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No I am not finished!
And do NOT come at me with that "White women and Asian women do the same thing" because I am well aware of how trashy they can be with Black men. But that aint the point. The point is just because someone else does something doesn't mean its okay for you to do it.
White women have this racist White ran and dominated society and the media backing up thier images even when its well known that they are trashy and slutty. They still have POSITIVE images and most men will never chalk up thier experiences with one or two trashy White women since they have more interactions with White women on a daily basis and see many positive images of White women in the media to even out the bad images of White women or the trashy White women they may know.
Asian women do not have it that great in the image department either and yes they play themselves HORRIBLY for White men (I have seen it with my own eyes and its not pretty), but its still NOT OKAY for Black women to act the same way. Of course there are plenty respectable Asian women who date interracially but they are overshadowed by the negative ones because RACIST SOCIETY likes to make minority women look like dummies so they will never focus on the positive ones who respect theselves. If Black women come to that, then I am turning in my Black woman card for GOOD! LOL.
We are viewed and treated the worse in America in terms of women and its alot harder for Black women to be taken on our positive attributes rather than the negative. People will always focus on the negative attributes some Black women have and put all Black women in the same catagory.
Sistas need to work a little harder at making sure they are providing more positive attributes than negative to other men when it comes to intimacy.
Black women have never had control of our sexuality because since the day we set foot on American soil we were raped and abused by WHite men and told that it was done because we were dumb animalistic whores who did not deserve love and who were "good at sex" . that is why I am baffled and amazed at how some Black women can just easily be a hoe and live up to that stereotype instead of trying harder to respect herself as a woman and Black woman.
Damn, can yall at least show some damn respect to the Black women who had no control over their sexuality and who had no choice but to give into men! I am sure our ancestor women are doing cartwheels and backflips and dropkicks in their graves seeing how so many Black women are acting out what the slavemasters said of Black women and what SOCIETY THINKS of Black women. DUMB, OVERSEXED, EASY and DESPERATE. This is NOT the way we should be behvaing for our Non Black partners or ANY MAN in general little girls!
And take my message as a sister to another sister. Because nothing I said in my posts are going to hurt you unless the TRUTH hurts.
LATA
A disturbed Black woman vanillavixen@yahoo.com
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 09:52:30 (PST)
I'm not done preaching yet dammit!
Anyways continuing with my previous post...
I do not think I can bare anymore of the stereotypes being perpetuated by BLACK WOMEN who are desperate to get a man and think by screwing or whatever other freaky things you do with your "Boyfreinds" or "boyfreind's FRIENDS" and one night stands is going to get you anywhere with these trashy men who are using your dumb Black butts.
If you are going to date Non Black men PLEASE think about the rest of us Black women and stop making Black women appear like the stereotypes that are perpetuated about us.
Either that or get some damn "self love" and "self respect" counseling and stop playing yourself as women. Ultimatley it is YOU who feels nad looks like the fool after your Non black man (who you think loves and respects you even after asking you to fuck him and his friend at the same time or sleeping with him on fist interaction -- LOL what a waste) who will think up some "nice way" to dump you after he has fulfilled his sexual curiousity about Black women. And trust me it WILL happen since its all too easy for a non Black man to think up some good reason why the relationship "won't work" due to his family etc etc. And then your dumb Black butt is left standing in the cold looking DUMB and wondering why that happened since you thought he "loved" you for being a whore for him.
Remember this my hood rat sistas who think they are in love and being loved by thier non Black partners who treat them like whores:
In interracial relationships dumping someone you do not wish to be with any longer or dumping someone who you just USED for sexual purposes is alot EASIER to do than same race relationships because one can always use the racial aspect to end the relationship like "I just feel uncomfortable" or "My family is pressuring me" etc.
I wish some of you silly broads would use your heads for once and stop using your twat to make your sorry decisions!
I know I will catch heat for my posts, but oh well, bring it baby!
A disturbed Black woman vanillavixen@yahoo.com
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 09:35:24 (PST)
To all the trashy Black women who sleep around and give up the poonannie quickly.
Are you "sisters" (and I use the term loosley because no sistas of mine act like some of these trashy Black women who are asking stupid questions and being used by Asian men) aware of the reputations of Black women with men of all races?
