ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

i got to school where the population is mostly blacks, latinos, and whites, small amount of asians. black guys are kewl , i'm not saying they are better than asians or whites, etc but they are the guys who actually say sup to a stranger and smile .what i like about them most is that if they find a female attractive they'll actually say hi whats ur name girl ,i never had an asian guy know me like that unless we are in the same class , getting introduced by friends. but it dont matter:P all guys of all races wants booty one way or the other:P
babypolarbear    Friday, February 01, 2002 at 01:49:52 (PST)
Sorry Neokat,

I'm only able to converse in one language --- English. I do know many phases in Thai language (mostly, survival phrases for travelers), however, which I've learned from my many Thai friends. I felt it would be useful since I do plan to visit the country one day.

How difficult would it be to learn to speak Thai?...Hmm...I can't really say, but one thing I've noticed that is strikingly different about Thai language, as compared to English, is that Thai language does not have "verb tenses" --- you know, past, present, & future tense (I forgot how they relate those concepts, but they don't do it the way we do). Another thing that I have notice is that some of the words in their phrases differ according to what sex the speaker is:

Example: "I'm fine, thank you" =

Chun sa-bai-dee, kob kun na kha (female speaker use "Chun" & "kha")

Phom sa-bai-dee, kob kun na krab (male speaker use "Phom" & "krab")

Perhaps that'll give you some idea of what their language is like. Hope you found my info. useful. See ya...
Casual Dreamer    Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 15:51:11 (PST)
To NeoKat,

I am struggling with Japanese, but it is slowly getting better. Part of my problems is trying to take classes in the evening, along with working full-time during the day. It's hard to find time to practice and to keep up with the homework load.

The sentence structure is a bitch for me (since it's almost opposite of how we write/think in English.) My biggest hurdle is just accepting that at my age it is possible for me to learn this language, I'm slowly beginning to believe it!

I want to eventually go to school in Japan while I am working for my company there. I am nowhere near ready for the language proficiency exam I will have to take, I'm just going to keep studying and working with this and Lord Willing I'll be ready for the exam by the end of this year.

I know you can do this, you have to practice as often as you can, work hard and BELIEVE you can do it! Oh yes, and be patient with yourself.

Take care,
Thaihorse THAIHORSEyancy@netscape.net    Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 15:04:36 (PST)
Mike:
I'm down with dat, don't forget to include (in my opinion) Indian women !
Some of the damn finest women I've ever laid eyes on ! There's one right around here that makes my liver quiver !
the visitor    Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 13:26:34 (PST)

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