ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

A truly uplifting and heart warming story of my cousin and her fiance, where the relationship between an AW and a BM at Princeton University is accepted by both our families.

http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/Content/ 2000/11/27/news/753.shtml
Chinese Female    Thursday, November 01, 2001 at 06:52:13 (PST)
This week we lost one of our news anchors... Siani Lee, so tragic how she died. I mean, at least to me she was beautiful inside and out. She favors the woman I get my lunch from. I know I haven't replied here for a while, but that's because I wanted to see how Asian females perceive Black Male attraction inspite of some of the negativity going on here. I see many Asian women, I have a feeling that the line of physical attract between BM aren't as strained as people think. I'm not saying I read minds, the body language means everything. I notice how Asian women react to me and I wonder what attracts Asian to BM phyiscally.

NeoKat    Wednesday, October 31, 2001 at 11:43:28 (PST)
To: Asian f,

I'm curious. What did "think brothes" say that you claim to agree with?
Curious African-Ameican Male    Tuesday, October 30, 2001 at 22:01:55 (PST)
To thinkbrothers:
First off I work for the US govt as a contractor and have nothing to do with the military, (thats why I lived in the UK (Leeds/London/Cambridge) and now in Japan, wrong you are #1. Although I must say I am very proud of the US military leading the way for the fight against terrorism (while you Brits shoot off at the mouth and ride on are coat tails) I don't give a damn weather your wife is chinese ,Japanese or from Mars. I'm sure nobody care. Wrong you are # 2. Oh so you read the newspaper and see people are killing others they belive to be of a certain Arab nationality. Try picking up YOUR newspaper and look at the Brit who killed another Brit last night (of the SAME race) and explain that. I guess that makes you guys even dumber that the killers in the U.S. Or maybe your crime rate is 0 like you would like people to belive. ANY civilized society will have crime and racism if the population is more that 2. Have you done any post highschool studies? Yes America has a high crime rate, no arugument there but If you are trying to compare the two countries, It's AMERICA that every man, woman and child flocks to for a better life. Even you Brits come here in flocks like bird migrating for the winter...but the funny part is, they don't go back to the UK. I wounder why, have you tell it, nobody would live here in the U.S. I don't see people flooding the gates to your country trying to start a better life. Wrong you are # 3. This is where you really make yourself look stupid...1 in 4 Black men in prision huh. I bet you read that in TIME magazine. Or maybe some white guy told you that huh. Yeah and the white man use to tell the Japanese females on Okinawa that blacks turn into monkeys at midnight. Yeah maybe you want to add that to your arsenal of little known U.S. facts. You know, any brother can see right thru you. You are a white man in dark skin and hate yourself for being black. Maybe you yourself have a fetish for the Asian female. Not one idea you presented has any strong fact to back it up. Very weak minded. You try to pass yourself off as educated in worldly matters and issues with asians/blacks but any fool can see you are just another sorry excuse for a brother. Oh I'm sorry, you live in the UK and are married to a Chinese. That makes you an expert on everything. You must be totally different from any other black man...I have found throughout my travels in 9 Asian countries, Chinese have a disliking for Black more than any other race on earth. (Oh I lived/worked in China for 3 years...ever been there...ask your wife)You know absolutly nothing about the US (except what our white media wants you to know) and I'm sure you never even been there. London....please take anybody and let them stay in London for 1 week and then Chicago or New York. I'm sure they won't be coming back to London. Get a grip man...That saying "The sun never sets on the British Empire" died years ago. Sounds to me you are a little jealous of the American black man. If you don't belive me...re-read your post. Don't hate us because we are everything you want to be.
Blackman in Japan    Saturday, October 27, 2001 at 09:46:38 (PDT)
Think Brothers,

Thanks for that long post. It was great how you stated your view, I totally agree with you!! If you ever want to have a chat you can always e-mail me.


AsianF asianfemale@mail.com    Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 15:24:12 (PDT)
Hey Sir or Madem;

I seeking photos or pictures of Asian female/ african american male relationships .

Coz, my father was half asia & black; you see his mother my grandmother was japanese/thai. She just past away this fall and told her I would try to found out as much as I about asian female/ african american male relationships.

i am currently dating an asia women myself and today i asked her to marry me !!

i just love asia women not because my grandmother but coz i feel comfortable around them.

please feel to send me any photos of asian female/ african american male relationships, coz my grandfather photos were damaged when my grandmother last move back to the states

thanks
Adolphus AKA as "The Purple Dragon "..

Omegaman4 adolphus.bethune@cms.k12.nc.us    Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 14:17:25 (PDT)
"Furthermore, I would like one Asian person here to honestly state that their family/parents/culture, thinks positively of Blacks and encourages these relationships as they might with Whites." Just My 2 Cents

Actually, my husband (who is Malaysian) and I prefer that my daughters marry black or Asian over white. They are still too young though. Personally, I find the whites to be too exclusive. Recent events at the University of Alabama white sororities do not endear whites to me.
Korean Female    Thursday, October 25, 2001 at 13:25:43 (PDT)

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