ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

My life

You're probably a phony or a loser or both. Try getting lost.
Philisit    Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 07:58:24 (PDT)
After the new posting format was introduced, I was almost at the point where I was about to remove my bookmark to Goldsea. This old format is great and is really conducive to the fluid conversation and the exchange of ideas.
Out with the new, in with the old.
Philisit    Thursday, April 18, 2002 at 07:53:38 (PDT)
I once dated an asian woman when I was college. I'm a young balck male. This asian woman was from Taiwan. I went even as far a going to see her in Taiwan, but I was not accepted by her family. Her family would not even let her come back and study, because she love me being a black male. I hope people can open their eyes and see was on the inside. To make a long story short I was deeply hurt. I felt like never dating an asian woman again
Russell Rutness1@aol.com    Wednesday, April 17, 2002 at 01:07:56 (PDT)
It's great to see our old post set-up is back. If something aint broke why try to fix it. I never did like that instant post thing.

What's old is New    Tuesday, April 16, 2002 at 13:48:49 (PDT)
Yes, it does exist and it isn't as strange as many people may think. I'm talking as an attractive, intelligent Asian female happily involved with a wonderful, kind and sincere Black-African man. We have never felt that our skin colour and cultural differences has ever interfered with our relationship. Infact, it has only served to build it and add interest and beauty. Beneath it all, we share the same hopes, dreams and values and that is what REALLY counts when two people are in love. People may not accept or understand our relationship, but that isn't our problem and we do let it concern us. The problem lies in the ignorance and insecurity of people to see outside stereotype. They can only express their uneasiness through narrowed minds as sarcasm, anger or agression. My parents have come to accept our relationship, and if they can do that then there is hope that society will become more accepting and welcoming of mixed relationships.
Asian and open-minded    Monday, April 15, 2002 at 15:20:06 (PDT)
I am 27 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. I have seen some asian women where I live but I do not approach them. Unfortunantly, where I live being a Black male = Criminal in the minds of everyone in my community. This reality impacts my life and has been the prevailing reason behind my loneliness. I stay to myself here. And in the past, Out of the BLUE I have been accussed of rape and other crimes against white people(women)in public. Lies of course but it didn't prevent the Police here from surrounding me with their guns and pointing them in my face. Being a Black man is one of the worst things in the world in America to be. I have given up any hope of meeting anyone in my life. I am just trying with all I have left to move away from this place. So I can be free and to try to live a life as a human being. I just find it difficult to believe that Asian women actually date black men. Where I live Asian/White women usually clench their purses and run from black men. Or act as though we are invisisble/non-person.
My life    Monday, April 15, 2002 at 04:40:33 (PDT)

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