Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Sounds like "X" needs to cool off. Perhaps a nice cold shower and a cool towel! Hes all heated up! LOL
shame shame...tsk cold towel + cold shower = limp 'X" lol Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 07:54:34 (PDT)

mmmm...
X baby, you sound hot and ready.
Come on over.
wanna get with X Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 07:52:02 (PDT)

I am from Indonesia. I guess I am considered FOB. I live in Los Angeles California. I been here 5 years.
I have found that alot of BW have a certain way of speaking their minds. I like that alot.

I like the way they get right down to what they want and settle for no less. I like black woman that have natural rythymn and sense of carrying herself sexy and have high self esteem.

My black woman has all of these things. I guess its why I can't get enough of her. Also that she is so damn beutiful and hot.
I read in here that someone say the black woman is not feminine. My woman always smell so nice and very soft skin. Her mother and her sisters are also not masculine women they act like ladies.
didha Friday, July 05, 2002 at 23:06:44 (PDT)

So, amenyes you're saying that you got your boyfriend by STEALING him from another woman. You won't keep him for long. Stop encouraging the black women here to backstab Asian women in order to steal their men.
anon Friday, July 05, 2002 at 17:28:52 (PDT)

Dear Ife,

There was nothing in Mileena's post that would show she was the 'ghetto' type of black person. She was just angry at the experiences that happened to her. I feel you were being completely biased and unfair to her.

And as far as her being pregnant and unmarried, whose business is that? Unless the people who are chastizing her are going to raise her baby, they have no right to comment regardless of what their race is.

Anyway, I do agree black women need to rid themselves of the 'ghetto' way of acting. However, they shouldn't have to walk on eggshells either trying to be some extraordinary person to get acceptance from other groups. The fact is, there are some Japanese that are prejudiced against blacks; remember that Japanese politician that said Japan was successful because they didn't have blacks or hispanics tearing down their population? He was not born with this attitude, hon. Also, take a look at their anime and other forms of their media. If you do see a black person, they take on the stereotypical negative view of what is considered black here in America. The white people on the other hand (which by the way makes up most of their media) are viewed as sexy, beautiful, and successful. Also, in the United States almost 70 percent of Japanese people marry whites; that's higher than any other Asian group.

I myself have nothing against the Japanese, nor Asians, as my boyfriend is Korean, and I have also dated a Japanese man. I try to keep an open-mind and not think 'racism' first. Still though, I am not in denial at the very real prejudiced attitudes some Asians have towards blacks.

daisy Friday, July 05, 2002 at 16:32:24 (PDT)

To Amenyes,

If things are working out well between you and your Vietnamese man, then good for you. However, I would not encourage any woman to date a man who already is involved in a relationship, no matter how awry it is. The bottom line is if he has any respect for women at all he would break up with the girl he's currently with THEN start dating again. To me it's not right to do otherwise, I don't care what the race of his girlfriend is.

So anyway, yes I think black women should go for Asian men if that's what they want. But to me they should go after those who are single and not attached to anyone.

daisy Friday, July 05, 2002 at 16:10:55 (PDT)

"Black woman with an illegitimate baby"
Hellafineaswine-

Its HIS illegitimate baby. Its his seed, his blood, his DNA, his child. Whether you assume I am bitchy or not, he still lay down and had this child with me.
"No asian man would lower himself like that"-

This one did I guess. We lived together, had a longterm comitted relationship and sex. Do the math.

I don't have a negative view of japanese people since my experience. I think it was just a bad experience, but I think alot might have had to do with my situation with him. Some of it had to do with stuck up people. Not everybody, just alot.

Sistamoonkitty,Third Eye,Wafflestomper,
I appreciate your encouragement. Thanx. I have alot more responsibility on my hands now to deal with. I will be alright.

(Mileena)
home is where the heart is :) Friday, July 05, 2002 at 10:35:40 (PDT)

Hi everyone...it's been a while since I've visited this website. Before I had posted up a little brief summary about me dating an AM for almost 5 years. This past April we finally got married back in southern California. it was not easy at first,especially, since my husbands mother was basically the one that was holding us back from getting married...Now she accepts me as her daughter. My husband has never disrespected his mother ...but when it came to us getting married, he finally put his foot down and had a discussion with his mother about it, and she wanted him to think it over till the next day. When he spoke to her the following day he still did not change his mind. We went ahead with our wedding plans and finally the day before his wedding, he spoke to his mother again and she gave us her full blessings. She also had time to think about her sons' happiness and that holding him back from marrying me was not helping her relationship with him. The point I'm trying to make is geared towards the AM A Fool In Love. I come from the same area and I'm currently living in Switzerland right now. My husband is proud to be with me and doesn't care what other people think. When you love someone, you are willing to make sacrifices in your life and put up with criticisms. In other words don't let true love pass you by.
Calicarrie Friday, July 05, 2002 at 10:10:54 (PDT)

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