ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23%
Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

To Black/Asian couple: I have waited far too long to get started but I'm not just dreaming, I'm working hard every day getting my mind, body and soul, educational and financial situation in order to live my life the way I want to.

I have spent a good part of my life follwing a different path. To turn in a different direction now is not easy, I'm literally dismantalling ties that it took me years to build in order to build new ones. I am training to do work that I have never done before in order to have the skills neded to find suitable work in Asia.

I'm not happy with having to wait a while longer but I know I have to in order to do this right.

It helps me by reading positive posts from people like yourself, I wish I could meet your sister-in-law :) But don't worry about me, I'm not just waiting on the sidelines, my time is coming!
Thaihorse THAIHORSEyancy@netscape.net    Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 19:15:24 (PDT)
Thaihorse,
They are right. I was in Toronto for one day last year and instantly loved the city. It is literally a melting pot of diversity.

Because of that one trip, I've thought of leaving the U.S. and becoming a Canadian.

The cultural mixes there you just see on the street are amazing.
Six-Ten Black Male elronin@insight.rr.com    Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 16:59:12 (PDT)
fearless:
I'm not so sure about creating a "super race" but the black/asian combination sure as hell can make some "gorgeous" babies. I know.....
Black/Asian couple    Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 13:03:53 (PDT)

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