Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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I happen to be more attracted to the light skinned BFs'. I think they're so fine. Its just my personal preference. I believe people are entitled to their preferences.
Thats just my opinion.
n.san23 Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 07:50:38 (PDT)

Don't worry ladies, they're still some guys left on this poll!

It's just this light-skinned dark-skinned thing throws some of us off. Well, me at least.
Take Wednesday, May 01, 2002 at 00:13:46 (PDT)

Okay, I've got a CHALLENGE for everyone on this board.

Every Black woman who thinks that Asian men won't like her because she is too dark/light/tall/loud/mousy/whatever, has to approach at least 3 Asian men this week and start a conversation. It can be simple -- asking the time, getting for directions, complimenting them on their Palm Pilot (that one works like a charm!) Just take the risk and see what happens.

Every Asian man who would like to approach that fine Black woman, but is afraid she will reject and/or embarrass him, has to approach at least 5 Black women this week and start a conversation. Why 5 instead of 3? Because dating is a numbers game and the more you get shot down, the less you'll fear rejection! It's true!

There's only one rule here: you need to approach a person, not an "employee." Telling the delivery guy that you want extra sauce does not count. Asking the bus driver if she has change for your $5 bill also does not count (and she'll just say no anyway!). If you absolutely must approach someone while they're on the clock, then you have to try to get their digits!

Good luck, have fun, and let us know how it works out!

Peace and love for all,
SistaMoonkitty Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 22:07:00 (PDT)

Okay, okay, okay, so now we've got a whole bunch of black women feeling angry, insulted and victimized and NO ASIAN MEN! (with the notable exception of our man Azn Mack). Could it be that all of this "blacker than thou" sniping has scared off the guys? There's probably not much that any of them can contribute to the conversation at this point. Besides, who would want to date ANYONE who spends so much of their time hating other people?

What can we do to restore this forum to an Asian Male/Black Female Relationships forum again? What can we say to entice our golden princes back onto the board?

Peace and love for all,
SistaMoonkitty Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 21:46:15 (PDT)

To all the black gals on this board:

How should I approach a very cute black girl when I hardly know her? I have to admit there is some sense of curiosity here. I have always gone out with attractive AF/WFs and never a black gal. One black gal at work showed interest but I was not particularly attracted to her. However I am attracted to another black gal. Would you be interested in an Asian guy if he is much more educated and wealthy (not a joke, some girls are turned off by these qualities)? I am much more educated than the average population. Thank you.
Asian Brother Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 16:54:17 (PDT)

Ok, can we like go on to the next topic.
Discussing this color issue that the fake azz name stealing troll has brought to this forum is tired. Why don't we just move on to the next thing and drop this BS. Black people will always hold themselves back worrying about who is this color and who is that color. It is pointless to keep explaining ourselves to people who see things the way they want to see it.

The only thing I wish is that we have to stop specifying to everyone how mixed we are and just be united in the fact that we have an interest in AM/BW relationships. Forget about all this talk of "Hi my name is jane doe and I/m part this and part that. Who cares besides you. Doesn't mean much to no one else. I came here to read up on how BW relate to AM and the highs and lows of it all. Tired of having to hear about everyones specific backgrounds.

So can we pleeeeeaaaasse drop this subject and get back to how much we are attracted to AM and vice versa?
Third Eye Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 11:52:53 (PDT)

WHY? WHY? wHY?

Why do we respond to people like this who seem to hate themselves just as much as they hate (or envy)those they are putting down. We as Black women have enough to deal with, the idea of who is blacker than who is real shitty. You can be black as coal dust, that doesn't mean you know more about being African-American than your fair skinned sister nor is a light-skinned sister less than or better than her darker sister.

Women like this are to petty and pathetic.

AND NEED A GOOD MAN!
FARAH Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 10:19:29 (PDT)

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