Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Not implying but telling the truth,

The mere fact that you belonged to over 30 (!) clubs makes you sound a little more desperate than most!

Hate to be dissing on another black woman but...Sorry! I think you asked for that one!
Yowser! Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 09:48:15 (PST)

jaheeeesus, lydia, your going to get every asian man on the planet wanting to get into your pants with that post. You just stated the male species dream, having sex with a women without the boyffriend/girlfriend commitment, kinky sex, and there is the possibility of future threesomes with another women. What can i say.........I WANT YOU BAD!....haha just thought id make a comment on the very erecting post.
HuRRicAnE ToNGUe Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 09:01:47 (PST)

Lydia/Eban2/Not Implying but telling The Truth,

Just stop it now! Goodness!
Hateful people Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 08:45:04 (PST)

"Not Implying but telling The Truth"

Hello Angry and Jealous Individual. Did you let off enough racist steam yet? Got more? Let it out... let it all out sweety! Why do you hate yourself so much? Your hate is starting to spread beyond yourself and onto other people. Relax and breathe deeply. You will love a longer, more prosperous life, if you just "take a chill pill".

I'm a BW and if I could show a video tape of all that my AM did to pursue me and get me into his life, your dumb ass would hurl.

Please don't be jealous and hateful toward BW, because that is just a waste of your energy. We're just too strong.

The thoughts of a troll like you mean nothing to us. So, just calm down. Pick up a book. Go camping. Meditate! Just find a way to fix yourself sweety!
Why do people hate themselves??? Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 08:42:45 (PST)

Hey Lydia!

I'm not a guy, but I am simply praising you for the way your post sounds. No really! I love it when women are completely frank about what they want. True "Heartless Bitch" material.

http://www.heartlessbitches.com

It's not what you think. Check it out!
Be careful though...not everyone on this board is as...erm...liberal as I am. (Congrats on coming to terms with yourself and who you are. Some women haven't done that.)

Not implying:

I wouldn't call it pathetic perse...more like...ambitious. Sometimes women open clubs in the hopes that they will meet someone online. I've seen clubs started by men that women join for this reason as well.

I joined a club called "Frauen von Deutschland", it was made FOR women who speak German and love German culture. Lo and Behold all of these men joined so they could talk to women with a like mind. But I understand what you are saying.

JTHM Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 08:33:12 (PST)

CoolKitten,

Thanks! I wear relaxed Jeans with my Timbs. Construction type? You mean wearing jeans that aren't too tight and aren't too big? If that's what you mean, then Yeah. That's how I wear them. I sometimes wear baggy (but not too baggy that it falls down to the middle of my rear)jeans with the bottom folded up once or twice. I mostly wear suits from Dolce&Gabana, Armani, Kenneth Cole, and Hugo Boss. Queen of The Damned? I haven't even seen the preview. That last movie I saw was "The Fast And The Furious". I don't get a chance to do much, being I travel alot for work.
Maximuxxxx Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 05:55:56 (PST)

Not Implying Anything But Telling The Truth:

I respect your point of views, but why say negative things, when there are so much negativity already in the world. If you didn't have a positive thing to say, then just leave it be. I don't think that there are black women in these clubs looking for Asian men like "dogs". The ladies the I've talked to are merely looking for a friend. Someone to talk to, get to know. Some are just looking to kill time while they're at work and what not. You seems like you're feed up with the clubs? If so, why you are in over 30 clubs? If you're tired of seeing them as you quote, unquote saying "looking for Asian men like dogs", then why join another club? Why don't you just get out of the club and leave it be? Anyways, I didn't want to start an argument or anything. Just saying if you don't have anything nice to say, then it's best that it's not said at all.
Maximuxxxx Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 05:47:17 (PST)

Speaking of chasing girls......
Where's that Girl X? I wanna chase you.

I totally saw you this past Sunday! Can I just tell you, you're way too fine to ride a motorcycle! What if you mess up that pretty face of yours. Next time I won't lurk in the supermarket......heh.
Racer X Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 03:03:23 (PST)

Not Implying but telling The Truth,

So, what exactly are YOU implying when you say,

"Out of those clubs only TWO of those clubs were founded and started by Asian men, and out of those TWO Asian men, ONE of them is a bisexual!"

That the man can't be legitimate about forming a relationship with a woman because he's bisexual?

