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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
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Latinas do not lie with the eyes. They are more direct than white girls. If a Mexican/Latina girl is looking you in the eyes, there is your chance. You can build from it. Just try to go up and say something. They won't laugh. Most likely than not, she will give you the number and go out with you because she will not look at the guy if she isn't interested and she appreciates this manly behavior of having the guts to ask her.
If you live in L.A., try going to the downtown L.A. club (the Mayan). Me and 3 other Chinese guys went there and had the best times of our lives. Over there you can really dance and sweat. Man, but it was worth it. Just looking at and dancing with hot mama-sitas made you not think of anything else. There is more...
But, your best place to find a good girl is not at the clubs or Mexico, just walk around your university, junior college, supermarket, mall. It wouldn't hurt to tell a girl she is beautiful is she really is. This works a lot times with Mexican gals. They do not take it only as a compliment. They think you really want them. Just take it from there, flirt more and talk. Don't stiffen up. Just smile and relax.
Honestly, being an Asian man is more an asset than a liability when meeting and hitting on Mexican chicks.
If I wasn't Chinese, I would definitely come back in the next life as a horny Mexican man!!!
dancing nortenaas   
Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 00:09:33 (PST)
To chica bonita:
Re: introducing families ....I would
have to say the korean side{in my case} this situation occurs due to the
extreme negative attitude of koreans
towards inter racial and inter asian
relationships and marriage.
In my relationship I basically utilized
a military approach towards introducing my fiancee { girlfriend at
that time} and a hardnosed approach
concerning my personal life vis-a-vis
my family. Also I maintained a very honest and realistic communication
with my lady concerning my family's
views and prejudice. Understandably
this upset her , however on a positive note she respected me for not "sugarcoating" my family's views and
my aggressive approach in defending her and my choices in a potential mate.
A word of advice, be assertive with
your partner ..but gentle{an oxymoron
eh?} . It's not easy living in a korean
family and if his family is hardcore korean tradionalists {like mine} he better have a game plan when your relationship is reaching a very serious turning point.
Finally, it is important that he is candid and upfront about his family
both with you and himself.
Good luck ........peace
latina loving korean hombre   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 23:39:00 (PST)
It's nice to hear that some Asian people like Latina/o people. I was really begining to wonder if you Asians just thought we Latinos were all a bunch of losers or something. You are one cool guy Korean hombre, koodos. Your mexicana princessa is one lucky lady.
Nice To Hear...   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 22:57:52 (PST)
Chica Bonita
My parents always told me I should date and settle down with a nice Corean girl but my first real love was a Spanish girl from Spain. I was so nervous about introducing her to my parents since I have never did in the past with my other girlfriends.
Once they knew how much I loved her enough to introduce her to them , I didn't have any problems. If he's really serious about you he would and wouldn't matter what his parents felt, its his life. I think Asian Americans are very open to interracial relationships, we actually have the highest percentage of interracial marriages, its like 24%. Granted most are Asian/white unions.
Patriots   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 21:43:48 (PST)
oki doki , latina loving korean hombre
Overall , i would have to say the most appealing about latinas is their big headlamps and their bumper booty. Oh yeah, not to mention their brain, like that really matters to a guy.
latina loving chino hombre   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 21:27:47 (PST)
I just want to tell you guys that if you live in southern California, you shouldn't have no problems dating young and fine looking Latinas. Most of them are Mexican or Central American.
No, you don't have to travel to Mexico to find a girl. They are very open minded to Asian men. It's just that sometimes Asian guys don't ask them out and so, they get the impression that Asian men are not physically attracted to them.
Let me tell you, I was once a shy guy. The only way I tried to hit up with Mexican girls was by seeing a fine looking one at my university's parking lot, and then just leave my name, email and phone number on her car's dashboard. That is how I met 5 girls. They gave me more confidence and from them, I got to know more girls.
Now, I have met much more than my share of Mexican girls who speak English and are willing to date me, a fit Chinese guy.
ain't lying   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 17:54:55 (PST)
To: chica bonita
Part of the reason why you may have not yet met your Korean boyfriend's parents is because of Korean custom. In Korea, boyfriends and girlfriends do not usually meet each other parents unless they intend to marry. A Korean will only introduce their honey to their parents only if they have finally decided to marry their boyfriend/girlfriend and not before. It is quite different from other countries' custom like the US. Whether or not it's because your boyfriend's parents would disapprove of you would be dependent on his parents. Some Korean parents are absolutely against their children marrying non-Koreans no matter how good or nice the non-Korean girl/boy is. Other Korean parents are not so strict. It totally depends.
GDS KA   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 11:35:31 (PST)
Hey everyone,
I was wondering.......Who do you think has more of a problem itroducing their partner to the family. My korean hunny, hasnt mentioned anything about me meeting. However we talk more often about doing some activity with my family. Who do you think is more accepting? I have interracial relationships throughout my family and friends, and that is not to just white people. I plan on asking him and I do know that he is very proud and happy to be with me. I just think maybe he knows his family will not be accepting
chica bonita   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 08:42:32 (PST)
To Ronin:
Dude, I,m not a latina but I wanted to tell you my experiences.
First, from my experience with my fiancee I found mexicanas the bomb on all categories: brains, etiquette, looks
style, and family values. My fiancee is
from Leon located in the Mexican State
Guanajuato{home state of present Mexican
President Vincente Fox Quesada} and there it is essential a man Knows how to dance,have table manners{ie. stand for ladies; open and close doors ALWAYS} and
basically be a stand up man and gentleman. Also, like korean woman if you piss them off you better run...fast.
Personally, I can't think of a better lady to share my life with then my mexicana princessa. Oh I almost forgot
mexicanas are also for the most part
pricessas.
best of luck ....peace
latina loving korean hombre   
Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 00:56:54 (PST)
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