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VIETNAMESE MALE/ VIETNAMESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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WHAT YOU SAY
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Vietnamese American Men are nicer and more confident than most men I know out there.
Asian American Woman
Tuesday, December 17, 2002 at 19:49:12 (PST)
[67.10.55.248]
To L,
hello, where did you get that statistic about Viet students in Australia? i am from Australia and didn't even know about it... but it's good to know... ;)
Rx
Sunday, December 15, 2002 at 05:21:40 (PST)
[210.50.228.4]
I'm sorry but this whole ordeal w/viet men running back to viet nam to find brides:
It's kinda pathetic don't you think?!
If the guy comes back to VN to marry the girl of his dreams, in which he's all ready known, and has fond memories of, then sure, fine; marriage is not a bad idea.
But, most of the time, it's like a e-whorehouse, they have this thing going on over there where internet brides are getting more and more popular for men all over Asia trying to find a submissive wife to marry, typically, in VN.
So, when guys are implying that I'm goin back to VN & find me a nice wife, I think barf, you don't even know if they have aids, you don't have a background history on them so, why? Are you that desperate? Go get a blow up doll or something!
HOWEVER...If there are some ties or connections, ex- family and friends related ladies, in that scenario marrying a Viet bride from VN is okay. Sometimes it works out best for both parties.
One question that I think would be interesting is to reverse the situation: What do you guys think of viet american ladies going back to vn, to find a husband?
I think that's akward, it's relevent to Lala's opinion, so in light of that, I do have to agree with her to some degree.
It's Situational
Friday, December 13, 2002 at 03:04:07 (PST)
[68.4.253.208]
Lala:
If you agree with me than why are you aguing against me. Once again, I don't think they are loser like you said in the end. They have a brain the can process information just like everyone else. They know how to think and have feelings. If a girl reject them they do feel hurt. If a girl warrant them they are happy.
You say it takes time to get to know a person. What if the guy is so busy with his work he doesn't have time to date. So how will he spend time with that person to get to know her better. In America, people rarely see each other because they are so busy with work, school, etc. I don't blame the guy for going back to Vietnam and relax and on his trip back he met someone he is interested in.
People who went back to Vietnam usually stay for many months or many weeks. That is enough time to ask a girl he like out on date. In Vietnam, there are many places you can go to and many things you can do that are very romantic. After you see the girl a couple of times for a long period, I think he has a clear idea on her attitude and whether he finds her attractive.
So he married her and she could probably be pregnant. It will take about a year for the paperwork to be finished, and during the wait he can still go back to visit her and the baby. They can contact each other through the phone or write mail back and forth.
When she arrived in America they just live together. Having live together they will get to know each other better. They will both have to deal with the problems that come from having a family. You said that the wife will divorce the husband. But not all wives will do that. They would be loyal knowing that they owed their husband for bringing them over here. I can not leave out the possibility that they hate and fight each other after they live together so they get a divorce but we don't know what lies ahead.
We do know that for those guys who rule out the girls over here, they have finally found somebody in Vietnam. You should be happy for those guys now they will not be lonely anymore.
just for you to know
Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 09:17:09 (PST)
[128.227.238.183]
Just for You to know:
There's nothing wrong with going back to vietnam to marry a girl, I agree with you on that. but many guys go back there and barely really know their to be bride, isn't that kinda strange unless they feel like they need to get married soon. people who marry one another usually knows eachother very well first. why does the man come back to vietnam to marry a girl
they feel that they're getting old and they want to marry someone soon.
they want to get a pretty bride, cause most girl in vietnam want to marry a guy from America, so they have more option to find a bride who's pretty.
they want someone who they can control better than if they were marry a women in the U.S. cause the girls who just came from vietnam doesn't know much engish nor does she have an American education, so it's harder for those girls to leave their husband if they want to.(unless they got snag by some other guys)
or the guys in American just can't find his soulmate here in America, so if he has to choose to marry someone who he doesn't truly know or love, he probably might as well find a girl in vietnam, cause then he can get a pretty looking one.
In the end, no guys marry a women in vietnam becuase he truly cares or love her nor does he truly knows her through personal experience. And the women would not truly know her husband to be either. It takes alot of time for two person to know eachother, and with a guy marrying a girl from vietnam, there isn't much time to speak of.
this is the reason why some people in America thinks that guys who marry a girl from vietnam is a loser, in some way it's kinda true.
lala
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 15:52:37 (PST)
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