Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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I'm an attractive black female from a small town on the east coast. My family is originally from Papua New Guinea and has been in the U.S. for at least one century. They've remained very close knit and retained a great deal of cultural tendencies. Thus, I come from a very conservative family. Although I am clearly Black American physically and culturally, I would certainly entertain the idea of dating an Asian man. However, my fears are (1) that I would not be valued highly because I'm not Asian or (2) that I would be expected to act like a member of the cast of the Girlfriends or another WB sitcom.

Brahnda Cephas Brahnda@email.com Monday, May 06, 2002 at 08:46:46 (PDT)

JTUK,
To answer your question, it really depends on how much the woman loves and care for him and how much she is willing to accept him as he is. For me personally, my man who is Chinese is not circumised and I don't care. I love him for how he treats and care for me. I tend think of it as he has a little turtleneck down there. I think that it is cute. Most important of all, I wouldn't want him to try and change a thing.
bw who loves her man and his turtleneck Monday, May 06, 2002 at 06:12:23 (PDT)

Okay,

I've been reading the ambf posts from the past three weeks (since I haven't been here in awhile). My gosh, someone has some major bitterness and stealing ID's again (either an angry jealous black man or a bitter black woman who has no life, gave up on ambf relationsips & turned into a gay racist).

I know it's been four months since I've broken up with my Chinese American boyfriend, but I'm not going to hold it agaings the rest of the Asian men (heck there probably one checking me out-"Hey, sweetie!"). Now I'm ready for another bf.

Hey, where's a good place for ambf couples to live. Is there any in Canada as well? I am so ready to move because where I live are NO ambf's whatsoever. (as if it's an urban legand. And my sisters didn't know about my bf, claiming that AMs don't want us. Shame on them!)
Sexy chocolate getting her groove back Yeah right! And have someone steal my ID! Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 19:07:56 (PDT)

JTUK,
I honestly thought all men were curcumcised until I saw for myself that that wasn't the case (it was my first sexual experience, and I was in shock). I was so shocked, I asked my mother about it, and she was like, "no baby, not all men are." Does it matter? No, not as long as the guy keeps himself fresh and clean. Now, it's not a big deal, because what's important is that he keeps it clean and he knows what he's doing. It can be circumcised or not. I don't care either way now.
Miss Secret asianlover98@hotmail.com Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 17:48:41 (PDT)

Ketarah,

Go for it. Just look for positive signs of interest and a positive, interesting personality. If these things check out, and your instinct says, "All okay," then go for it. Take it slow, and enjoy yourself.
An East Asian Male Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 17:07:34 (PDT)

I went to get a dental check up the other day and my dentist was a black lady. I think she was like 25ish. She was quite pretty. Well to make a long story short, she rubbed herself all over me quite obviously(like her breasts on my head and chest) and when we moved to another room, I made a comment about how she could do that some more. She took off her gloves and stuck her hands in my pants. She didn't really give me a hand job but it was like a minute were she was groping me.
Mike Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 15:30:27 (PDT)

To the Asian males here.

I am defintiley one Nubian sister who loves the exotic features of Asian men. They are the ultimate attraction to me. I guess because my friends and I are also very exotic looking we are attracted to Asian men very much.

I just find that Blakc men are not exotic looking enough for me today (they looked to mixed to me even the dark ones have mixed looking features that are a turn off to me). I like extreme raw exoticness that is the ultiate beauty that is hard to achieve. You Asian men GOT IT!

I moved and because of distance I had to break off my relationship with my ex man who was Asian (Chinese). I miss him so much but its hard to have a long distance relationship.

Anyway, I found that we made the most beautful couple. With my exotic Nubian features and his exotic Asiatic features people could not stop staring at us.
Well I just want you Asian brothers to know that the Nubian sisters are loving you and I am one of them.
NUBIAN GODDESS Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 12:06:02 (PDT)

INDIGO,

Whatever! Do you think I care about what some Mixed up light knock off of a Black woman or bi racial woman thinks of me or my beautiful Nubian Goddess sisters? LOL! I am sure the Nubain sisters you came across did not care enough about what you thought of them either.

You aint no sister of mine so WHATEVER! I can tell you a few things of what myself and my other Nubian sisters think of so many of you mixedup light skinned mutts and bi racial women but why because it really doesn't matter. In the end you are not apart of my heritage and definitley do not represent our beauty.

Call me "bitter, angry, Blackwoman" who cares. At least I can say I am a BLACK WOMAN and DAMN proud to look like a real one.

NUBIAN GODDESS Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 11:57:59 (PDT)

keturah

hell theres nothing wrong with breakfast, even if you met him last night. Its up to you on whether you think hes worth getting to know. He just wants to talk, its not like he expects you to spread your legs over coffee and a Mcmuffin. Dont follow your friends advice, just think about it, whats the harm in breakfast? Dont worry about it, give him a chance if you think he deserves it.
AZN Realist Sunday, May 05, 2002 at 10:53:35 (PDT)

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