Best & Worst of Dating Asians | Asian American Poll

BEST & WORST OF DATING ASIANS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

What's the best thing about dating an Asian?
Laughing together over funny and bizarre incidents encountered by Asians. | 69%
Knowing your date isn't confusing your personality with racial stereotypes. | 14%
Not having to give long historical discourses to explain your background. | 5%
Enjoying the tacit approval of family. | 12%

What's the worst thing about dating an Asian?
Wondering whether your date likes you or your background. | 27%
Raising family expectations of marriage. | 11%
Being thought to harbor conservative ideas about love and marriage. | 10%
Coping with Asian conservatism toward premarital sex. | 2%
Being dragged into yet another Asian gossip circle. | 23%
Possibility of the family disapproving of the relationship. | 27%

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AC Dropout,MLK,

as for dating I didn't know about common Han Chinese until now.Did I make a failure when thought that forced marriages would be wider spread than they are actually?

I've heard/read lots of positive things about arranged datings/marriages among other positive customs in the Near/Middle East and South Asia.I wouldn't mind if someone (white or so) said to me something like: "Ah, you MuslimsHindus are so chaste." -though I'm none of them.Above all there are just the duties,then.

Parties where you choose your potential partner?-I don't know,sounds complecated.If I'm asked what my individual taste is like I'd say not today,not tomorrow...I've got more important problems to solve than datings as long as nobody forces me by violence/money.
rare stuff Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 15:59:32 (PDT)

MLK,

Your right I should get the CLAPPER. Clap on, Clap off, Clap on...the clapper.

Can you image the noises coming out of the room to conduct the research.

Clap, Clap, .... Clap,Clap,Clap, .... Clap,Clap,.......

It be like Latin night at the clubs.

Sure we can change the subject. Any wives tales about penis curviture. To the right, to the left, etc. :)
AC Dropout Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 15:28:09 (PDT)

Hank Lewis,

I'm glad you appreciate the humor.

I sympathized with your willingness to take on bodily harm to please your woman. Taking one for the team like that. Woman don't appreciate the risks involved in such manuevers.

Finger licking good over there... :)

Now that I think about it I haven't licked a stamp in ages. Self-adhesive these days.

It like a men's locker room in this board. Hope your wife don't mind you revealing your bedroom techniques here. In twenty years or so your kid might see this post :).

Daddy, you did what to mommie!
AC Dropout Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 15:24:19 (PDT)

rare stuff,

Are you talking about arranged marriages or just meeting someone that fits your ideal.

Western Style dating as oppose to what? Chinese style dumpling making parties on college campuses. Where guys and girls get together and make dumplings.
AC Dropout Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 12:00:04 (PDT)

AC Dropout:

BWA-HA-HA!!! "Lights on... Lights off..." You had me rolling on the floor of my cube like a Jim Rome take!!!

Most of the ones I saw back in my single days were vertical, but I had to see a chiropractor every week due to neck injuries I received from having female thighs squeezing my head and neck or having female hands push my head down or pull it in during such actions. Thankfully my wife allows me to wear a neck pad these days...

Lastly, I wouldn't compare such activities to licking stamps. Such activities taste a HELL of a lot BETTER than stamps!!!
Hank Lewis Tuesday, July 23, 2002 at 06:44:09 (PDT)

AC

You need to invest in a lighting system for your home that automatically adjusts to your voice command. Something like, ahem, "Let there be light!" and the light comes on.

Mirrors. I don't know about that. Vampires can't see themselves in mirrors, so there's no point in looking at them, especially for you.

All this talk about vaginal slits are starting to give me the heebie geebies. Can we change the subject please? :)

MLK Monday, July 22, 2002 at 22:30:25 (PDT)

Rare Stuff

"...forced to date the person whom you MUST learn to love"

Now hold on a minute before we go much further. Where on this planet are you hanging your oven mitts on? I could try to learn to love a corn-cob man but I will fail miserably. Forced to date? Someone got a gun to your head and handcuffed you to your chair on your date with this luckless 'bat from the Styx River'?

Are you Chinese even? I didn't think Chinese parents force-fed their children's mates on them. That would be (wooow!) unbearable, to say the least. I would run away from home and join the circus if I was going to be forced into dating someone I had to learn to love even though his manners are disgustingly peasant and he's a mental retard!

If you're together with someone you already love, then what's the puzzle? You've got it made! Stay with that person!

Western style...hmmmm are those the ones we get to choose who we hang out with? I think that's a great idea, don't you?
MLK Monday, July 22, 2002 at 22:25:54 (PDT)

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