Or maybe I should ask. DO Black women really CARE about how we are viewed as a whole? If you don't then that will explain why its so EASY for many of you to be EASY.
The one thing Black women should certainly avoid is playing themselves and making trashy whores of themselves for Non black men. If Black women wish to do that (act like hoes in heat), they are better off staying with Black men beause at least there will always be Black men who can seperate the trash from the intelligent beautiful Black women.
Non Black men have no connections whatsoever to Black women historically, or culturally so its easy for them to have a couple experiences with one or two trashy no value having Black women and chalk it up as MOST Black women being this way. Of course they would never think that of all ASIAN WOMEN since they have historical and cultural ties to them and will give them the benefit of the doubt.
ANd usually non Black men (unlike Black men who date interracially) use Black women and will DATE them (just to have some coochie around) but when they come across a stupid Black woman who they are dating and pretending to be all in love with (while asking them to have a threesome with him and his pal) you better BELIEVE your Black butt aint going to the alter if you even last a good month after he gets tired of hoeing you around.
I wish you trashy Black women would leave the interracial dating game to some of us smarter more self respecting Black women and stay with the brothers if you want to act like whores in heat.At least the brothers will give the smarter intelligent Black women the benefit of the doubt since they have Black mothers and sisters who probably aren't like the dumb Black broads they meet in the street.
This is not the same case for non black men and asian men. they do not have black mothers, or black sisters, or black nieces, or black daughters to give them a better view of black women when they meet easy trashy sluty black women. if a asian man comes across five slutty asian women, you better believe he has ten more asian women in his family that he knows are respectable women and therefore will give asian women the benefit of the doubt when forming opinions about them as a whole. the same holds true for black men and black women.
this is not the same case for black women screwing and dating asian men and other non black men. therefore, my hood rat sistas, their impressions of black women nine times out of nine will come from their interactions with black women plus the images they see in the media of black women (which are horrid to begin and end with) since they have no close black female relatives. and since their are no black women in their families they can look to when they start thinking all black women are whores that will do anything to please a man, they will develop impressions on sistas based on the sistas they know (or should i say screw and use for sex)plus see on tv and in media.
i am sure that you dummies have thought about the fact that non black men do not even have positive images to see of black women in the media which is even more reason to respect yourself and give black women a good name when you are dating or meeting asian or other non black men on an intimate level. that is your time to show them the true deal with black women. not to show them what they and others already think and hear of black women (that we will open our legs for a 40 oz and nail coupon)! gawd!
unfortunatley, if they are not meeting decent black women to even out the indecent black women they are metting, then guess what? yeah you know. i shouldn't have to spell this out for you broads! your mommas should have told your butts this early on!
A disturbed Black woman vanillavixen@yahoo.com
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 09:33:26 (PST)
To just wanting to know, (this will be very long)
As a Black woman I personally feel your friend who did that is a perfect example of why Black women are disrepected and seen as nothing but sex whores to many men of different races (including Black). Also, her actions are another reason why Black women cannot hold onto men very long. I am also more disturbed that she played herself for two men of another race. I am sure they are now sitting back wondering who the next "Black whore" they can beg into their threesome will be.
Is your pal aware of the stereotypes Non black men have of Black women? Is your PAL aware of the reality that many Non Black men seek out and will even date to bed Black women as an experiment and that when Black women like your friend do dumb ish like she did, that it affects all Black women indirectly?
I am not against interracial dating. I have a non Black partner myself (not Asian) who I have been with for two and a half years.
I am sure her boyfriend has lost what LITTLE (if he even had any in the first place) respect he may have had for her after she allowed them to treat her and her body like a whore.
I say "little respect" because no man who respects his lady would even think to ask her to have sex with hiim and his friend. How disgusting!
yes I know other races of women do some nasty and trifling things with Black men as well. I guess there will always be pathetic women of all races who'll do anything to please a man. But Black women need to be more conscious of what we do since we never get the same benefit of the doubt as non Black women (thanks to racism and stereotypes).
If your friend's boyfreind respected her and truley loved her he would NEVER share her body with another man. Obviously he has no plans on being with her forever because no man who respects a woman would share her or THINK about sharing her sexually, mentally or emotionally with anyone else.
