Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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SistaMoonKitty-

I agree with you about Mynix. I feel that shes a very successful, and strong woman. I think shes doing a wonderful job at holding it all together, and going through divorce. I am still going through my divorce, and it is so hard sometimes to deal with. Whoever was trying to put her down is obviously someone that is jealous.

Mynix-
I think its really good that you have your own business and reaching your goals. I will hopefully get there someday. It feels like school graduation is taking forever to get here! But I hope to be where you are at very soon someday. Ignore the jealous haters, they are not even worth it.

bluebird-
What is annoying in my partner?
He has a habit of flipping through the channels over and over and over and over! SHEESH!

But I find many things very endearing about him. Especially the way he is condiderate and understanding. He always has a way of making me smile.
Liberty Friday, July 26, 2002 at 12:54:30 (PDT)

Bluebird,
I think the thing that bugs me the most about my bf is his 'last minute' decisions. I love him more than anything, but he has this bad habit of waiting until the very last minute to decide on stuff. Like for example:
He called me 3 weeks ago and asked me, when did I want to come to New York. I told him during that week would be good. He said it wasn't a good idea because he needed to work overtime. I didn't hear from him for a couple of days, and when I did it was very short conversations. Then last night he calls and says,"Can you come to NewYork tommorow morning?" There is an Asian festival he was really wanting to take me to. I think he knew about this festival at least a week in advance, and didn't even bother to say anything until last night. The very last minute. How wonderful. So, I told him "Sure sweety. Let me just throw on some clothes and hop in the private jet"

yea right.
southeast Friday, July 26, 2002 at 10:08:23 (PDT)

Do females like poetry? Would you like it if a guy recited a poem that he wrote for you? Are cards really that valuable, I mean do females really dig that stuff. Do females keep all the gifts and cards and letters that guys give? Does anybody write letters anymore, its a lost art.
Azn Friday, July 26, 2002 at 01:27:07 (PDT)

Most annoying? He wakes me in the middle of the night Begging to be pleasured. Most endearing? Sometimes he manages to pay his bills on time and takes out the trash.
The REAL Cali Princess KaliDreamxAngel Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 21:56:42 (PDT)

I saw some fiiiiine lookin' ebony kyooties at the Fred Segal's on Melrose Ave. in L.A. Any fine sistas from the Los Angeles area here? Here's to ya'll...
Mmmmm... good. Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 19:07:40 (PDT)

I don't find anything really annoying about my man. We don't always agree with each other, but thats normal in any relationship. Sometimes I hate when he hogs the phone. But I know he misses his family and friends back home. I can't complain really, because he says I hog the phone too sometimes. And my friends and family mostly live in this city.
L & N Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 12:34:39 (PDT)

The most annoying thing about my partner is that he eats too fast. This really drives me crazy. It's like he thinks the food is going to run away! I'm always getting on his case about this.

The most endearing thing is his strength. He says what he means and means what he says. He stands firm, all while maintaining his soft heart :)
Sian BlasianLove@jazzandjava.com Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 06:08:20 (PDT)

BW that I find attractive are:
Halle Berry, Faith Evans, Vanessa Williams, Blue Cantrell, Lisa Rae, Nia Long, Jada Pinkett, Angela Bassett,Kelly (from Destiny's Child) Michael Michelle,
Amiel and the FINE songtress Tamia!
Both Kidada and Rashida Jones are also really finer than fine! Damn!
this guys opinion Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 02:52:11 (PDT)

Mynix,

DON'T FEED THE TROLLS.

There are some people who come to this board with with the sole purpose of making other people (usually black women) feel badly about themselves. I don't know why they do this, I don't know what they're trying to accomplish, but I do know that if you IGNORE them, they'll get bored and go away, since the attention will no longer focused on the anger towards them.

That said, in my opinion, you don't need to "educate" anyone about your life. Your life sounds like it's full enough just running a successful business and navigating an interracial divorce (I love how some people wanna blame these breakups on race, totally forgetting about the divorce rate for same-race marriages). Just be strong, be you, and don't pay any attention to some mean-hearted stranger trying to push your buttons.
Peace and love for all,
SistaMoonKitty Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 02:24:11 (PDT)

What is annoying about my partner?
Sometimes his mother will call my house and they'll have a long, tense conversation in Mandarin. When I ask him what the call was about, he says "Nothing," and changes the subject. Grrr!

What is endearing about my partner?
Wow, where do I start? The way he puts away my groceries, cooks for me AND washes the dishes ("no, no, sweetie, don't get up...")? The postcards, emails and little packages he sends, just because he's thinking of me? The fact that children and small animals seem to adore him as much as I do? I think the most endearing thing about my guy is that he is a genuinely loving soul who treats me like a queen.

Peace and love for all,
SistaMoonKitty Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 02:02:34 (PDT)

Thanks Asian Male and happily married!

We are looking to live in either Edmonds/Lynnwood or Mill Creek. Don't like to be too close to the city.

Happily married,

My husband is filipino also. Do you know any tagalog...I want to learn before we visit his family in the philippines. Also did you and your husband have close ties to the filipino community?
almond Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 18:12:54 (PDT)

Bluebird-
What annoys me? Ha! Well er uhm.
I am not in a 'too' serious relationship with this guy. I don't like how he doesn't call me when I tell him too. That gets me so mad!
He thinks he can just do what he wants I guess. Well let me say that he'd better change his attitude QUICKLY! or hes not getting anymore coochie!
Florida State U Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 16:06:24 (PDT)

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