, only associated with each other, the Sifu had to "approve" girlfriends or boyfriends of students, and students even went as far as to try to break up relationships that other students would have with people that were not in the school. It went far beyond normal boundaries of friendship, or school fellowship. Now he tells me that they consider him a "traitor" for changing schools. It was all getting too cultlike and creepy for us. He attended this school for 7 years and after he left, it was almost like he had to go through deprogramming! No joking, seriously. They still call him and try to make him feel bad for switching schools and even went to the point to try to get him to leave his family, telling him he is a traitor to kung- fu for having a wife and child now and not practicing 7 days a week as before. I know this is extreme, but his new school is welcoming to all, open, comfortable and is just as serious and focused on kung fu without being weird about it. Definitely check out schools and make sure you know what your getting into before signing a contract.
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Friday, March 08, 2002 at 08:47:57 (PST)
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