Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:30:04 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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HappyGuy,

I appreciate your humor.
You got it pretty good. Exactly. Max's comments sounded like all women are the same and so so simple. Like couple of words are enough to get anybody.

As I wrote before im my comments to Max, I don't hold anything against him. He just happened to disturb my pain. And I didn't write anything directly to him. My comments were general too.
wow girl Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 17:50:59 (PDT) [213.59.137.147]

Max,

I didn't lash on you. I didn't write "you Max think that you know everything about women". I wrote "you guys think that you know everything about women". I'm sorry if I insulted you, but I was talking about men in general. Men need only one thing from women and they want to get it ASAP. Where is romantic? Where are human relations? Where is that special touching attitude of a man to a woman?
Yes, I have some bad experience with men. They judged me only by my pretty face. I don't say that I'm feminist, I'm not. It's nice to get compliments, but only when they are sincere. I had a relationship with one man. He spent lots of money on me. I didn't ask him to do it. It was not what I needed. But he thought that he could buy my love like this. I just needed him, I needed him next to me, but not always busy and always somewhere I have no idea where. We never talked for real, cause he was too busy to find time for it. He loved me, at least that's what he said. And he thought that if he spends money on me I should sleep with him. When I said that I'm not gonna do it, he disappeared. Love? Honest compliments?

I don't hold anything against you, Max. But you've just touched my painful spot.
wow girl Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 17:39:24 (PDT) [213.59.137.174]

Hey everyone, I enjoy reading your posts, all of you men are really cool. :)
It is hard to have a wonderful relationship with an Asian boyfriend when it seems like there's so much antagonism between white and asian girls. I love my boyfriend and I like his family, but I find so many asian girls to be so hard to deal with. Look at the forum on the front page about Can Asian women and non-Asian women be friends? Asian girls are just bashing white girls saying "They're just jealous of us because we're intelligent and beautiful and skinny". I can't stand such snobbery. Any advice on how to deal with this? I want my relationship to work and I don't want this minor thing to get in the way.
Cute1 Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 15:16:53 (PDT) [199.182.134.71]

Wow girl,

Of course we complement you to hit on you. Definately not because we want to get a job or want you to be our football buddies. I can understand if you feel Max's comments were snide in nature and sound like women are all the same and simple. But his suggestions are general and not a bad idea. Certainly acting like jackass and ogling at breasts won't get positive marks.
HappyGuy Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 20:49:08 (PDT) [136.142.21.13]

"To the asian actor, good luck bro. I clap everytime I see an asian guy on TV that isn't playing a role of a friggin foreigner."

lol. Me too.
SOG Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 15:16:08 (PDT) [216.239.163.220]

Wow Girl,

First of all, why do you judge me in thinking that I only give compliments to women who are attractive, or ones that I want to hit on? I give compliments only when I mean them. They can take it like they please. There have been some instances where women have thought I was trying to hit on them, but I explained to them that it was just an honest compliment. No more, no less. I just give them simple compliments, I don't try to act all cheesy and all that. I'm not two-faced like some people.

Did I ever claim I knew everything about women? I didn't. And I don't. I find out new stuff about women ALL the time. I don't know why you have to accuse me of "thinking I know everything about women"? Go back and read some of my posts on all the forums. I never claim to know everything about anything. I just offer insights based on MY experiences. Based on your comments is seems you think men will only give compliments to women if they want to hit on them.

I'm a little curious as to why you just lashed out at me. I'm not trying assume anything, but I hope you didn't think I was some random cocky Asian guy. Did you have a bad experience with some guy who constantly lied to you and now you won't trust any guy who gives you a compliment? Keep in mind I'm just asking you these things because I want to know your rationale for your pre-concieved notions about me and your lashing.

Do I hold grudges against you? Do I dislike you? No. I just think I deserve a fair chance like everyone else, thats all. I hope this clears up some issues about me for you.
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 14:36:56 (PDT) [205.238.9.194]

Wow Max!

you give advices how to get us, girls!!! That's so funny. You men think you know everything about women. And you don't know that we feel everything every time you are unsincere. We might not show it, but as long as it's not honest compliment it's so obvious. You know, I get so many compliments and so often that I don't believe them now. I am very cute and I'm not stupid. I know men give compliments when they want to hit on me. It's a bad tactic.
wow girl Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 04:12:09 (PDT) [217.106.188.229]

thanks for the welcome.

CBM....you lucky bastard. The only thing I remembered about having a Polish GF was that I worked my ass off to keep the relationship working. Work hard dude.

To the asian actor, good luck bro. I clap everytime I see an asian guy on TV that isn't playing a role of a friggin foreigner.

Max, not really a direct answer to your question, but I found that Japanese girls looked at me differently when they found out that I dated WF. They were less flirtatious with me.....
Joe Naka 25/JM dr_sharked@yahoo.com Monday, September 09, 2002 at 11:21:22 (PDT) [138.89.38.174]

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