ASIAN FEMALE/ AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to African American males?
Their facial features | 45%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 32%
Their education & cultural values | 11%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with African American males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 64%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 23% 		Assuming you are an African American male, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 62%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 10%

Assuming you are an African American male, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 81%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 12%

You're a good man Thaihorse. You're really taking steps toward self improvement and reaching your goal. Now I want to comment on some of the things I've read here. I think black-asian people are some of the best and most interesting looking people.
I don't think I believe in a super race but it's certainly an interesting mix.

It's kind of dumb for an asian-american to want to act white. If I actually knew what country my ancestors came from I'd take a real interest in it. And if someone in my family, like mabey a parent or grand- parent spoke a foreign language I'd probably try to learn it and use it!

It's really encouraging to here about Toronto. Are there many asian people there?
I never really kmew much about the place. I might move to Toronto or someplace else one day. Even though I think Japan is the coolest!, I wouldn't want to go there.
I'm not brave enough to move someplace THAT foreign. Fear of rejection.

That's enough of my babbling. Go on about your bussiness as usual everyone. :)

Andrew, black M, 19    Saturday, May 25, 2002 at 11:35:44 (PDT)
Asian or not, no women is worth being a fool over:

I understand what your saying. I am not some whimp. I just really love this woman. I don't know if she is the one for me or not. It feels like we are soulmates. I don't want to give her up without knowing for sure. If I do that I will never know the answer. How do you know if the woman is really that special one? The one you are meant to be with? Shes just started coming to my baseball games to see me play lately. But she sits in the car parked across the street. I can't get her to come and sit with the rest of the crowd in the bleachers. She told me a couple of days ago she was thinking about me. She is looking for a man with security, and I can give that to her. But she just needs to give me that full chance. Know what I'm saying?
I hope I don't sound like some whimp or something. I just feel something for her Ive never felt for any woman before. I don't know if I will ever find that again. I can't even look at another woman without thinking about her. Its embarrassing but true. I hate feeling like this.
Darryl M.    Saturday, May 25, 2002 at 11:09:38 (PDT)
Thaihorse:
I hear you !!! As always I'm in your corner.
Black/Asian couple    Friday, May 24, 2002 at 12:35:32 (PDT)

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