ASIAN FEMALE/ LATINO RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most attracts you to Latinos?
Their facial features | 58%
Their physique | 7%
Their attitude and personality | 18%
Their education & cultural values | 17%

Assuming you are an Asian female, what most dissuades you from relations with Latinos?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 21% 		Assuming you are a Latino, what most attracts you to Asian females?
Their facial features | 70%
Their physique | 13%
Their attitude and personality | 12%
Their education & cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a Latino, what most dissuades you from relations with Asian females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 76%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 16%
Frank,

You sound like a victim. If you are one please do not act like one. People always take advantage of people who pose as such.

I can only give you two advices. One, have a bit more of confidence and be proud of who you are. If people put you down you can always argue in a civilized manner.

Two, try to undestand why they are saying what they are saying and evaluate if their friendship is worth your time. The people who you are talking about seem to lack respect and culture, and if they did have some education they actually seem to lack it.

Until later,
LatinoMan buen_latino@hotmail.com    Monday, July 15, 2002 at 09:32:03 (PDT)
Frank,

I can understand where you're coming from when it comes to some of the crap that people throw out. I also understand that you can become IMMUNE to it, to the point where you BLOW IT OFF and move on to the next adventure.
You might also want to ask yourself why you think you need their approval so much; what is important to you about having them like you?

I think you know that neediness will PUSH most people away. The best piece of advice I've gotten regarding women, and people in general, is that you are better off letting THEM do most of the chasing. Give them a taste of what they want, then YANK that s*** AWAY and watch them CRAWL for it. This is true of most people. Use it at your own risk. >:-)
-Notty Boy orgazm_donor@hotmail.com    Thursday, July 11, 2002 at 07:30:14 (PDT)
Frank,

Hang in there. Don't give up.

I have the same feelings towards Mexican women.

Mexican women fall for the white boys too. I thought they were after blacks, but I know it is not the case.
It was all up in my head.

One thing I noticed is that both Latino and Asian guys don't go after the heavier girls (compared to African-American guys).

Asian and Latino men want only the young and finest chick that is out there. Fact is that most young and fine Asian girls already are taken or have an Asian boyfriend. Likewise, it is the same with fine, young Latina females.

We have to stick around, be patient and find one that is available.

Keep trying    Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 23:18:11 (PDT)
Frank,
Stop chasing after what you cannot have. If it is completely out of your grasp: Why continue to try it? Its obviously a hopeless case. Let it go.
its hopeless. Move onto more important things in your life    Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 13:54:36 (PDT)
Yes, I have fallen in love with Keiko Harada which I will always remember.
She had to return to Japan two years ago.
I have meet Japanese American females which are totally diffrent from Keiko.
I am always being put down because of being Mexican american because we don't learn or our education is so behind.
It's like no matter how much I try to say, I love you or I want to be your friend, I am put down, you don't speak spanish do you, because I don't.
It's like anything Spanish is stupid..
It's as if they are White Racist but Asian.
Then, I had about three or four asain friends which they always run to the White male. After, I have proven how much I love them. Then they get pregenant and the white guy leaves...

Well, I am still trying, but once I find the right one, I wil finally give in....
I love the personality the beutiful smile and the love...
I presenlty have alot of asian friends and I love the love we have for each other...
If, I ever meet her, I will settle down....

Frank micasacal@yahoo.com    Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 10:46:45 (PDT)
I can't speak for all Latin males but from my observations it seems that we're very sensitive to medium size (not fat) curved frames. I recalled being obsessed with thin figures, but this changed as I figured that it's the curves what makes the woman. I think that women with curves look very sexy to Latin men as they express a feminine side that flat hips may hide. Obviously, this is just my train of thought and there's always space for other sexual attraction theories.
LatinoMan buen_latino@hotmail.com    Wednesday, July 10, 2002 at 09:36:27 (PDT)
I believe asian women are all around the most appealing women out there. They are exotic, intellectual and very dedicated to the love ones in there life.Also most important they are very family oriented just as us latino men are. I have dated asian women but because of culture reason married an latina, boy was that a mistake.Has a move on I will need to follow my instincts on this one.
Mr latino bmwlandrover@hotmail.com    Tuesday, July 09, 2002 at 20:51:39 (PDT)
When it comes to being atracted to Asian females, curves do not necessarily matter to me. They don't have to have curves but what I DO require is some thickness in a lady. I never liked thin girls because they appear too young, stiff, and anorexic (Please... I mean no harm); I often hit on tall Asian females of about 5'6" and above. (I'm 5'10")--with weight size according to their height would be about 115-135 more or less (IF they are tall). I could never date a female who is 110 or even under 100 with that kind of height. Though I may prefer tall Asian girls I still wouldn't turn down other girls as long as they are warm-hearted and don't mind having a Latino for a friend. I feel that though looks may play a role in MY preferences of women, a female who is sweet and confident in herself is what will win me over.
Elpi arnoldsemail@juno.com    Monday, July 08, 2002 at 20:20:28 (PDT)

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