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WHAT WOMEN WANT ON A FIRST DATE
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:47 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a woman, which most closely matches your idea of a great first date?
Coffee and Conversation | 51%
Picnic in the Country | 3%
Brunch and Tennis | 1%
Dinner and Movie | 45%

Assuming you are a woman, which gesture by your date would you most welcome?
Brings flowers or candy | 2%
Arrives precisely on time | 72%
Compliments your appearance | 9%
Calls the next morning | 17%

Assuming you are a woman, what's the worst mistake a guy can make on a first date?
Showing up late | 5%
Showing up badly dressed/groomed | 7%
Hogging the conversation | 3%
Making a premature sexual advance | 85%


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WHAT YOU SAY

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to me a movie is better than no movie. at least you have a topic to discuss. the only negative I can see in going to a movie is that you will be sitting in the dark with a stranger for 2 hours. but, no big deal --as long as you're actually watching the movie, and not worrying if someone is going to try their "moves" --haha!
girl    Monday, April 15, 2002 at 21:33:01 (PDT)
Mr. Hann,

A gentleman could always leave the option of letting the girl decide where she wants to go on a first date. Thereby, saving on the brain work.
AC Dropout    Monday, April 15, 2002 at 16:34:36 (PDT)
My idea of a good date:

A hot guy and I...hanging out at Yiheyuan(The Summer Palace, Beijing) and then go to Wongfujing(BJ)...and EAT alot at a Yeshe (A type of outdoor dining at night). And then a small Iced Cappucino before I get taken home.
Beijing Angelique    Saturday, April 13, 2002 at 13:39:35 (PDT)
Movie on first date? hmmm, my sis told me to never take someone to the movie on the first date. she told me it would be better to take your date somewhere relaxed, where you can talk to her and get to know her better. coffee is cool, but no movie.
Mr. Hann    Friday, April 12, 2002 at 21:03:56 (PDT)
to Angelique:

You haven't seen nothin' yet!

Look out for those Japanese exchange students in college!

If you have a boyfriend already, make sure he stays away from them...

Just an advice from a handsome Chinese guy who has seen it all...

ABC in NYC    Thursday, April 11, 2002 at 19:48:59 (PDT)
this would be a very nice date for me:

very relaxed, not too romantic place (for a first date/blind date)

a movie
some coffee & dessert afterwards to go with some discussion about the movie

come to think of it, that's just a plain old nice evening. It's even better if it is NOT a date!

also, it's better for you guys not to come on too strong on the first date, since we don't really know if we like each other yet. nothing will scare a girl away faster than proclaiming your love after 1 date... (unless you get married the next weekend in Vegas --haha!)

Bibi    Tuesday, April 09, 2002 at 22:30:41 (PDT)
Hi Quite ABC M,

I can say that the bar/club is not all that great for quiet type person. I'm a quiet type of person--at least I was/is. I went to my first club around the age of 25 because...well there was someone I like who likes to goto club/bars. I would say that you are not missing much experience. Here are a few things I learn from going to clubs/bars
1)I prefer sweet type of fruits drinks
2)there are lot of smokers at bars/clubs
3)after a few drinks--even the ugly girls look interesting...
4)all the women in the bars have there defenses up
5)I cannot dance well
6)finally I scratchoff one of my todo list in life.
It might be interesting you for to goto bars/clubs at least once, to broaden you horizen ... It makes for interesting conversation with friends. Like the time I try to pickup a girl--who's friend was drunk..


1/2LostSoul,

1/2LostSoul    Friday, April 05, 2002 at 12:28:34 (PST)

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