YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%
I'm a Filipina and I came to the United States when I was 16 years old. (I'm 22 now) I don't know why but I used to think that most Asian women, whether they were born in the United States or came here at the young age, would have this belief of waiting until they were married, etc. Maybe because I had this generalization that most Asian girls would be modest/or their family would rear them up that way. But of course, I've learned through time that that was a false generalization. Three of my really good guy friends (who are white) had Asian girlfriends who took their errr..... innocence. And these Asian girls were experienced! And of course, one of them had to be a Filipino too. Naturally, after hearing those stories I see now that I guess I held most Asian women too highly. I don't know why, but I just feel sad. I still honestly believe that women should only have sex when they get married. I think that once someone has pre-marital sex and the couples break up, it may be easier for the guy or the girl to get involved in another relationship, with sex involved, because they've already done it before.
Catholic Girl 79    Tuesday, January 01, 2002 at 12:54:04 (PST)
My first time was with a little white girl from Northern Cali. She was a alternative/skater type, and she had a pierced tongue. She gave me head, and I came in her mouth. It was f***en great, and kinky too. I ate her out afterwards. We f***ed a few dates after that.
Lost it at 16... now 21    Monday, December 31, 2001 at 20:08:58 (PST)
Cindy,

But if it is long term exclusive relationship, where the risk of STD isn't a factor anymore...could we say the "party hat" is just a downer.

The pill from a guys point of view at stage of relationship becomes much more favorable.

But if you miss one pill. It will take another 2 weeks to get back on track.

The only other option is an operation.

AC dropout    Friday, December 28, 2001 at 11:58:26 (PST)
I wouldn't say to wait until marriage, what if marriage never came around? Or if a girl simply choose not to marry? Should she stay virgin forever?

I won't suggest sleeping around either, first for health reasons. If you're really that horny, masturbate. When you have sex it should be with someone you feel comfortable with, that you can trust, and who doesn't put regret or questions in your head. Don't do it just to get it over with. It's too great of an experience to rush through like that.

On the contrary, I hear that asians are easy instead of sexually cold. But then again it's all just stereotypes. Whether a person is sexually "cold" or "hot" depends on their own body chemistry and upbringing. Don't knock on people for doing it and respect those who say no.
Tracy    Monday, December 24, 2001 at 10:54:23 (PST)
To AC Drop Out,

It's both party's responsibility. The "party hat" must be worn for STD purposes. Since "party hats" somtimes break the pill is as important. Not to mention just because two people did the horizontal mambo do not mean they want the natural consequence of the dance.

That said, yes the pill is extremely annoying to deal with, but so is a screaming 3 month old around 4:00 in the morning, assuming the woman actually kept him/her ofcourse. Give me pills any day!


Cindy    Monday, December 24, 2001 at 10:33:21 (PST)

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