In my own opinion, your friend is not only a pathetic whore but she played herself and did all Black women a great disservice when she decided that it was okay to let two Non Black men bed her at one time. One has to be very insecure to do something like that. If I sound harsh then that is how I feel everytime I see another Black woman play herself and live up to the freaky stereotypes we have. Maybe its just me. But if my man asked me to do some ish like that, I would dump him so fast his head would spin.
I bet the two Asian men (yes her man too) are just sitting back laughing at her. Just another way to use another stupid Black woman with no values. How sad for your friend.
If i am sounding judgemental, then I am being judgemental since you asked how sistas feel about doing it. A woman's body should be treated like a prize not some freak machine for two men to have their way. What are Black women coming to? Are we this desperate to please men? You might as well stay with Black men if you want to act stupid and live up to stereotypes. UGH!
A disturbed Black woman vanillavixen@yahoo.com
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 08:53:12 (PST)
What's going on here?? are black women for real or what?? or someone is just posting insulting posts here disguising as a black female!
Threesome with an Asian male?? have you "ladies" gone mad or what?? everyone of you sounds ridiculous and desperate!
The vast majority of you are an embarassment to black race period! especially blkanzgirl and Just Wanting to Know!
oh my god!
Chineseguy married to a black lady! respect yourselves!
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 01:30:46 (PST)
hi y'all...i'm a 20/black f/california who has a lil thang for asian guys...if any y'all gotta pic...send it to me cuz i wanna see what u fine asian dudes on this site look like...
hot_choco hot_choco_99@yahoo.com
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 01:29:30 (PST)
Farrah,
Thank you for the LOVE.
To Girl X:
Hmmmm.
And where might you live? That's is alot of contact with the Asian Male species you got going on there.
Tell me, is it possible you live in the Bay Area ?
Racer X
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 00:37:51 (PST)
Three consenting adults deciding to explore their sexuality together doesn't make anybody a whore. People CAN really do what they want in their own homes, right?
Whoa, two Asian guys, one Black female...dang, they must have all worn each other out!!!
Racer X
Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 23:52:04 (PST)
Hi again. Well i would just like to say that the whole asian/black thing is sooooo not new. i live in the south. In one of the most racist states ever. Growing up I saw enough asian male/black female relationships to know that this is not something that has all of a sudden just happened..as many others know as well. I still do see these relationships from time to time..I have even had asian guys attempt to pick me up. To me all this blabbering about asian males liking only certain black females is really a bunch of bull crap. Some of you guys need to get awaaaaaay from the screens and go into the real world and actually met people in a physical setting. And all of the asian male /black female relationships that i have ever witnessed has never been with lighter skinned black females. I guess maybe because where i live lighter skinned females tend to like darker skinned black guys..i don't know. Also i have asian male friends who i know very well and hang out with, go to church with , shop with etc.I think it just comes down to living your own life and stop comparing yourself to other people all the time. And for your sake stop looking for love and let love find you. It might be an asian male who you fall in love with and who falls in love with you and..it might not, but along the way i'm sure you will make some great friends :) i know i have..
remember 1 out of 5 people or asian.
keep the hope alive!..
DEME
Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 23:49:12 (PST)
i've never heard of any asian man begging a black woman for sex. much less two asian men begging a black woman for sex.
dream on just wanting to know
Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 23:28:04 (PST)
Just Wanting To Know! I know that couple that you're talking about and I would say she is a slut and a careless one at that. Both of those men, yes, including her boyfriend are bisexual and they are known to be promiscuous men which make them High Risk. As someone here had previously said, it's too suicidal to jump without thinking into any type of sexual situation. Besides any real, regardless of his ethnicity, wouldn't want to share his woman with another man. The boyfriend showed how little he thinks of his girlfriend's reputation and safety and his girlfriend showed how spineless she is to comply to such a thing. Some black women are too weak minded and that's not good.
blkazngirl
Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 23:25:25 (PST)
i feel like some coco pops (not sure what that means i just thought of the word brown with coco) :
Duh. One tastes like vanilla and the other tastes like chocolate.
skwezeh
Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 16:42:40 (PST)
I am so glad that there are some Asian brothas who dig black females. More eye candy for the soul sistas!
Eww...coco puffs (not pops). lol!
No offense, thats extreme.
I heard that Asian men are good lovers.
Yummy! Are they good kissers?
Hippie Chick
Tuesday, January 08, 2002 at 14:56:23 (PST)
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