Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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KAYKAY,

I can't find ONE. If you find them Please let me know!!!!!

SinhSinh (my favorite eatery) Friday, February 15, 2002 at 06:51:52 (PST)

Trenee73

What a sad 'lady'!

Been to Black men and Asian women's post before? you'll never hear a black man say a rude word about Black women but I don't understand why Black women always going on like they hate themselves.

Please stop this nonsense and get on with the real issue.
Madambutterfly freshandfunky@hotmail.com Friday, February 15, 2002 at 04:56:40 (PST)

Trenee73 Trenee73@yahoo.com:

Wow! its ok if you like to date outside your race but for you to be so disrespecting to black men like that is stupid, uncalled for and wrong!

Actually, i don't believe that you are a black woman, i think someone is trying to cause problems here but if you are for real, a "black woman" , you must be full of SELF HATRED!

Have you ever tought about the reasons why so many black men are in relationship with other races( especially with white women and latinos and incresingly Asians)? because of "black women"like you!

Get a life, get a grip and stop embarrasing other black women!

p.s: remember that your father is black and so is your mum!

Realblackwoman Lowselfesteem! Friday, February 15, 2002 at 04:38:34 (PST)

I can understand why your boyfriend's family is opposed to him being with you. What kind of girlfriend will be at a bar alone talking to other men and divulging personal information to strange men and hitting on strangers in a bar? My family expects me to bring home a respectable lady. Your boyfriend's family expects the same and they are wise to see that he has not found that in you.
To: SistaMoonKitty Thursday, February 14, 2002 at 19:33:18 (PST)

SistaMoonKitty,

What's Up girl? I know how you feel about the oldest son. My boyfriend is from China and as the oldest boy he has the responsibility of being the support of his parents as they get older (now just his mother, his father passed away a few years ago). I already expected that since I am the oldest in my family and in my culture you must take on more responsibility.

After his father died he paid off the house and assumed the responsibility of paying the household bills on top of his own bills, eventhough his mother is working. Believe it or not you can be supportive of him by just being there for him without words (kisses and hugs help also :)

Your man might need a gentle understanding KICK IN THE BUTT to get himself going as far as what he wants to do in life.

NEVER SAY NEVER ON THE LANGUAGE THING. I learned Cantonese so I know if I can do it aaaaaannnnnnnyyone can.

PEACE KID!

FARAH Thursday, February 14, 2002 at 12:41:41 (PST)

Trenee,
No need for BM bashing. Really. My boyfriend is Japanese, and honestly, I feel Japanese have better standards than Vietnamese. I could never date a Vietnamese guy. So your quality standard, to me, doesn't make sense. Therefore, no need to bash BM. It's just not necessary. You don't like them, you don't like them. That's it.

I do not bash BM and he does not bash AW, even though, I know we both have our issues with members of the opposite sex of our races. But we love each for who we are, and that's really all that matters.
Lily Thursday, February 14, 2002 at 09:30:49 (PST)

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