Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Stuntman,
What a world you live in: The White girl's Racist parents won't accept you. Your Racist parents won't accept the Black girl, and on top of everything else, you've got some real jacked up friends who would some how feel it's necessary to make fun of your for dating a beautiful Black girl. You just need to crawl under a rock and go away cause sounds like you got a messed up life!
No sympathy for losers Thursday, January 24, 2002 at 06:48:22 (PST)

Stuntman18:
Whoaaaaaaaaa.
Lemme get this straight, you met a african-american/MAORI girl?????
Where, may I ask?
How odd? ( if you live in the US ) Is her mom or dad maori? I'm interested only cus I just left Aotearoa (NZ). My cousin is married to a Maori guy. Do you live in NZ?
If I were you, I'd go for the sister! Try it. I'm sure you've alot in common once you really get to know one another. Forget your parents and your friends.....just be present with the new girl! Her family will just be glad you're not a PAKEHA !
Kia Kaha !!
Girl X Thursday, January 24, 2002 at 00:32:24 (PST)

Stuntman18,

I love these "how do I choose" questions! So let's look at it from all sides...

A) You choose the black girl who is supertalented and gorgeous. She also has chemistry with you, which is something that is either there or not -- you can't hope that it will come later. On the minus side, your parents and some of your friends give you grief.

B) You choose the white girl who is supertalented and gorgeous. I'm assuming the chemistry isn't really there (because you didn't mention it). I also assume that you really like the idea of being her, but there's something kinda missing when you're together (you say she's "on your mind", but you don't really mention what it's like when you're together). So your parents and your friends are happy with it and her parents are upset.

So what should you do? A romantic might say (A) because you obviously like the girl, and if your friends and parents don't like it, they don't have to come along on the date with you!

A "realist" might say (B) because it sounds like the only people who will be upset by it will be the girl's parents and you don't need to talk to them if you don't want to. Why stir up trouble when you can play it safe?

But my advice to you is to try (C), which is going out on a real date with each girl and really listening to what your gut tells you. The question isn't "which girl is better?" The thing you want to know is which girl is a match for you? Which girl makes you feel really good when you're with her? Which girl seems to like you when you're relaxed enough to be yourself? Which girl would you want to be stuck in a traffic jam with?

You say that they're equally good looking and talented, so now you're really down to personality, not race. Believe me, the novelty of dating someone of a different race only lasts for a little bit, and then it's all about dating a different PERSON. And that's when you get to the good stuff!

Best of luck to you and the lucky girl!

Peace and love for all,
SistaMoonKitty (a hopeless romantic) Wednesday, January 23, 2002 at 20:14:54 (PST)

Hey everyone ....

Just ran into this forum and thought it was cool to find a forum like this. I'm a 26 yr old male who is infatuated with black women, and would love to be in a relationship with one. Black women are very exotic, erotic,sexy, and sleek looking. I've dated a few black women. would love to meet some ladies.
Maximuxxx Wednesday, January 23, 2002 at 13:08:17 (PST)

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