Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:30:03 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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Bostonian, i have a feeling you're quite familiar with the ladies, judging by your response. Tell me, has "fishing her" been a lot more successful for you rather than "chasing her"? I would think fishing would let the woman have more fun because the chaser usually has the most fun, while the person being chased has to remain calm and cool. I would like to hear you guy's and ladies's opinions about this. THanks!
Brian Hong Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 05:58:46 (PDT) [24.205.60.195]

Hey Steve,

Thanks for your comment and opinion. I really appreciated it. But you started out calling people "somewhat shallow and or inexperienced with people in general" that is not nice. Don't make any assumption so soon. Try to find out a little more about that person first then maybe, maybe making judgement later. I probably have dealt with more people than you've ever met. But again, I am not on this forum to argue about things like this. I am on this forum to get to know what other people think.

And I know that there are awsome people like Hannybunbun.
Bostonian Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 13:15:37 (PDT) [208.204.140.3]

To Bonstonian,

I'd like to ask you several questions. I don't think I should post those questions at this board. Could you email me please?

Thanks

ttyxterm ttyxterm@hotmail.com Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 13:00:38 (PDT) [12.236.84.47]

Brian Hong,

To response to your post, I am a guy, but this is what I can tell you:

Fisher. Don't chaser.
Bostonian Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 05:30:47 (PDT) [208.204.140.3]

Asian Man,

I think what you said is true. I moved to the Bay Area several months ago and it seems to me that the Bay Area WF are more accepting of AM. Now I want to test my luck:

Does any Bay Area WF want to chat with me over email and possibly exchange pictures? I like WF very much. However, due to my social circle, I haven't had much chance to get to know many of you. (There're more AF around me than WF.) I'm sure some of you also don't have much chance to get to know AM due to the same problem.

I've used some dating websites to find WF, but I didn't have luck. I also used the very popular website of the Bay Area, craigslist, but the result was the same. I think posting my ad here should be a lot more EFFECTIVE. Right, WF? If you are a single, don't you want to date an AM or make friend with one more AM ? If not, then why you are here?

You could either send me a description about yourself, or you could send me a blank email and I will reply with description about myself. You got nothing to lose, right? If we happen to click, both of us will be happy :) So why not?
ttyxterm ttyxterm@hotmail.com Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 03:55:35 (PDT) [12.236.84.47]

To PocahontasDoingItKoreanStyle,

I'm not sure if you still come here very often. I would like to seek more advice from you. Thank you very much for all the generous and honest answers you gave me. I accidentally lost your email address. Could you please email me back?
ttyxterm ttyxterm@hotmail.com Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 03:53:27 (PDT) [12.236.84.47]

Brian Hong,

If you are a MAN, you do the chasing. You can't expect a LADY to do the chasing because LADIES are not supposed to be aggressive!
ttyxterm ttyxterm@hotmail.com Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 03:52:48 (PDT) [12.236.84.47]

Cute1,

Can women, in general, be friends? When it comes to men, it seems like there's always some kind of competitive tension. When race is involved, it must seem very personal, since one's appearance seems to be the focus. But if it is about appearance, with respect to race, I think it's about apples and oranges. Either a guy likes one or the other, or both. I've heard of similiar situations as you described with asian females with white men, or even with your asian/white male counterparts. I'd be curious as to what situation you are talking about though, since you say that it is or might be interferring with your own relationship. Is it affecting your boyfiend? Or do you mean it is making you question your own validity? But, really, would you feel better if it was another white girl hating on you, or even a girl of another race?
Lastly, remember, your boyfriend chose YOU! :)
Steven empy23@msn.com Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 17:09:42 (PDT) [67.119.137.21]

"What the hell are you complaining about, Bostonian?"

If she's so great, what are you you doing questioning this situation? Most people would feel lucky enough to be in a situation where someone treated them so well, as you say. You must be somewhat shallow and or inexperienced with people in general. If you can't appreciate what you have, then end it, so that another guy who doesn't have such hang ups can pursue such a person. I dare ya' to break up with this girl over such a trivial issue. You will realize that you want her back and that this thing becomes rather irrelevant. Yeah, yeah, people stare...maybe it's jealousy. Break the walls of ignorance down! - Whether it's a stigma about height or race. One way or another someone out there is going to stare at you two for their own reasons. You wouldn't want to break up over any of their reasons or esel you';d be eternally single. Just a little tough love.
Steven empy23@msn.com Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 16:59:26 (PDT) [67.119.137.21]

Hannybunbun,

I have always respect you and your comments. Not because of your user ID, I think it is kind a silly :-), but because I have seen your pictures before, and I think you are a very respecful WF.
Yes, I think you are right!. I have no problem with the race, why should I have any problem with the height. Throught out humanity we all have heard and seen people would kill because of the difference in races but not in height. So I don't think I should be worry about that at all :-))It is just sometimes I have these uncomfort and questioning myself. What your husband told you is exactly what I am going through right now.

Thanks for the motivation and support. WFs like you and her are very hard for Asian guys like us to find. I think it would be much easier for us all, AM ,to find a niddle in the occean then to find you ladies.

If you don't mind, I would like to take "tall Dutch princess" and "Shorty Asian Spiceboy" and apply them to us :-)
Bostonian www.geocities.com/shawny_74/ Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 14:27:53 (PDT) [65.235.155.49]

"Asian girls are just bashing white girls saying "They're just jealous of us because we're intelligent and beautiful and skinny". I can't stand such snobbery. Any advice on how to deal with this? I want my relationship to work and I don't want this minor thing to get in the way."

Cute 1,

It's not "snobbery," but RACISM. Those Asian females were being racists.
Bashing White Females Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 13:11:47 (PDT) [198.81.17.188]

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