ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23%
Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

Marduk,
The Korean American woman I mentioned didn't say there was any pressure, she just wants to please her parents and doesn't really sound like she minds it. I guess they've just got traditional tastes. As far as the internet personals go, no pressure mentioned there either. I've just seen a lot of Asian women on one site or another list white men as a preference. Then comes, Hispanic, Pacific Islander, Indian and Asian...no brothas. Yes, there are exceptions and it's not every site you go to, but I just noticed is all. I don't seek out specifically Asian women tho you all are fine. It's just something that leaves me wondering sometimes if I keep reaching deadends with one of the many types of women I like. So the only curiosity is when I'm getting a date and who from. So whattayou think, dragon lady?
Hey, is Tiamat the one w/ 5 heads? I think I saw it on a cartoon once...
irubya    Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 22:27:06 (PST)
elitism ,

You better change the way you feel and post something positive on here for a change. I'm an asian female and I absolutely adore African American men so don't go around making assumptions.

My Top 3

1. Tyson Beckford
2. Will Smith
3. Denzel Washington

AsianF    Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 14:09:48 (PST)
Asian Women:

I asked this before.... but I don't where these other post came from.

What BM do you find attractive?

If you answered previously I'm sorry, but it jumped to talking about BW for some reason.

NeoKat    Thursday, January 17, 2002 at 13:01:12 (PST)
To All Asian Women:

I think I can answer that on behalf of the ladies.

10 - none
9 - none
8 - none
7 - none
6 - none
5 - none
4 - none
3 - none
2 - none
1 - none

We all know that AF almost always prefer the white man. Why bother with them? hah...
elitism    Wednesday, January 16, 2002 at 20:31:27 (PST)
some of the sexiest black men are:

morris chestnut
tyson beckford
the rock
johnny morton
allen iverson

Proud AA woman    Wednesday, January 16, 2002 at 16:28:26 (PST)
To: TJ,

So what else is new?
Tell us something we don't know.    Tuesday, January 15, 2002 at 23:18:18 (PST)
I am married to an asian-american female and I will admit that things were quite great until infidelities destroyed the trust that bound us.
what does 1 do? highstepper@arch.net    Tuesday, January 15, 2002 at 20:38:24 (PST)

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