Best & Worst of Dating Asians | Asian American Poll

BEST & WORST OF DATING ASIANS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

What's the best thing about dating an Asian?
Laughing together over funny and bizarre incidents encountered by Asians. | 69%
Knowing your date isn't confusing your personality with racial stereotypes. | 14%
Not having to give long historical discourses to explain your background. | 5%
Enjoying the tacit approval of family. | 12%

What's the worst thing about dating an Asian?
Wondering whether your date likes you or your background. | 27%
Raising family expectations of marriage. | 11%
Being thought to harbor conservative ideas about love and marriage. | 10%
Coping with Asian conservatism toward premarital sex. | 2%
Being dragged into yet another Asian gossip circle. | 23%
Possibility of the family disapproving of the relationship. | 27%

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AC D,

"...Why do I keep seing a picture of Mr. Bird with its neck snapped in two."

Ay, Muchacho. That only in your mind thought that way. Just relax and think the incredble journey you might have. Don't worry Ms. Bee won't sting that hard, Mr. Bird won't get swollen or black & blue. Well, its tight but gentle though.

" What happen to just normal girls with normal PC muscles?".

Nothing wrong with that. In here the 'Man' that should know how to controlled the Bird, to make Mr.& Ms B satisfied and have incredible Bon Voyage. Any way, if you do it with someone you love is the best. Will feel better with LOVE IN IT.
SPRNZ Monday, July 29, 2002 at 08:46:21 (PDT)

rare stuff,

Yeah, but after you're married you have no choice but to become intimate.
AC Dropout Monday, July 29, 2002 at 06:22:13 (PDT)

Hank Lewis

It doesn't sound very tasty at all, to be honest with you. In fact, I get a little sick just thinking about it, but that's probably because I am a girl, and I don't have to worry about how it tastes. I was simply curious, because I've eaten raw oysters plenty of times (love 'em!) and have heard some people mention that it's like that.

What part of the Gulf Coast did you grow up in?
MLK Sunday, July 28, 2002 at 22:57:20 (PDT)

AC

Oh, you are such a bad one. So now I have to prove I'm a female of the species, is that what you're implying? And pray tell, on a written board like this, how am I supposed to do that? There's no space to post pics, even if I was crazy enough to do so. And supposing I did, you would probably make some comment to the effect of, who's to say it's me. I could have taken it off the internet from some website.

On that same tangent, how do we know you are not a woman, eh? :)

And you are only partly correct. I tease folks only after I've known them for awhile and know how they will react to my teasing. You will never see this raunchy barmaid having this much fun with complete strangers. Too dangerous!
MLK Sunday, July 28, 2002 at 19:12:29 (PDT)

Linoet,

I hope your second post was a mis-aimed attempt at satire.
Oooooookay. Saturday, July 27, 2002 at 02:45:13 (PDT)

MLK:

"Are you in league with this devil too? I thought you were an upstanding citizen of Goldsea?"

I normally am. However, I just had to respond to some of what AC Dropout had to say. Especially a comment he made about the taste, which I personally thought was wrong! Perhaps I should have thought it through a little more carefully, but at the time I just couldn't help myself! ;-)

"How have you degenerated so far as to be talking about neck and head injuries while doing 'you know what' for your wife?"

See above. This really isn't my normal behavior--especially in the presence of a lady, I promise!!! However, you know how us guys are when we get together and shoot the proverbial bull.

"And comparing that to tasting the pasty minty stuff that they stick on stamps. Shame on you! (hehehe) You guys are soooo bad! ;)"

That's why I responded--it doesn't taste like the guck on the back of the old lick-em stamps! It tastes better than that and I wanted to set the record straight!

"btw...I've heard it being compared to...raw oysters...any truth to this?"

Not in my experience it doesn't! Growing up along the Gulf Coast, I have eaten PLENTY of raw oysters and while I like raw oysters, I think it tastes much better than raw oysters. One fellow GoldSea poster whom I know who will remain anonymous compared it once to of all things Vienna Sausages. SAY WHAT? For lack of a better description, I'd say it's a mixture of salty, sweet and sour tastes that's unique in and of itself. Does that shed some light on the subject?

Okay, enough of the locker room talk--if Julie reads these comments, I'll REALLY have a neck injury to deal with!!! ;-)
Hank Lewis Friday, July 26, 2002 at 06:36:35 (PDT)

AC Dropout,

that's sort of what I meant. It has the advantage to be not too intimate.
rare stuff Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 23:51:50 (PDT)

MLK,

arranged stuff (datings as well as marriages) has the advantage that you don't need to court for the partner's favour that much because it isn't based on what attracts you.So if you're lazy enough,then try out to be conservative and accept an arranged dating/marriage.
rare stuff Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 23:48:40 (PDT)

Linoet

hahaaha! You're a riot. A precious riot, but still a riot. May you hook up with a guy who's just as much of a riot as you are.
MLK Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 20:32:09 (PDT)

MLK,

And you're the saint of virtue now. Please you're as rauchy as a barmaid.

Taste like oysters? Wouldn't you know. Give it a taste test and you tell us. Unless you're what we suspected all along...

A man posing as a woman online. hahaha.
AC Dropout Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 15:33:15 (PDT)

SPRNZ,

Tightness of the lips...Why do I keep seeing a picture of Mr. Bird with its neck snapped in two.

I don't know about this whole PC muscle thing anymore. :)

What happen to just normal girls with normal PC muscles.
AC Dropout Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 15:25:51 (PDT)

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