WF tries to fondle me or use me as a sexual piece of meat i would be more than honored to obliged. To all WF who would do that..i say "Bring it on, the more the better"
As a matter of fact they dont have to be WF, AF BF any F will do :))
Why would u want to be shocked when a hot chick wants to sexual shag u.
I dont understand some asian men
viet lover
Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 23:07:28 (PDT)
[202.12.233.21]
i like asian men, and i like this site
priti
priti136000@yahoo.com
Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 22:47:57 (PDT)
[203.88.155.13]
You know what they say about little boys, they always pull the hair of the girls they like. I guess the equivalent for women is to play with a guy's ass.
S.U.A.G.
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 23:38:38 (PDT)
Asian Nomad,
This also happens quite a lot in American nightclubs. When WFs get a little too much to drink, they are capable of doing anything.
Deng Ai
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 11:06:02 (PDT)
Cali AM,
Hehe... your story about the ass grabbing is hilarous. I've had similar experiences in London, the women there are very aggressive, probably because the men are so passive and impotent. I was in the Underground (subway) in Leicester Square, and a bunch of highschool girl literally grabbed both asscheeks and KNEADED them for a good 5 seconds! I turned around and stared, too shocked to say anything. Keep in mind that I'm a 22 year old man. They just winked and said "how fit I was" (that means hot/cute) and walked away, smiling. Another woman just came upto me in a club and licked my ear. We ended up talking and making out/fondling each other in the cocktail lounge. The sexual behavior of some WFs is UTTERLY SHOCKING, esp. in comparison to some Asian women who are not aggressive at all. I'm not calling WFs slutty or anything. In fact, I love sex and flirting, and that kind of behavior turns me on! I say gimme some mo'! =)
Asian Nomad
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 09:19:41 (PDT)
Cali AM, sorry to hear about the WF girls that taunted you, but often when kids of opposite genders taunt each other it's because they're attracted to each other. Maybe they just thought that you were cute. I don't know all the details, but that's just my perspective. If you are attracted to WF's, try to work through the "baggage" that you say that you have. I and other WF's would be more than happy to help you. :)
curious girl
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 06:03:22 (PDT)
Cali AM:
I don't think that you were being abused. In junior high, there was a girl who would always play with my hair (and butt). Others would make references to sex and sometimes follow me around in a pack.
Women tend not to speak or act in a sexual manner unless they're interested. They're unlikely to attack someone physically, preferring verbal means like spreading nasty rumors.
S.U.A.G.
Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 15:46:36 (PDT)
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