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"I'm extremely family-oriented," says Tokuda. "That's the key to
understanding me." When it comes to members of her family Tokuda talks
fast, as though to fit in all she wants to say about each of them. "Here's the
thing for me about Los Angeles that's so wonderful — I have family all over
the place here! Richard's two sisters moved back here within six months of
when we did, and all of them have been away for years. And my baby
sister's here who I'm very close to." Of her siblings, Tokuda is closest to
younger sister Marilyn Tokuda, an actress successful enough to have
supported herself through her acting. "Last night she was over for dinner
because it's her birthday. She was on Magnum P.I. a lot. The other day
we rented All of Me and my girls said, 'Hey, there's Auntie Marilyn.'
She was with Nick Nolte in Farewell to the King, the only one of his
movies that didn't do well. It was a big part. She's very active with East
West Players. She's been hired to direct a student play at USC, an Asian
American play." Tokuda claims that Marilyn, who is married to a
wardrober, is the real beauty of their family.
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"In the summer when we were living up in Piedmont, I would get home and my
daughters would say, 'Let's play', and I'd say, 'Okay, I'll be the farmer' and
I'd work away on my garden."
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Then there's Richard's father Monty and his wife, also named Marilyn.
"Marrying into that family..." There is a long pause as Tokuda tries to
balance her words precisely on the cusp between candor and discretion. She
backs up a bit and tacks on a preface: "Richard and I come from very
different backgrounds. Monty and Marilyn have been extremely welcoming
to me, and loving. The first time I went [to their home] was different than
anything I was raised with. They're more than nice. Monty was more than
nice." Talking about in-laws Tokuda is as animated as in discussing her
own family. At the same time she is compulsive about leaving out personal
details — no matter how innocuous. Richard provides a clue as to what his
father may be like. "My father didn't raise me like a show-business family."
"There's a feeling of family and that warmth here that I could never find in
the Bay Area, no matter how long I stayed there," says Tokuda. "My sister,
his sisters and his parents. We see them all the time. I really have spent
most of my free time with family!" Even cousins on both sides of the family
are warmly included in Tokuda's regular family gettogethers. Richard Hall
agrees that, unlike up in the Bay Area, down here most of their free time is
spent with family.
Tokuda's passion for family centers on her daughters. Recently,
when Mikka had a sinus infection, Tokuda's weekend and weekday spare
moments were given over to seeing her through. The
demands of anchoring two evening news broadcasts force certain
compromises in her daily routine. She typically doesn't get home until some
time after midnight, well after her two daughters are asleep. Despite the
presence of a live-in babysitter, Tokuda tries to wake up at 7:30 or 8 to have
breakfast with the girls and to take them to school. At about 9:30 she
returns to bed in the hope of getting another hour and a half of sleep.
Getting up again around eleven, she jogs for about a mile and a half. "I am
the slowest jogger you have ever seen in your life!"
An advantage of Tokuda's off-beat schedule is that it lets her join Maggie for
lunch and serve as an assistant room mother. Upon returning home Tokuda
might spend an hour on her organic garden before work. "I am a fierce
organic gardener," she says, once again exposing her 60s roots. "Now I'm
having to plant another one because we're just building a new house. In the
summer when we were living up in Piedmont, I would get home and my
daughters would say, 'Let's play', and I'd say, 'Okay, I'll be the farmer' and
I'd work away on my garden."
Arriving at the station at 3 p.m., Tokuda goes in for makeup which she
doesn't wear outside of work. Then she familiarizes herself with scripts for
the 5 p.m. broadcast as they come in. Under a deal with co-anchor Paul
Moyers, she goes home between broadcasts on alternating evenings.
Subtracting two-way driving time, Tokuda gets two and a half hours with
her family every other evening before having to return by 9:30 to prepare
for her late broadcast.
"And for the 11 o'clock you start the drill all over again," she says, revealing
a sense of how wearying the routine must be. "I really like working
stories, but it's harder to do on this shift. I come in early to work on the interviews,
then once I do the field work, I can write it and look at tapes between
broadcasts. I haven't done much story work since I started on this shift."
She recently developed a report on a Watts performing arts high school that
manages to send all its students on to college. The impulse behind stories
like that, says Tokuda, comes from her feeling that there aren't enough
stories about underprivileged minorities.
"Those of us who were first through the gate owe something to those who
come later," she says. Tokuda is almost apologetic about having said that;
she knows that it puts her at risk of sounding pious and corny. But the
issue matters to her. She herself might not have considered going into TV
journalism had there not been a Japanese American woman reporter on one
of the Seattle channels.
"Every time she would come on the air," recalls Tokuda, "my family would
get all excited and crowd around the TV set."
Having paid dues early in her career as a reporter and a weekend anchor,
Tokuda is now able to enjoy free weekends. There was a time when she and
Hall saw them as time to spend with each other. "Now we always end up
spending them with Mikka and Maggie because it feels like we don't see
them enough during the week." She and Hall try to schedule a Tuesday date
whenever he isn't out of town, which, complains Tokuda, is too often.
Recently, for example, Hall has been in Thailand filming his documentary on
Heaven and Earth.
Tokuda's preoccupation with family and privacy might strike some as odd in
a woman who makes herself available to ten million pairs of eyes ten times
each week. That apparent contradiction, however, is merely the common
paradox of media personalities and politicians who have learned that they
must nurture in private the substance they must offer for public
consumption. What makes Tokuda a rarity is that she remembers that her
real life is off-camera. Rather than holding her life in abeyance to her
career, she has assumed all the risks and obligations of being a real person,
with her own personal needs and agenda. As L.A.'s TV sets go dark for the
night, Wendy Tokuda is on her way home to her real life with her real
family.
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