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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%
Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%




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I went to the Shogun restaurant last night with one of my friends. A man was sitting at the other table from me. He casually smiled and kept glancing over at me every now and then. It startled me when he came over to us. He asked me where I was from. I told him about how I just moved down here from New York City.
We talked a little more and more-
and exchanged phone numbers. In the car, my friend Rochelle was like,"Why did you get his number? Your not really gonna talk to that chinese guy are you?" He wasn't even chinese, he was japanese! What did she know?LOL!
He called me this morning asking to take me to breakfast. I was a little skeptical...because my friend said that it was too soon to have breakfast with a man I had just met. But then again, this is the same friend against me talking to an AM. Do you think its too soon, if a man asks you out to breakfast? Like, if you just met the night before? If anyone may have some insight on this, men or women...please give it. I would really appreciate it. As long as it is not racist or anything.

Keturah    Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 08:17:27 (PDT)
I keep seeing this drop dead gorgeous black girl near campus, but everytime I see her I'm on my way to class, so I haven't had a chance to talk to her. She's absolutely beautiful; she's very tall, skinny, she has a gorgeous face, a very thin waist, and she always wear really trendy vintage clothing, which I find very stylish. I can't stop thinking about her.

kc    Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 01:31:01 (PDT)
This is an interesting site. Some of the posts were quite thoughtful.
E. Selwyn emmaselwyn@cs.com    Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 18:12:17 (PDT)
My mom and I went to a place for a pedicure yesterday. This really cute vietnamese guy works there. We started getting into some conversation. He was asking me if I were single, and that he found me attractive. He was telling me how he was completely single. He just went on and on about how he wanted to really get to know me better...
You wont even believe this...Not too much longer after this, a really very heavy set BW came into the shop with hair rollers in her hair and a big ass scarf. And she had on some house shoes, broke all down in the back. She looked really upset. I couldn't figure it out at first. I kept wondering what her deal was. She went to him and started muttering something to him in a rough tone of voice...I heard her say,"Why are you talking to other women Lee? I saw you in the window.Didn't you tell me you loved me? Do you still love me or not?" She was really really mad. He kinda whispered a little quitely (but we still heard everything),"Uhh...Yea. Yea, you know I still do"...I was like...DAMN!LOL!!!
I kept trying not to laugh. I could tell by the way she was upset, and really talking to him...it was like they had been sleeping together. I guess he had been trying to keep it on the down low with everybody. But she was not having it. She straight out blew his cover! At first I thought I was just imagining things...but then she says,"So do you still love me or not? Were you lying to me the other night or what? Why are you ignoring me?"
He was looking completely busted! He knew that we heard everything loud and clear!!! LOL!!!!Damn his face was so red!!! What a jerk!!! LOL!!!

ShoeShoppaholic    Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 17:12:37 (PDT)
I was watching an episode of of Girlfriends i think its called.

And they were talking about sex and all dat.
Then one of them said IT had to be circumcised, and they all agreed?

Do you ladies care about this issue or not? since most AMs dont practice circumcision.
JTUK    Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 09:34:36 (PDT)
SistaMoonkitty,
Thank you for the input. I've always realized that, but it takes a lot of work (because you're trying not to take the rejection personal) to get to the point of where your friend is. I'm going to work on it. I've been working on that a little, actually, this semester, but it's still a little difficult. But I think I'm making progress. Slowly, but surely. :) Thanks again for your input. It helps.
lilli98 (Miss Lilli98) lilli98@collegeclub.com    Saturday, May 04, 2002 at 09:29:46 (PDT)
We can all move past this if we would just stop responding to the Nubian Goddess. Don't respond to her or him. Let's just get on with the next thing on this forum. Later for all that "ish" that is being allowed to be posted on this site.

Can we move on please?????
Third Eye    Friday, May 03, 2002 at 21:25:17 (PDT)
Don't Go Chasing Waterfalls:

I am also heartbroken over the tragic death of Left Eye. She didn't deserve to die like that even if she did burn her boyfriend's house to the ground.
Sad Too    Friday, May 03, 2002 at 18:22:31 (PDT)
OK SISTAMOONKitty

I agree with you girl, BBF's (Bitter Black Females) have no place here.

Let's take up Shy Angel's challenge and get rid of the color hang up. We are here because the Asian brothers love the sisters in all of their beautiful colors.

Asian men come back to the forum we miss you soooooooooo much!!!!

we love you all!!!!!!

hugs and kisses and a little bit more if your game:}

PEACE!

FARAH    Friday, May 03, 2002 at 12:20:11 (PDT)
I agree with Indigo....if there is an intellegent male, of any racial persuasion, please email me to get to know me at teazemetea@yahoo.com
Tea teazemetea@yahoo.com    Friday, May 03, 2002 at 10:56:36 (PDT)

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