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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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To Chinese married ...
It's obviouse that someone is trying to cause trouble. I would never think of doing that to dishonor myself let alone my Chinese father or my Black mother.
I do have to say, it this keeps up in the forum, I will leave and find some other. blkazngirl@hotmail.com
PS: nasty comments from anyone will not be answered.
Real blkazgirl
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 10:39:24 (PST)
To answer your questions, Yes someone is using someone else name. Because the comment that they made using my name is not coming from my mouth or head. It's sad when the "SICK-O" has to use someone elses ID. I was hoping that the sick people would not find their way to such a nice forum. They just like causing trouble.
To the person using my name. Grow-up and get a name of your own. Because if you "really" wanted to be know with some "Asian and Black" ID you wouldn't be downing youself.
The Real Blkazngirl
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 10:20:05 (PST)
Disturbed:
While the general principle behind your posts are somewhat reasonable, I think many of your premeses are questionable. They illustrate the very paradox of being a woman and a person of color today. Not to mention, they raise debatable moral and ethical issues that may not apply to every woman of color as individuals. A great deal of women who do not fit this Jezebel stereotype may find this offensive not because they are "guilty as charged," but because you set up rules and values which may or may not apply to each woman as individuals. As much as you speak about uplifting black women, please do not forget that this is America you are talking about.
Green
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 07:10:42 (PST)
A disturbed black woman:
Wow girl! I think you really needed to vent. Those posts were rather lengthy however, I do agree with some of the points that you make. Self respect, love and pride are very necessary. If we don't have these traits how do we expect anyone to truly love us back. When I fist started coming to this site it was positive. Now it has become rather vulger. Like I'vs stated in earlier posts "We have found the enemy and it is us".
Peace, Love and Blessings
CrzySxyCool csc9@cornell.edu
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 04:55:40 (PST)
People, people, hear yourselves for a sec. Now, none of you have probably thought about the possibility of the three people involved in this act. Ever heard of polyamory? It does exist in this society. ( And I am NOT talking about Mormons. ) Alternative lifestyles is I guess the politically correct grouping. Some folks share partners willingly and of their own discretion. Do you really think that this woman was just doing it to please her guy? What about her own pleasure? I'm just playing devil's advocate here, you know. It's ok girls. I know that across the board, black women can be quite conservative about the subject of sex. It's a funny thing because it borderlines Japanese mentality at times. Strange.
A disturbed Black woman: What's wrong with being comfortable with sex. How can you tell when someone does something out of desperation or need? what IS oversexed? What people do in the privacy of their homes isn't going to change what society thinks at all.
To blkazngirl:
hmmmmm... the guys bisexual? girlfriend not? Maybe the girl likes girlie-boys? I am thinking that these folks are all living an alternative lifestyle. If the boyfriend is bisexual, of course he would want to bring someone else in on it. I think that's why women/men date bisexuals in the first place. I guess.
It's hard not to hear all the stories, living in the Bay Area and all, people live quite differently out here.
Takeshida
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 01:33:28 (PST)
Nice rant, lady. Now try summarizing your thoughts into a SINGLE POST.
elitism
Thursday, January 10, 2002 at 00:52:22 (PST)
A disturbed Black woman,
Well said. I applaud you on your intelligence & for telling it like it is. Thanks.
A Black woman afraid for her sisters
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 15:31:34 (PST)
Disturbed:
Yes I do agree with you on the bastardization and image shattering that we as black women have had to face since our arrival on this countries soil. But to call a woman a whore for fufilling a sexual fantasy is insane and feeds into the male chauvanism that has been plauging our society. The sexual repression of women as a whole has lead to this fear of erotic exploration that not only stifles us but stifles our lovers as well. We did not fight for the rights to vote and own land so we could be held in the same disturbing vice that has been put upon us for the last 5 to 10 thousand years.
A threesome does NOT show a lack of self respect, it shows that she has respect enough for herself to do whatever the hell she feels like and with relish. It's women that judge and bend to the whim of a domineering and male run society who eventually end up reading Oprah magazine articles on how to spice up their love lives. You have fed into one of the oldest and most outdated Dogmas known to man in and in your quest to bash a woman you haven't met, in my eyes, you have shown yourself to be the common "Christian White woman" who hasn't had enough kink in her life.
If a woman wants a good fuck, she should get a good fuck.
That's enough for me...I'm not big on redundancy.
P.S
I have done some KINKY, LURID, and EXPLICIT things with my boyfriend (And he's done some brain killing stuff to me just to let you know ^.~ Imagine the many fetish fufilling uses of Kimchi Tchigae...)But guess what? Every morning that we're together he tells me how much he loves me and we still cook together, laugh together, worry together, cry together, and dream together.
I guess that's him "politely" dumping me right? After 4 years...right?
JTHM
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 15:12:18 (PST)
To: A disturbed Black woman,
CALM DOWN!!!! I feel what you are saying and I do agree with you on the issue of my friend as well as the other messages you posted. There are some sistas out there that do these kinds of things, but all of us are not like that.
It makes me sick too how some of our sistas(whom I would never disrespect or call names because its not necessary)do this to themselves. To be honest, when I wrote the question on the poll, I wrote in anger, for her. I don't think she should have done that but it was her choice I guess.
I would never do anything like that because it would make me look bad and I wouldn't think of doing that anyway, it's not me, at all.
Another thing I want to say is that as BW, we really need to stop calling ourselves and each other all of these bad names like Bitch, Hoe, Whore, Hoodrat, Chicken Head, etc. When people of other races hear us saying this to each other, they feel that they can call us that or even treat us as such. It's cool to speak your thoughts, but when we call each other these names, we only make it worse.
Thanks for the input, I appreciate it!
Just Wanting To Know
Wednesday, January 09, 2002 at 11:51:05 (PST)
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