Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Japanese and Korean are similar because the originate from the same root language. If you don't speak Korean or Japanese, the easiest way to tell the difference, is that Korean sounds like Japanese slowed down. Defnitely my Japanese culture shares much with Korea .... this is probably why we have the reputation we have with the Korean people, as being rivals.
Takeshi Da Wednesday, February 20, 2002 at 00:42:42 (PST)

Asian Guy and ROK man,

Thank you very much for the info. I feel a lot more informed, and not so silly about asking the question in the first place. I'm also rather impressed with the amount of knowledge you both have on the origins of the language.

Thank you for detailed descriptions you gave. I found the languages you both listed with similarities to Corean(Korean)to be pretty interesting.

Perhaps our school system should include more varied world history/language courses on the secondary school level. It would be nice if all americans were a bit more informed on the language and/or history of other cultures. I believe europe is already fairly well covered. But I guess there is always the college level.

Anyway, thanks again. If you do happen to see the movie please let me know what you think. I must mention that I also liked the movie's portrayal of strong, butt kicking, dedicated women.
A Black Female Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 22:48:38 (PST)

i heard that chinese and japanese can read each others writing but cant understand when speaking? is this true?
king kong strong Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 20:27:12 (PST)

I, want to comment about the asian gansta movie mentioned here the movie BROTHER I have seen the movie enjoyed it much...what did I enjoy ? Well, the truth it showed of a Day in A Life of the "Underworld".I,dated a asian gangsta once and I am sworn to this day to secrecy...he protected me and was always around when I least expected him and his crew I LOVED HIM HE GAVE ME THE WORLD..so to SistamoonKitty I've been there and done that.
AUKZ Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 15:28:23 (PST)

Speaking languages, I want as many opinions as I can get. Okay here it goes. I am planning to study Mandarin at my local university, but there is a school that specializes in Chinese language AND culture. The thing is my college Chinese is included in my tuition & the STL. Chinese Language School is on the expensive side. Should I go on to the STL. Chinese Language School (I mean they do offer a lot more) or settle for what I can for the time being? I'm at a financial crossroads, people!!! HELP!!!
AsioPhile 81 needs help with spending Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 11:47:58 (PST)

How many of you all are in serious relationships (BW/AM)? I am and I'm frustrated because interracial dating in my city consists of two types DOMINANTLY- BM/WW and AW/WM.

I saw one other BW/AM couple in the gym and I wanted to go give them a hug, but couldn't really tell if they were "a couple". It just feels so lonely when you don't see other couples like ours, but then again, I would not want to be part of the more common dating demographics because then we would just be the "typical" interracial couple.

People are so intrigued by my boyfriend and I. We are always getting compliments, especially on what a "stikingly beautiful" couple we are. We are actually showered with affection when we go out. I'm sure these types of compliments are rare for BM/WW or AW/WW, so in that sense it feels good.

But even if I just knew personally, one other BW/AM couple, that would be nice. My boyfriend seems to always have his eyes open for them, but for now, he at least appreciates it when he sees BW/WM couples. The day we see one together, I think we will just go up to them and introduce ourselves. Does that sound crazy?
Want BW/AM friends Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 11:37:06 (PST)

Thank you "Asian guy" for the nice "basic" lesson on the languages and for the nice ending comment about black women. I think you Asian guys are gorgeous too!
kaykay khrisna.harper@accenture.com Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 10:31:29 (PST)

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