ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

I have always been attracted to asian women, but I have felt and precieved that the asian women precieve african american as unclean. Japanese society has posted and very harsh stereo typical images of african americans in their artwork and advertisement. Many of their past drawings depict us as sambo's or something much more hurtful. I'm sorry it's that way; just like our american society has sown the fabric of racism into its inner workings so main stream chinese and japanese cultures have done the same. The sofest heart of asian women toward african american men Is to be found in women from the phillipines.
Willski heyski@hotmail.com    Monday, March 25, 2002 at 12:35:17 (PST)
Doesn't seem as if blacks and asians do a whole lot of positive mixing. that's changing of course. i think your approach is fine, but it may intimidate most asian girls, since many don't really consider dating black guys. i guess your best bet is to become friends with one first, get to know her. it'll benefit you more, then you can allow your personality to come into play.
Kristen    Monday, March 25, 2002 at 01:10:25 (PST)
Asian women are nice to look at. Developed a crush on a Korean girl in middle school.
jimmy I59866363@aol.com    Saturday, March 23, 2002 at 17:39:31 (PST)
ASKING ALL ASIAN WOMEN OUT THERE

PLEASE HELP ME OUT

I am a 24 year old Black man living in New York City. Interracial Relationships are pretty common here. I can seem to get a date with an Asian woman. I am a pretty attractive guy 6'4'' in height, slim body with muscles. What am I doing wrong? I am pretty open about my feelings and have no problem going up to a woman and telling her that I think she is beautiful and how I would like to spend some time getting to know her better. I am not shy. At the same token, I am not disrepsectful in my appraoch like: Yo baby yo, Can I get some of that?"

The last woman I apporached started smiling almost in embarrasment or intimidation. She seemed uncomfortable.
I want to know, Is there a certain way I should approach Asian girls?

How do asian men approach asian women they are interested in?

what am i doing wrong?

do asain women want a guy to be very straight foward in expressing his interest, or is this a turn off?

-Anxiously Awaiting
Silent Rhythm Man

Silent rhythm man aaroneliot@aol.com    Saturday, March 23, 2002 at 13:03:05 (PST)
As the survivor of one beautiful relationship soured by family disapproval, I was shoked to see that the majority of asian females think we black men might find them unattractive! I really found that surprising since everyone is always raving about how beautiful they are, even black women.
Muhammad RMuhammad99@Hotmail.com    Thursday, March 21, 2002 at 12:24:33 (PST)

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