Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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WantBW/AM friends

You have a friend here. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He is Chinese. We live in Maryland and the Asian population here is growing, especially Korean and Chinese. We went to the Chinese New Year celebration in D.C. We actually got stared at by the BM/AF couples, but I think we put them at ease because we took away the stares from them :) We smiled at them and they smiled back and nodded (like a code to say everythings alright).

My mother is black and my stepfather is white (he is the one I have known as Daddy since I was 3, try living in the 70's when WM/BF wasn't widely accepted)
My parents philosophy is find your happiness but don't lose yourself.

And if I do say so myself we are a BEAUTIFUL couple:)

FARAH noorlto@hotmail.com Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 07:45:39 (PST)

Want BW/AM friends:

Well I think I might have a funny story for you. A while back, a girl I was dating invited me out with a friend of hers & her boyfriend. She & her girlfriend were newly accquainted and apparently never brought up anything specific about the guys in their lives. So, I'm a little concerned I'm going to be in a firebox the whole night, sitting across the table from a Black man explaining to him why I feel a strong attraction to Black women. Well, we're waiting for them in the lobby of the resturant and my date sees her friend as she walks in, introduces us and the woman just laughs. She chuckles and said,
" My boyfriend is parking the car and when he makes it here, I'll tell why I'm laughing. "
Not knowing what to think, we waited for the poor guy who was out in the rain looking for a spot. He shows up shortly and I see him and yes, we all laugh. The guy was Asian, like me, Except he was Korean. So, what a spectacle we were, two Black women with two Asian men. Does that sound crazy?

Takeshi Da Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 00:57:27 (PST)

to A Black Female:

Well, Korean, although it is a distinct tongue, it shares tonality w/ Japanese. If you listen carefully to Japanese, it's much faster spoken than Korean. They DO sound very similar but the structure is not. For instance, the placement of the the verb in a sentence. I heard somewhere that they think Japanese is actually ancient Korean.
Jin I Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 00:30:34 (PST)

I'm a Black female who loves Asian men, I last dated a chinese guy a year ago I broke it off with him because he was much to bossy, besides that mess went out with slavery but at least he cryed when I called it off, well just a little, he still calls, I can always be his friend but never his lover again.

I like guys who work-out at the gym
I run around 5 miles three or four times a week. My guy must be able to cook in and out of the kitchen nothing more sexy than an Asian guy in the kitchen in the buff. it's ok if he has kid.

Wash board abs are a plus he must be over 25 and under 40 yrs.old because I like to party at least once a week, the man must be able to keep up.

I have a lot of engry to give to a meaningful relationship.(by the way I have long black hair the real kind and short nails)if you need real sista love maybe we can get to know one another.

hey black girls keep loving those Asian guys.
sistalove sista_love@saramnet.com Wednesday, February 20, 2002 at 22:21:11 (PST)

want bw/am friends

I'm curious to know what city do you and your boyfriend live in.
kc Wednesday, February 20, 2002 at 19:58:23 (PST)

I love the way Asian men hands feel on my body in the bedroom. Anyone else?
kaykay khrisna.harper@accenture.com Wednesday, February 20, 2002 at 15:56:36 (PST)

Takeshi Da,
There is no concrete linguistic proof of what you say as far as Korean and Japanese originating from the same language.
In fact, many of the similarities you will find are due to the vast number of words inherited from different chinese languages throughout the centuries in both languages.
If they are related, it would be a distant relationship, and anyway, that has yet to be proven.
They do have similar sounds though and have a very beautiful sound.

asian guy Wednesday, February 20, 2002 at 13:45:59 (PST)

Brother was a great movie directed by (Takeshi Kitano) he has an unique style of writing and directing. Love this guy, he's a writing genius, great how he placed Omar Epps in the lead role. Check out (Kikujiro) it's a softer movie with a lot of dry humor.

by the way I love Asian men
African American Beauty Wednesday, February 20, 2002 at 11:24:50 (PST)

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