ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

i believe that the combination of phyical strenght and power in the african male, and the intelligence and femininity of the asian female would produce a "super-race" of advanced humans like never before in mankind.

think about it*
fearless    Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 11:02:34 (PDT)
Jing Cha:
dead ahead, best of luck !

Thaihorse:
what are you still doing here man ? I hope not just dreaming. I'll be glad for you when you stop wishing and wanting and take action to find the woman you have been waiting for. Yes, good things come to those who wait, but not to those who wait too late !!! Stop wishing waiting and wanting and put a plan of action into play NOW! Make that the last time I have to tell you !
Peace and good luck !
p.s. do you want to meet my sis-in-law from the Philippines or not man ??? (smile)
Black/Asian couple    Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 14:20:42 (PDT)
Proud Asian Canadian:
true true true, your honesty here can help us all understand a little better.
So many of your Asian sisters in America (white wannabes) could learn a lifetime of lessons form you in an instant.
joe    Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 14:14:21 (PDT)
Darryl:
you're making me sick over here guy !
Get up from you knees and stop behaving like a whining wimp. You give all stand up brothers and non brothers a bad name.
It all has to do with being a man in the truest sense of the word. That is not to say a man doesn't pursue, charm, and seduce his way into a woman's heart. That's exactly what you're supposed to do, but when you are whining and begging for a chance like a lost kitten, no woman in her right man will respect you as a man.
No respect, no love my brother.
Get up off your knees straighten out your back, go out a find a woman that finds you equally worthwhile, and will allow you to be the vanguard of the relationship. Need any more REAL advice, don't hesitate to ask. Good luck !!!
Asian or not, no women is worth being a fool over.    Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 14:11:41 (PDT)
attention asian women and black men . asian women talk to us and see if we do! 99% of all of us will love the heck outta you i know i do. black quit "frontin'actin something your not and talk them!. ohh and asian women one more thing, black men and asian women make the i say t-h-e most beautiful baby ive every seen in me entire lifetime boy or girl. guarenteed.
the blaq medicinedragon    Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 11:15:39 (PDT)
To Jing Cha:

That's wonderful news! I wish the best for both of you. I think it takes a lot of courage to go to live in a different country and to learn the language and culture. People like you help me to believe that I will also be able to do this someday. I've started out very late in life to prepare for this kind of life change (I'll be 37 this summer) but I feel it's better "late than never".

I'm about 2 1/2 years from my goal of being able to move to Asia but as long as I get to see postings like yours I'll be able to keep inspired and working towards my goal.

Take care and keep us posted!
Thaihorse THAIHORSEyancy@netscape.net    Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 09:27:08 (PDT)
I am a NYC Black Male who went to China, Shanghai to study Chinese language further.
I was so suprised about the women there.
The prettiest, Tallest Chinese women I have ever seen. Their faces were so much different than in America and their bodies were much fuller.
I met an Absolutely beutiful girl over their who Fell in love with me. Im going back to China from August 27 --December 20 to be with her and attend FUDAN UNIVERSITY.
Im sure this will work out.
Jing Cha hkpdjingcha@yahoo.com    Monday, May 20, 2002 at 05:31:13 (PDT)
It sounds like I'd better consider going to Toronto for my summer vacation this year!
Thaihorse    Sunday, May 19, 2002 at 20:04:38 (PDT)

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