Best & Worst of Dating Asians | Asian American Poll

BEST & WORST OF DATING ASIANS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

What's the best thing about dating an Asian?
Laughing together over funny and bizarre incidents encountered by Asians. | 69%
Knowing your date isn't confusing your personality with racial stereotypes. | 14%
Not having to give long historical discourses to explain your background. | 5%
Enjoying the tacit approval of family. | 12%

What's the worst thing about dating an Asian?
Wondering whether your date likes you or your background. | 27%
Raising family expectations of marriage. | 11%
Being thought to harbor conservative ideas about love and marriage. | 10%
Coping with Asian conservatism toward premarital sex. | 2%
Being dragged into yet another Asian gossip circle. | 23%
Possibility of the family disapproving of the relationship. | 27%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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The worst things about dating Asians:

1. Won't get invited to as many white parties (As we all know, no one parties like White people).

2. They don't have hair all over the place (e.g., back)

3. Fewer Asian men are bald. (This is bad if you like the bald with strands of hair combed over the top look).

4. They don't think of you as their little China Girl or Geisha Girl. (I've always wanted to be a prostitute.)

5. They don't smell. (I love that B.O.)

6. You won't advance in your career as quickly. (I've always wanted to work in a place where I am the only minority and no one else deep in their heart respects me.)
7. Their looks are similar to mine. (I hate myself. Hate, hate, hate. Why couldn't I look like Roseanne, Janet Reno, or Martha Stewart?)
Linoet Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 08:30:35 (PDT)

The best things about dating Asians:

1. They don't smell.

2. They are intelligent.

3. Most are attractive.

4. They don't have pre-concieved steroetypic notions of you.

5. They understand loyalty, honor, and respect.

6. In the end, everyone wants a loyal partner who understands you and you can understand them.
Linoet Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 08:24:14 (PDT)

AC D,

[Shooting Ping Pong balls not really my idea of good sex] :D hahaha...

Why PC muscle can harmonious sexual relation?

The tigthness of the lips down there, could make Mr. Bird & Ms. Bee incredible sexual journey.

[Penis curviture. To the right, to the left,ect.:)]

Bwa...hahaha...Curve up, curve down, even straight...Hahahaha....
SPRNZ Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 00:52:06 (PDT)

Rare Stuff

You sound as if you are a Chinese warrior who just woke up from a thousand year sleep and barely know what's going on in the world around you. I've never heard of anyone in my life being forced to marry another...at least not in this day and age. Is that common from where you are living?

Arranged marriages are only positive if the outcome is positive. Imagine being stuck with a loser that you can't get rid of until you die, or he dies, or the both of you kill each other through frustration.

"...If I'm asked what my individual taste is like I'd say not today,not tomorrow...I've got more important problems to solve than datings..."

Well...let's suppose you have nothing to do in the next fifteen or twenty minutes. What's more important than solving a dating problem? What kinds of problems do you have to solve that are more important than WOMEN!?!? OK, let me ask you then, since I seem to always be able to elicit responses from you.

What is your individual taste as far as women are concerned? No, wait...Let me guess. It is FOR SURE not anything like an MLK (hehehe). You would want a soft and quiet woman with deep thoughts and gentle manners. Intelligence without a loud mouth. I know I know (hollow gourds make lots of loud noise...ancient Asian saying that my family always tells me, hoping I'd get it eventually). I've got the basic requirement. What next?
MLK Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 22:57:21 (PDT)

AC

Lordy lordy, I tell you to change the subject and you suggest penis curvature. And you dare call ME the pervert. I get the feeling you're having a blast with this. OK. Then let me ask you this. How do you measure up to the wives tale about the curvature? North, South, East, or West...or Dead On and Steady as she goes? :)

Hank Lewis

Are you in league with this devil too? I thought you were an upstanding citizen of Goldsea? How have you degenerated so far as to be talking about neck and head injuries while doing 'you know what' for your wife? And comparing that to tasting the pasty minty stuff that they stick on stamps. Shame on you! (hehehe) You guys are soooo bad! ;)

btw...I've heard it being compared to...raw oysters...any truth to this?
MLK Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 21:42:26 (PDT)

rare stuff,

I seen arranged marriage in Taiwan. It's like a dating service. You go in. The woman ask a lot of questions about family and you. Then shows you a bunch of pictures of people she feels are compatible with you.

They charge a lot of money.
AC Dropout Wednesday, July 24, 2002 at 17:17:06 (PDT)

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