ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

NeoKat Here:

I need advice from you nice people today. What Asian language is good to learn? I know another language and everybody is trying to tell me to learn French. I'm not interested in that, I want to learn something exotic. I'm not trying to learn for the ladies (but that would be banging). I love different and rare things. A nice (Asian) women taught me about jade and her charisma made me want like an Asian language. I have a need as to why I want to learn. Some help PLEASE!!!!

NeoKat    Friday, December 07, 2001 at 09:33:47 (PST)
Hey everybody,

I've been away for awhile, but I've spent the half hour or so looking over the post on this site. It's good to see some good intellectually stimulating conversations on this poll, for a change.

Peace out!
Casual Dreamer    Thursday, December 06, 2001 at 21:22:28 (PST)
I think I am a very above average looking man. i am intelligent , smart and athlethic. i like the finer things in life too, like art, theatre,watching movies, tv etc. I will like to correspond with that special asian girl (japanese, Chinese, Korean,Fillipina -in US or overseas). I am 27 going on 28 and live in the bay area of San Francisco, Califonia. I plan to travel overseas and visit and see other countries sometime in the future. Drop me a line sometime; tell me about yourself. jp_hank@hotmail.com
jp_hank@hotmail.com jp_hank@hotmail.com    Tuesday, December 04, 2001 at 12:28:15 (PST)
AsianF:
Have a better day yourself !
the visitor    Thursday, November 29, 2001 at 09:33:44 (PST)
Here we go again with the "fetish" bullshit semantics on this board.
Why, because there are always pathetic,
insecure, jealous, loser types who don't want to see another do what they themselves are not capable of. That is simply to know what "YOU" want and go out and "GET IT". Pay no mind to these people who know what is best for you. Follow your own heart. If you want to put any aspect of his life on hold to pursue a relationship, then that's your life and your choice. Go for what you know and don't listen to weak minded people who are secure in their little dictionary defitions of life. Be a fuckin rebel if that's what you want to do. I love Asian woman, so that's who I have beside me. Ask me if I give a shit about what someone calls it.
Ha...I laugh in your face !!!
spare me the fetish bullshit !    Thursday, November 29, 2001 at 09:29:38 (PST)
I am 22 Japanese female. I would like to study English. I am looking for somebody teach me English and some American culuture. I like listen hiphop and r&b. I like watching movie. I will go to New york next year. I really want to see someone.
Saori Watanabe rinaworld2002@hotmail.com    Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 19:39:10 (PST)

the visitor,

Yeah I can see what you're trying to say. I don't have anything against checking out people of the opposite sex :) Have a good day

AsianF
AsianF    Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 14:02:13 (PST)
I'm an 23 year old AF and ironically I've only dated Africian Americian men. My friends are mostly African American, I find that I just feel more comfortable around African Americans. But this has effected the number of Asians that I encounter. Damn, it's hard. I want to be around my people, but it's not that easy when I'm never exposed to them.

dimples    Tuesday, November 27, 2001 at 11:48:33 (PST)
To DanceJunkies,
Don't mean to be judgemental, but you sound like you have an asian fetish to me. Why would you put your romantic life on hold, solely so you can date a group or genre that by your own admission wants little or nothing to do with you?
Work on your self esteem, and then look at other women who see you as worthy of dating.
Philistine    Monday, November 26, 2001 at 13:53:49 (PST)
DanceJunkies:
Sorry to hear bout the Houston honeys.
too bad when the babes you dig jus won't act right. Don't despair, there's got to be some exceptions among those snotty asian girls you've run into.
Suggest you travel and meet Asian women in their own environment. I did !!!
black/asian couple    Sunday, November 25, 2001 at 16:36:18 (PST)
AsianF:
I simply wanted to point out that men, myself included, sometimes just like to check out women that they think are fine. As opposed to staring at a woman with the implication of being a sex object. The former being done with more respect to the person, not just a warm body. It's just the animal magetism of a male (of any race) staring at a woman (of any race) because he's attracted.
If I did misunderstand, my bad, thanks

the visitor    Sunday, November 25, 2001 at 16:28:06 (PST)

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