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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Man, I want to make love to all the women in Mystikal's music videos.
me
Sunday, January 27, 2002 at 11:29:16 (PST)
Met a beautiful BW today (FYI, I am an 28 year old AM). She had a gorgeous low cut shirt on. Her skin was beautiful and I couldn't keep my eyes off her knockers. Had a pleasant conversation with her. Boy was she a hottie.
MadagascarII
Saturday, January 26, 2002 at 20:37:41 (PST)
Girl X, now, whose hitting on who? ( blush*) I'll ride pillion with you any day, even when I'm NOT drunk. Just lead the way girl, lead the way.......
I think I have a crush.
Racer X
Saturday, January 26, 2002 at 01:40:06 (PST)
stuntman18:
Forget what the island brothers say. I'm sure they want her for themselves. The figure skater though, hate to tell you, after a while, won't have time for ya. They train alot don't they??? You might be getting in the way of all her gold medal hopes. Leave her out of it. Go for the tuahine (sister). I'm sure you'll like her style better.
Good Luck.
Ka kite.
Girl X
Saturday, January 26, 2002 at 01:36:09 (PST)
I'm an African-American women married to a Korean-American man and I and my husband are the founders of the Asian Men Black Women In Love club. I have dated Asians men since High School. I've dated mainly Korean and Jaapnese men. Frankly speaking many Asian men seem intimidated by Black women because we not exactly touted as the feminine ideal. But I think the main reason there aren't more couples of this type has more to do with proximity than anything else. If I go to a place where there are many Asian men, I need only stand there for a few minutes before some Asian man approaches. So there is definite interest and if Asian men do not approach you then maybe you have to look at it that you are the problem and you are not their type of black woman. Also Asian men tend to have high standards that most black women maybe lack . Asian women potential marriage partners have to bring a lot to the table for an Asian family to even consider them. And this has to be the case with Black women as well. Sure there are the "hip hop" types that just want a fling with a sistah but if you want to make it something real, you have to be bringing what they're bringing. And that means, good family background, high level of education, ladylike appearance and mannerism, facial beauty etc. I have Asian in my family and have been asked if I'm mixed with Asian. It must be my long brown hair and skin that confuses people. Now these are not hard and fast rules but I have found that in many Asian relationhips, unlike many Western relationships, love is just a part of it. Its about moving up the social ladder, its about adequately providing for future generations. Its about Master's or no Marters, 2 parent home etc. As a woman you are judged harshly by Asian families and though some may say they don't care, you really don't want to give the family any additional ammunition besides not being Asian. My husband's family gave me hell at first but they liked me when they found out that I had attended an Ivy League University, Columbia in New York City where I'm from. They left us along even those they hated me. My husband and I got married several months ago and will be having a baby in a couple of months. When he told his parents that we were going to get married, they disowned him but now they are talking to him again because I heard that they feel that he could have married a worse type of black woman than me and that I'm a better than average black woman and they're right. PS my husbands dad is a physician and my husband Crazyeddie is in finance, so they are highly educated, professional Koreans and have a right to feel the way that they do so don't be surprised if you date a Korean man that his family may not like you at first and most likely will put you through some hell. But, if you love him you will stand up to them.
Eban2 Ife_ny@yahoo.com
Saturday, January 26, 2002 at 00:43:56 (PST)
To: Stuntman
You didn't come across as a loser, that's just someone who is bitter who wants to hurt someone they don't even know to make themselves feel good about themselves.
Pick the girl you want to love. Good luck!
Jes
Friday, January 25, 2002 at 18:19:02 (PST)
To: Say What is right,
Some Asian mothers will not interfere with their sons dating a black female. They may not like it but they won't cause problems. But they will act real if their son come home and start talking marriage. Then all hell breaks loose!
Jes
Friday, January 25, 2002 at 18:17:45 (PST)
jas
thanks for caring, but don't worry bout me. Im sure i'd sort these small problems out, im still young and crazy and don't really give a damn wot my parents or friends say. I might be meeting up with the Black chick tonite at da clubs, n i'll tell you how it goes. Did you know I had to reject an offer by the white chick tonite to go bowling in order to do this. Damn i may regret this one day.
stuntman18
Friday, January 25, 2002 at 17:50:55 (PST)
Have any of you noticed communities/states where dating between am and bf is common or normal? I seen parts of California mentioned; I live in the midwest and the only interracial dating I see is between whites and blacks or whites and other groups?
MN Renee
Friday, January 25, 2002 at 14:48:19 (PST)
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