Asian Male/Latina Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to Latinas?
Their facial features | 70%
Their physique | 16%
Their attitude and personality | 11%
Their education and cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Latinas?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 15%

Assuming you are a Latina, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 71%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a Latina, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 10%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%

Nenamorena,
Most of what you said I agree with. I think Hispanics culture is more accepting than East Asian or white culture in general. But there are exceptions to certain Hispanics cultures. What you see more in Latin America is class consciousness.
Tango Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 18:37:22 (PST) [64.12.96.237]

Asian guys are cool, just like everybody else. what most people don't realize is that we Latinas (and Latinos as well) are usually raised with race as a secondary. Don't get me wrong, alot of Latino families have problems with dating outside of the race just like other people, but if you ever go to Latin America you'll find a large mixed population. Morenos and blanquitas walk down the street all the time and it's no big deal. In Panama there's alot of Chinese people and they're part of Panamanian society now. Why? Because Latinos don't have hangups like many Americans do. For us, it's what's inside that counts and if what I want is inside an Asian person then who cares the rest.
Nenamorena Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 10:52:24 (PST) [163.192.21.3]

I just got the phone number from a half Ecuadorian and half Dominican girl. I thought she was very light skinned Indian or Persian. She was very cute. Petite, thin, shapely ass, and very chiselled, delicate face, a la winona ryder (although she isnt latin, I'm talking about the defined but delicate face). I was the same guy that said that onyl Mexican women are partial to Asian men, but I guess I was wrong. I've met so many Dominican and Puerto Rican women that have asked me out or given me looks or their number. Latin women are the bomb!
AM, 21 Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 13:10:29 (PST) [128.253.186.46]

Vijay,

Wrong forum, AM/BF msg board is that way!
lordt78 Thursday, November 07, 2002 at 07:16:52 (PST) [140.212.205.41]

I will date a black woman. There are so many black women who are sexy, and soft and smell like lovely fragrance. I like them curvy with nice big bottoms. I have no problem approaching black woman and they are very responsive with me. I also like big soft breasts and many black woman have them.
Vijay

Good for you , so go post this in the Black female and Indian section. Indian dating a black person isn't much of a stretch is it?
Dell Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 19:55:24 (PST) [64.12.96.237]

"Who told you that I am White? I am so not"

Cutiegirl,
Well now, this gets even more interesting. You really do alot of posting on the WF/AM discussion board. So why is it that a latina ( as you claim to be-
posting on a WF/AM discussion board? Wow. Now THAT is really weird.
makes me wonder even more Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 13:28:24 (PST) [205.188.209.112]

I will date a black woman. There are so many black women who are sexy, and soft and smell like lovely fragrance. I like them curvy with nice big bottoms. I have no problem approaching black woman and they are very responsive with me. I also like big soft breasts and many black woman have them.
Vijay Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 10:39:26 (PST) [152.163.189.170]

My lover/friend said that he wants to take me to an Asian Club. He said it has all techno/dance trance music. I don't have a problem with it. Someone told me that its not a good idea for me to go there. I know he told me that sometimes Gangs are known to go there. So I thought maybe that is what they were talking about. I was wrong. They said there was other reasons why I should not go. What are they talking about? Does anyone know?
butterscotch Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 07:49:42 (PST) [205.188.209.112]

Gawd...I luv Latinas. Seen them in Mex and they look just like Asian women. That is...~natural~ Asian women, the way they were meant to be! Not the "Americanized" AF's that is.

But if you guys look carefully, (not hard to do -hehe) you'll see that almost ALL Latinas have the BEST leggs on Earth. Love that Mother Nature ;)
Tall Guy Monday, November 04, 2002 at 22:10:33 (PST) [12.89.137.28]

I met a girl whose dad is Cuban and mom is Mexican. She is damn fine and doesn't look typical Hispanic. She looks more like a southern Spaniard (Andalusian type) or even Egyptian. Very fine features even without the makeup. She is just your average everyday college girl and she was wearing a jacket. So, I thought she looked approachable and talkable. Lo and behold she was very easy to talk to and she enjoyed the stuff I talked about. Got her phone and she wrote down the days and times she can be able to talk. This is one girl I don't want to miss out on.

There is another Mexican girl I went out to lunch with last week. I haven't had the time to call her back, but I guess I will later this week. She is kinda quiet and shy, but very beautiful too. I have always liked shy girls as they have an air of mystery and sexiness to them. But, I know she probably isn't shy around her friends. Her dad is separated from the mom and last time I asked her if she would like to check out how it would be like to be in another culture. She nodded YES and when we ate at the Vietnamese restaurant, she kept trying to learn how to use the chopsticks.