How about when you said,

" The truth is that Black women are the ones looking for Asian men, searching left and right for Asian men and chasing like mad dogs, Asian men. "

Are you looking out in the real world, outside of chatrooms? I don't know where you live but here in the bay area, I don't think the ladies are concerned at all, with chasing asian ass. The asian ass is surely chasing them. Yes, me included. So then, who is wrong if they chase? What's this bullsh!t that a woman can't chase a man? That a man HAS to chase a woman? Half the reason people don't get together in the first place is because some book or etiquette says you should do steps 3,4 & 5 in the game of love. That kind of stuff never works.

If you are tired of seeing clubs set-up by Black women, then you need to look a little harder. I have a secret for you. As a male, I can see why there are more groups started by females, cause guys lack those skills needed to start these groups. They don't wanna be in some egroup filled with a bunch of men looking for the same thing. And I know, I don't have the patience to start a group. Or the time. Although I do have the time to scroll thru these little posts from time to time. Another thing, there are actually alot of places on line that the subject of dating black women comes up quite often[pros & cons]. But, the thing is, they are not dating sites or groups.
I don't think the women here or anywhere who enjoy the company of an asian man, regardless of stereotypes and such, are pathetic at all. If you don't call out, or raise your voice how will the other hear you?

Racer X Thursday, February 07, 2002 at 02:53:11 (PST)

To:
Not Implying but Telling the Truth,

You are obviously implying that a great number of us Asian guys are not looking for Black women as partners in general. Or, at least, not a comparable number to those Black women seeking Asian men. What difference does that make? Some way some how, we find our mates, whether we were looking for them or not. You don't always find what you are looking for.....sometime it finds you.

Take Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 20:53:23 (PST)

damn you're right! that troll does bothers everybody else's clubs except ife/eban's club. this is something to think about.i went over there and read that message. this is interesting.
you're right! Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 19:28:35 (PST)

To Not Implying but telling The Truth,
Please stop lying.

I am an asian guy and I love black women...they're all beautiful with dark sensuous eyes, full lips, and gorgeous skin...and that's just the icing on the cake...so please silence yourself and allow us asian guys to find our chocolate honeys...thank you.

To all the black ladies...i love you all
Jin Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 16:32:18 (PST)

lol@lydia10_ma!!
hahahahahahahahha!hehehehehehehe!
A freak Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 15:37:01 (PST)

To: Not Implying but telling The Truth,

What difference does it make who started these clubs, and who cares if Ahgnus is "Bisexual", it's his business if he is or isn't, not yours or anyone elses.

What I'm tired of is people, negative people posting negativity on these boards, always complaining about stupid things, craping about who is chasing who, and most of all, BW hating on other BW whom are either in a relationship with an AM or looking for one, as well as all of the name calling.

People should stop trying be self righteous and bitter, and inflicting they're bitterness on other people. And for the record, there are clubs for AM/BW that were created by AM. Nobody is acting desperate, we are just trying to bridge the gap between our cultures, learning to love and respect each other on a certain level among other levels.
And truth be told, there are lots of AM that are seeking BW in ways you will never imagine, and there is nothing worng with that.

Jas Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 13:33:13 (PST)

To the imposter who is using my name indiscretely: Get a life!

It is unfortunate that people in this forum are insecure about themselves. It would be great for people to actually respond to the topic.

The "real" Lauren Alexander Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 12:12:55 (PST)

Lauren Alexander:

Trolling like I "usually" do? What? Firstly, a troll is someone who either:

A) Steals someone's name in an attempt to cause mischief on a message board/ chat room by saying deragatory or offense things.

or

B) Someone who uses a chosen name briefly (perhaps one to two times) to cause mischief by saying deragatory or offensive things.

Let me see. I've ALWAYS used this name. I rarely say anything deragatory or offensive to anyone unless they piss me off, and people on this board know who I am and hopefully have no doubt that all (except for that one post) of my messages were typed by ME, THE homicidal maniac.

What I find odd is the fact that you're completely new yet you already are deciding to bad mouth someone based on a simple explanation that wasn't even directed to you. (And you talk about SistaMoonKitty getting into someone's business?) Also, apparently you know nothing about Yahoo or the glitches that their servers constantly have.

How queer that you would then try to get into the "good graces" of those on this board by adding fuel to the fire of the "Eban2/Eddiesocrazy" conversation. I'm sure someone here would like your nose out of their ass.

So all in all...I think my dear that YOU are the troll. Probably the same troll that posted under my name. It seems as if that SINGLE FORGED post coincides rather conveniently with your accusation of my communications being "hate filled."

I tip my hat off to you though "Lauren", it certainly took a minimal amount of imagination to pull this off.
JTHM Wednesday, February 06, 2002 at 11:33:05 (PST)

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