Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:30:02 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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I deal with the people who stare, I just stare right back at them. They usually get the idea and find something else to stare at.
Tigerlily Friday, September 20, 2002 at 18:55:01 (PDT) [205.188.208.136]

iconic,

Yep prague is the most beautiful city in Europe that noone talks about.

I lived in Prague, Czech Republic for 5 years and the girls there are HOT HOT HOT. Lots of American girls with Czech heritage are hot also. White girls in America w/ Czech heritage, I can connect with any one of them and have a blast.
JK Friday, September 20, 2002 at 11:59:10 (PDT) [128.61.67.29]

ttyxterm,

Please keep it on this board. I don't get private with guys. Sorry! There are people here that might help you with your questions also.
Bostonian Friday, September 20, 2002 at 05:16:19 (PDT) [208.204.140.3]

Brian Hong,

When I say "fisher" I mean persue her and give her what she is expecting but not being desperate. I believe that there is a border line for everything that we do. I Don't cross over that line if am not welcome. I always have given the ladies some room. They have enough guys persuing them already and you or me are just another punk who is trying to get some. I always have tried to make myself stood out in the crowd, which is not hard to do because I am Asian and I live in a almost all Caucasian State and being confident has paid a very good pride.

So, has "fishing her" been a lot more successful for me rather than "chasing her"? That is not up to me to judge. The ladies would let me know and they usually do.

Good Luck!!!
Bostonian Friday, September 20, 2002 at 05:11:49 (PDT) [208.204.140.3]

Do any of the couples become uncomfortable when other people stare at you ? How do you deal with that ?
Asian Knight Friday, September 20, 2002 at 00:43:29 (PDT) [207.102.64.102]

From my experience, AM/WF relationships are not common as AF/WM relationships. However, the AM/WF ones that occur seem to be more long term and the couples get married. A couple of my AM friends have married Caucasian women and been married for 4, 6 yrs respectively. On the contrary, AF/WM relationships usually end up in breakups. Why is that? Any opinions.
AMan Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 21:24:42 (PDT) [24.242.250.149]

hey everybody -

i just got back from a trip to eastern europe. it was outrageous. we did vienna, budapest and prague.

if you want to see some unbelievably good-looking white women, go to prague or budapest.

the women will give you the ice queen treatment, unless you try to speak to them in their native language (i brought along a little book of phrases). if you look like you're trying, they'll be flattered and much friendlier.

go to prague if you can only visit one city. unfortunately, the jewish quarter was flooded when i was there so i didn't get the full experience. regardless, prague is the most beautiful city in eastern europe. i coulda stayed for a year.

here are some pictures from my trip:

photos.yahoo.com/ojanimal/

enjoy!
iconic ojanimal@yahoo.com Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 21:19:25 (PDT) [172.133.6.47]

anyways, who wants a 'lady'?

i want a 'woman'
iconic ojanimal@yahoo.com Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 20:45:05 (PDT) [172.133.6.47]

steven -

you said:

"When it comes to men, it seems like there's always some kind of competitive tension."

not if both guys are confident in themselves.

if you feel competitive with your friends, then you lack true confidence.
iconic ojanimal@yahoo.com Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 20:41:30 (PDT) [172.133.6.47]

I still can't tell if a white female is interested in me please respond.
Rich Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 20:41:14 (PDT) [66.71.31.41]

ttyxterm -

man, you're coming off way to desperate. women can smell desperation at 100 yards. just let things flow. you can't force things to happen.

also, your comment:

"You can't expect a LADY to do the chasing because LADIES are not supposed to be aggressive!"

are you f*cking kidding me. you're not in china. this is the year 2002. women were told not to be aggressive by western society (by most societies, in fact).

here in the US we had what's called a feminist revolution. consequently, i know some women who are more aggressive than men.

in fact, i prefer it that way. that's why i go for the white women - they're usually much more aggressive than asian women, in general.

just be cool. it'll happen. the more you want it to happen, the less chance it will.
iconic ojanimal@yahoo.com Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 20:37:58 (PDT) [172.133.6.47]

Bostonian,

What makes you think you have had more experience in dealing with people more than me? I live in Southern California where diversity as well as hatred is a fact of life, daily. This place is probably one of best places to learn and race relations, good or bad. Rather irrelevant anyways, because it presumes "dealing correctly" is equated with volume. If you really know anything about people, you would see my comment about you being possibly shallow as an analysis of your own comments about how you seem to care about other people gawking at you rather than you appreciating this woman that you have so described as being wonderful or something of the sort. I've read your comments to others on this forum. I think that if you really had any experience, you wouldn't say some of the tactless and irrelevant things that you have, mixing compliment with insult. --That's called a backhanded compliment. I rather think you only care about the opinions of women, in general, and see opinions of other males to be either threatening to you or an imposition to your manhood. If you do, don't call the attention of the "Guys" here. I will, however, cease to post any kind of statement or advice to you in the future, since I think you only want to hear want you want to hear, positive words and sympathy. Sometimes a person needs to be rattled.
"I am on this forum to get to know what other people think." Well you got what I thought, and you didn't seem to like it. On a forum, one is judged by their words, because actions are imperceptible through writing. So if you don't want to be called "Shallow", then talk about other things than outward appearance. But I ain't hating ya', just breaking it down. Lastly, if you want people to judge you by getting to know you first, why would you care about these strangers judging you by what you and your lady look as a couple, anyways? Right? Don't feed into it, or else you will fall victim to it.

Steven Empy23@msn.com Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 17:49:18 (PDT) [67.114.230.203]

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