Both these girls are extremely beautiful girls. They are not my girlfriends, but I hope to hit the luck with one of them soon. I want more than just sex, I really want to find someone special.
Chow-mein boy Monday, November 04, 2002 at 21:41:56 (PST) [64.130.235.33]

Makes me wonder,

who told you that I am white? I am so not.
Cutiegirl Monday, November 04, 2002 at 15:00:10 (PST) [131.252.149.185]

TACOGIRL,

You write eloquently. I'm sure you don't talk like that in everyday life (no one does! =) ), but I am still impressed with your ability to express yourself.
Coreano Monday, November 04, 2002 at 10:47:19 (PST) [128.253.186.46]

I'm a Korean fellow from LA, but I go to school in NY. I used to think that only Mexican girls were more partial to dating Asian guys, but there's this one cute Puerto Rican girl who works the cash register at one of the school cafeterias. She is petite and slim, and has mostly mestiza features, not Mulatta features. I was surprised. I might go for her number if the timing seems right.
PR girls are new to me Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 20:05:30 (PST) [128.253.186.46]

Of all the Latinas, I notice the ones from Guatemala and El Salvador look very similar to Asians in the eyes, the hair and overall appearance. You occasionally find it in Mexican women too, but mostly in Central America (where Spanish blood is negligible in many parts). They often can pass for Filipina.
chili con carne Sunday, November 03, 2002 at 00:32:53 (PST) [64.130.235.33]

I don't know if it's just me, but the Latina (mostly Mexican where I live) who give me the most attentive looks are the ones with long, silky black hair and a lot of them have slender or petite body shape.

I never had much luck with the curvy or full-figure Latinas.

But, I have always liked the slender shaped ones more than others. They tend to have very beautiful faces. For me, a girl's face is more important than her other bodily assets.
chili con carne Saturday, November 02, 2002 at 17:56:39 (PST) [64.130.235.33]

hahahahaha,

That was some interesting commentary. The one about how i am committing fraud and so forth. It provided myself with a condescending chuckle indubitably provided by the one and only nameless person who speaks when they are not spoken to. I obviously imbued some sort of anger in their frontal lobe. However perversely pleased i may be, i would like to take this time to "represent" the latina women. This person is correct to a degree. There are many things descriptions that could have been chosen to add character to my name. Maybe i should have thought about my licensed operating business here in so. Cali. Perhaps about my independence, education, home and assets. Well thank you again and i will be sure to consider your futile remarks for future reference. Until them i will stand humorously proud by the name "Tacogirl," so that i may invoke the best or in your case, the worst out of other people. See………..i can speak another language too.

Ciao
TACOGIRL Friday, November 01, 2002 at 13:09:05 (PST) [206.217.7.233]

Cutiegirl,
Why don't you try posting on the WF/AM discussion board. Did you know this is for latinas/AM? Or did you get confused. Interesting. Why would a WF be posting on latinas/AM place? How weird is that?
makes me wonder Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 12:08:07 (PST) [64.12.96.237]

Yea Okay then "Tacogirl"
This person is either some man or non/hispanic woman. What TRUE hispanic woman would even bother choose the name "TACOGIRL" to represent them? Unless maybe they don't have an ounce of dignity. Especially when such a name is derogatory to hispanic cultures? Its the same as if for instance an Asian guy was calling himself the name "HUNGRY EGGROLL BOY" or "RICE MACHINE" or something! Whoever you are, I know that you are a BIG fraud and you are not slick. No tiene do dedos de frente! Tira la piedra y esconde la mano. This "Tacogirl" person...Le faltan unos cuanto tornillos! Ha!
Que pesao me cae! Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 12:31:27 (PST) [152.163.189.232]

hey guys,

I am actually dating a couple of people. As much as i would love to be held and cuddled and all that good stuff.........i am going to do my best to take it slow. In fact i am practicing abstinence. ohhh nooo I get asked out like everyday, but i wish more asian guys would ask me out. When i go to the mall or out somewhere i always see these cute asian guys.......but they all have asian chicks with them. So i am forever in search of an educated asian hottie with style and class who loves to clown around
tacogirl Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 10:10:37 (PST) [207.94.125.126]

taco girl,

You're going to end up sleeping with your new friend, especially because of the vulnerable state you're in. And no - I don't care how much you love him. You are a woman, and like most you seem to be crazy emotional. He's a man -- he'll end up making an advance on you. He won't be able to help it, especially if you're attractive. And you'll accept, since you feel sad and need to be held. You won't be able to help it either.

You should just move on, it's not going anywhere. Just break it off with your Korean man, and go with this new guy.
Good Luck.. be realistic Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 06:27:45 (PST) [128.253.186.46]

Tacogirl,

No prob, I'm just here to help. It's good to hear that you're moving on and not wasting anymore time waiting for that guy...so whose this new guy? is he asian?
supaman Monday, October 28, 2002 at 20:26:22 (PST) [12.245.16.165]

Tacogirl,

you are on the right track. The best way to forget someone is to hang out with other people and especially if you already have a good person.......and cute and waiting for you, go for it. Don't sit home alone, it won't do any good. You'll forget your (ex). Trust me. I've been through it. If he treats you like this, he doesn't even deserve another chance. Good luck and have fun!
Cutiegirl Monday, October 28, 2002 at 19:11:23 (PST) [131.252.151.55]

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