Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Anything to get closer to you fine ladies...
Asian guy Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 22:06:41 (PST)

Any runners in here?

As I've said earlier, I run about five miles a day about four times a day. I've lost 40 pounds this way and I have about 40 more to go.

So if you're between 25 and 40 give this sexy long haired black sister a holla.

Remember it's ok if you have a kid since I have one too!

hey black girls keep loving those Asian guys they are wonderful.

sistalove sista_love@saramnet.com Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 20:18:35 (PST)

I think am/bf couples are becoming more accepted in our society. I think the issue is whether the two are attracted to one another. I remember taking an interracial relationship class and one of the Asian guys said that he never dated a Black woman because he didn't think they would find him attractive. He dated White and Asian girls. The class appreciated his response. I think there is a lot of truth in his statement. I happen to think the opposite if Asian guys are attracted to Black females. It looks like they do. I wish they did in Sacramento, CA.

Good luck to you all!
Gabby Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 12:59:41 (PST)

Farah,

Do you have pics of you and your boyfriend? I'm glad there are am/bf couples out there!
Gabby Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 12:53:39 (PST)

Thanks for the stories/Responses!

What a funny story Takeshi Da. I did think about that though: how it would look going out with another BW/AM couple. It would look "on purpose", but then again, who cares. It's a free country. We can choose friends as we please.

kc, I'm in St. Louis. I truly think we are the only such couple around, even though this is definitely a major metropolitan area.

FARAH, like an intelligent lady and I'm sure you two make a beautiful couple. Do you mind if I e-mail you sometime? Perhaps we can share stories/experiences.
Want BW/AM Friends Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 12:52:46 (PST)

"The guy was Asian, like me, Except he was Korean. So, what a spectacle we were, two Black women with two Asian men. Does that sound crazy?"

No. It should sound normal.

Asian American Male Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 12:36:47 (PST)

"We actually got stared at by the BM/AF couples.."

A lot of them here in DC, especially if you visit the Pentagon City Mall in Virginia on a saturday or sunday. I live right next to it. However, I do not see many AM/BF couples here. Good to know that there are some in this area as well.
Asian American Male Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 12:35:24 (PST)

Farah:

You live in Maryland too? Small world. Oh well. I always get psyched when people live close to me. How was the celebration in Washington DC? I didn't get to go, my boyfriend was sick and since it was mainly my fault (Ahem...I kinda...coughed on him...a little...a lot.) I took care of him.

I wish I could have gone. Now I feel like I missed something.

JTHM Thursday, February 21, 2002 at 12:20:39 (PST)

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