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"Richard wanted them to be raised Jewish," says Tokuda. "I respect his
wish. I didn't grow up with organized religion demands, so I was open to
what he wanted."
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"My selection of a marriage partner has to do with a bunch of things. A lot
of it has to do with just the generation I was born into."
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Tokuda does want at least some aspects of her Japanese culture to be passed
down through her daughters. For example, in naming them, she and Hall
wrangled out an elaborate formula that would allow each daughter to carry
essentials tokens of both sides of the family. 11-year-old Mikka, for
example, has a Japanese first name and a Jewish middle name. "We put
unbelievable amounts of thought into naming the girls," says Tokuda.
"Jewish people have a tradition that you name a child after the last person
that died or with a name that begins with the same letter. With Mikka she's
a girl and her grandmother's name is Rose." Therefore, Mikka's middle name
is Rose. Her 8-year-old sister Maggie has a first name that incorporates the
letter M from the name of another relative on her father's side and a
Japanese midle name.
"Bonodori was a real big deal for me when I was growing up," says Tokuda.
"So in the Bay Area I found a church that had it and we would go to these
rehearsals and the girls and I would put our kimono on in the summer and
on the bonodori we would go down and dance. In the summer they would
go to this program called Darumanugaku that was set up by a group of
sansei like me who wanted their children to make sure they get culture.
They would go to this program for five weeks." Tokuda admits that despite
her year in Japan her Japanese isn't good enough to teach the language to
her daughters.
Soon after her second daughter was born Tokuda's father passed away. The
death came at a time when he had begun to acknowledge and respect his
wife's individuality and talents as a creative writer. After a long hiatus from
writing brought on by the demands of her marriage to a very strictly
traditional Japanese American husband, Tama Tokuda, then in her sixties,
had begun writing again, even winning an award from a Northwestern
writer's group. "My dad was so excited. He was trying to get her to write
more, write more. After he died, she was devastated and it took a long time
to pick things up, but when she did, it was as if for the first time in her life
she had her own life."
A year ago Tama, who had never acted in her life, played the lead role in a
Northwest Asian Theater production of Philip Kan Gotanda's The Wash
about a Japanese American woman who feels trapped in an oppressive
marriage. "She was wonderful," says Tokuda of her 72-year-old mother's
performance. "She was in another play last year. They asked that she be in
another play this year in a lead role."
"I'm talking about a woman who went from a very traditional relationship to
a very different one with herself," says Tokuda. "She wrote a whole article
about what it's like to have that happen." Despite the physical distance that
separates them, Tokuda remains very close to her mother and is admiring of
her evolution from housewife to award-winning artist. Tokuda refuses,
however, to allow any connection between her mother's experience with her
father and her own choice of husbands.
"My selection of a marriage partner has to do with a bunch of things," she
says. "A lot of it has to do with just the generation I was born into."
The first thing Tokuda cites about Hall is his character. She ties that
intimately with his commitment to what she describes as sixties values like
community service, the peace movement and the free speech movement.
"I think both of us are definitely products of the 60s." The 60s come up a
lot in my conversation with Tokuda. It soon becomes apparent that she
ascribes most of our society's positive values to 60s activism. It is equally
clear that she ascribes to Richard all the same positive values.
"The thing I find the most wonderful about him — not the only thing, his
character's the main thing — is his real commitment to making this a better world. I sound so corny, I hate to even hear myself say it, but in his case, I think it's really true. He really means it. He's a very interesting man and he just gets more interesting all the time. He travels a lot and he reads a lot. He's a student of the world."
Soon after Tokuda was promoted in late 1980 to become the lead anchor for
KPIX's 6 and 11 p.m. news broadcasts, Hall left to become executive
producer of a highly-rated 10 o'clock news program at KTVU, an
independent statin. "I never felt like Wendy and I were competing because
our shows weren't aired on the same time slots," says Hall. He left KTVU in
1987 to become an independent producer of local broadcasts of satellite
broadcasts of major events.
At around the time the Bay Area was captivated by the plight of a
humpbacked whale that had strayed into the Bay and gotten itself trapped
in the Sacramento River. The media named him Humphrey. For weeks
reports of Humphrey's progress was a regular part of Tokuda's news
broadcasts. She hit on the idea of turning Humphrey's story into a children's
book. At Hall's suggestion they contacted a local Japanese children's book
publisher. Tokuda did most of the work in writing the book.
"She's very details-oriented," says Hall. "I'm big-picture." Humphrey the
Humpback Whale was published in 1987 and became a children's
best-seller. This encouraged the couple to write a second book called
Shiro in Love about a male dog who becomes famous throughout Japan
when he swims to a neighboring island for the sake of a female dog.
Published in 1989, the book shows a distinctive flair for language and a
happy knack for shaping a subject into a children's story. According to Hall,
credit for Shiro can be more evenly apportioned.
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