ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

Hah, don't worry AsianF. I was just having a little fun. I'm so much of a jackass that I would actually think that way. People are too sensitive around here. Hah.
elitism    Sunday, January 20, 2002 at 05:58:28 (PST)
Interesting findings.

You know, being a black man, it is challenging to meet the right person if the right person just happens to be of any ethnic origin other than african-american.

Take me for example:
Irish/colombian (dad)
African american (mom)
Yes, I do have an asian preference, yet, I am open to anyone who floats my boat.

I am somewhat offended when "white boys" , clearly quite lacking in almost every category that matters to most women, get the first nod.

My black brothers (or should I say,my brothers whose skin is darker than Brad Pitt's) that's the card that we've been dealt. Like anythhing else, we've got to work harder and be better, special if you will, you know, unique, dance better, be more artisitic, better people, far superior in the board room, stronger in faith, stronger in character, funnier, more sought after on wall street and in hollywood, look better in sweaters, sexier in suits, smell better with any cologne, continue to be the stealthy trend setters ( albeight trend setters without social recognition/leveraging tools) clearly the champion in the bedroom, better in our displays of reverence for women from our up-bringing and our relationships with the ultimate woman...Mom), better looking naked, better lookin sweatin' , sleeping, in pictures, make prettier babies, the main character in "THE MYTH", feared by all white men (who knows, soon the national hockey league may have enough black players to get a major network deal), we have etnic seasoning my brothers, sure we don't know all the rap lyrics, Why Not? Because our heritage is a song,Gettin Jiggie wit it? Who wrote that? our heritage is our endless poem, these are things which ultimately make us the prize , the catch, the diamond in the rough for the asian queen who will no doubt find herself in disbelief over how much time she's wasted with white boys, never having ever considered "the movement" .
In the end, with or without the asian prize, we emerge the stronger, most feared, most revered....and if not in reality, asian women will want us even more (even if it is still just a deep "dark desire")


Meet Joe Black jkelly5654@aol.com    Saturday, January 19, 2002 at 07:55:23 (PST)
Here's my top 5:

1 Tyson Beckford
2 Nicolas Anelka
3 Shemar Moore
4 Ally McBeal's "Jackson"
5 Tyrese
Eurasian Woman    Saturday, January 19, 2002 at 06:57:28 (PST)
HOLD UP! The Rock is not BLACK, The Rock is actually Asian/pacific, his mother is half samoan half malay and his father is hafl samoan half white. Just clarifying, and for all you people who think Tiger Woods is Black, think again, his mother is thai and his father is half chinese half african american. and did anybody know that Usher is half cambodian.
Chan Klans Diva    Friday, January 18, 2002 at 16:55:56 (PST)
irubya,

I may be wrong, but are most of those adds on the internet from Asian women overseas? That may explain the reason why they do not seem open to relationships with black men. There are a lot of negative stereotypes associated with black people in many Asian countries and all of them are based in nonsense and Holloywood and media crap that ironically comes from the U.S..
I also think that while it may not be very common, it its not that hard to find Asian women who prefer black men even overseas. But I think your best chances of finding her would be in the U.S.
Finally, maybe the handle confused you but I am a guy. And yes Tiamat was also a character on a Saturday morning cartoon called Dungeons and Dragons many years ago. But origially it comes from a 5000 year old Babylonian religious myth that explains the creation of the Universe when she battled to god Marduk.
Marduk    Friday, January 18, 2002 at 14:18:42 (PST)
There are sexy men in every race. If you don't find the men of your race sexy then you have issues. I have seen some very sexy Asian men myself.
Proud AA woman    Friday, January 18, 2002 at 13:06:57 (PST)

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