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Cassandra:
You and your "man", I use the term loosely, deserve each other. Whatever the case may be, you should pray the same thing doesn't happen to you. Your "man" was tired of blondie, and he was looking for something new. You walked in, and you got him. So I really wonder, how long will YOU be able to keep him interested until he tires of you?
WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND!
Friday, January 11, 2002 at 05:08:17 (PST)
Asian Dominatrix you need help too! You are self-centered and insecure just like Cassnadra. Me, I don't give a shit about blonde women. I'm secure enough to be an Asian woman. I don't love White women but I don't hate them either. I don't hold grudges to anyone.
You and Cassnadra only see 'one' side of the coin. You forgot to think that blondie was also a WOMAN just like YOU. Can you feel me? Why not put yourselves in her shoes? No matter how unworthy blondie was for the love of james (or james doesn't love her anymore) she still doesn't desrve to be cheated (unless she's also cheating on james, of course). You see thye were an item.
I believe Cassandra should have first let james end *officialy* his relationships with blondie before anything happen between them. No matter what you say James and Cassandra had cheated on blondie. And its'definitely wrong. At the time James realized that he'll be better-off with Cassandra he should at once decided to break-up with blondie. This how i see it, James was lacking in dispositon and Cassandra only thought what was good for her (AND FOR JAMES)and neglected the feelings of the 'unworthy' girlfriend blondie. Wasn't fair, was it?
I believe that Cassandra really liked James and wanted the best for him. She knew that blondie was not the right girl for him. That is absolutely fine. At the same time, I cannot help but think that Cassandra was also challenged by blondie that was why she seduced and slept with James to steal him from her. I could sense that Cassandra have a malice toward blondie right from the start. You see, she is so proud and happy that blondie is now living a 'miserable' life because she STOLEN her BOYFRIEND! I thnik blondie has a right to hold grudges toward you Cassandra but you, you don't have a right to hate her anymore because you already defeat her by winning her boyfriend and having her live a BITTER, PATHETIC life. I pity her, you SHOULD pity her and not take joy of her sad fate. I just hope no one will steal your James from you-- better WATCH OUT!
no wonder why Asian women are seen as easy!
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 22:28:34 (PST)
Filipina Girl 79:
I don't think Cassandra's husband understands the gravity of his actions. Cassandra’s husband wasn’t totally cool at all. Even if the blondie did not deserve his attention, he should not have fallen for Cassandra. Both James and blondie were a couple. They were an item. Cassandra should have made that discovery herself and left James alone. As for Cassandra saying that James and blondie are Americans, sure they are, but they are also “European-American”. Their ancestors were European so they are both European and American, even more so if they look European,white and blonde, mwahahahaha! American does not equal white although you may think so.
Mai, an Asian American Female
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 16:14:15 (PST)
"Frankly, it's about high time Asian women started reversing the Madame Butterfly scenario: you know, the one where the white man with the Asian sweetheart gets stolen by the white woman so that the Asian woman is left to commit suicide."
Has happened on more than one occasion here in the good old USA. Parents did not want an Asian daughter in law or sisters did not want an Asian sister in law.
"Who says the Asian woman has to lose out to the white woman all or even some of the time?"
Courtney Weaver and many other white American females who find the white man with an Asian female revolting. I work for an international organization and there are several white American women here who think that way despite their international travels! They do not want to date men of other races or even other nationalities.
"Cassandra's story is a hysterical inversion: stupid, pudgy blonde bimbo loses out to a sleek, smart, and educated Asian woman before spending her afterlife getting fat,double-digit sized, depressed, and wailing over Asian women 'stealing their men.' (Screenwriters, are you listening?)"
They should base the story in Singapore...there are plenty of racist white American women there, who would not even sit near a local Asian man and who complain all the time about white men being stolen by the local Asian women. Their contempt and hatred runs deep.
"BTW, if white women--not all, just the stupid ones--are so upset about Asian women stealing their men, why don't they go and 'steal' some Asian men for comeuppance?! Nah, most of those stupid doubledigit IQ bimbos are too consumed with hatred and too racist to do anything with a modicum of sense. They deserve all the rejection they get."
Great point....you are really smart, Asian Dominatrix. I just provided you some support with evidence above. But, I would say about 50% of the white American women, particularly the ones in Dallas and Southern Virginia. You stole "our" (as defined by whiteness and sharp features) men, they say.
Asian American Male
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 16:04:23 (PST)
Asian Dominatrix I missed you...
I missed the sound of your leather-undies rubbing against the moon child.
And whenever I am lonely and in need of companionship, other than my cellmate, I just click my heals together and say, "there is no one who can write like asian dominatrix."
Albialockedup
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 13:27:31 (PST)
No wonder...:
My nationality is AMERICAN. My ANCESTRY is CHINESE. Anytime some ignorant person asks "Where are you from?" I answer "Texas." If they then ask "Where are you REALLY from?" I answer "Sugar Land, Texas." I am proud of my Chinese ancestry--but I keep it in perspective, it is ANCESTRY.
Would your reaction to me be just as nasty if James had been Asian American like me? Probably not. You'd proably say "All's fair in love and war." and move on.
Filipina79:
You're still young, naive and idealistic. True, maybe it was "less than honorable" for me to go after James when he was spoken for, but as I said before, I got a vibe from him that he wasn't happy with his present situation and I knew he wanted me. Rather than wait for the whole thing to play out like a "demure little lotus blossom", I decided to take charge of the situation and go after whom I wanted: James.
That's not a sign of a lack of education, that's a sign of a woman acting from a position of strength and knowing what she wants. What James and I will tell the kids is that James had another situation which wouldn't have been right and that I stepped in and rescued him from it. That's what actually happened--and in James' own words no less.
My degrees and resumé are proof my education in School and in Business. My actions are proof of my education in the school of LIFE. By that definition Ms. Filipina, you are UNEDUCATED in the school of LIFE! However, there is hope for you.
Asian Dominatrix: Thanks for the understanding and the perspective. I'm no dragon lady, but I'm definitely no Madame Butterly or Kim form Miss Saigon either!
Cassandra--UT Alumna
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 12:31:05 (PST)
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