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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%
Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%




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Caledonian,

Are you a BW or an AM? Are you a WM? What are your interests in BW/AM relationships?
Are you another nubian goddess in disguise? Are you on this poll to discuss AM/BW relationships? Or are you another troll trying to stir things up?
Are you here to promote negativity in BW/AM relationships?
What is your point of coming to this poll with such a discussion?
What is your interest in this poll?
You seem to be very interested in Mike's situation. Are you angry because you wanted to be him for a day at the dentist? Perhaps you wanted to be the dentist with your hands down Mikes pants. Is that what this tension is really about?
negativity gets boring doesn't it...    Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 04:27:33 (PDT)
To deny our impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human.

I can't help but holler at a Black Female that looks fly. Like today I was at the J O and I saw this one sexy thang from behind and I had to go into mack mode. So I approached her and asked if she needed assistance. She turned around and was a little older looking but still had a bomb body. We rapped for a minute, shared a laugh, then parted ways. I just wanted to talk to her. Then this other Black female at the Jizzee was standing with her partners and I happened to be right in front of her. I looked at her and caught totally checking me out, I saw her eyes go from my feet to my face. I was like, hello lovely. Anyway, I am just trying to get some love from the Black females. I don't feel a similar vibe with other females. Its like we have a good rapport.
I think I found what all females want, security, in all its forms, emotional, financial, spiritual, physical. It's perhaps the only commonality that I have discovered in my years. Of course, we as Asian Males must first be secure within our own skin, in every scenario, venture, obstacle, and opportunity in life. There aren't many of this type of Asian Male, and no doubt there is some Asian Male that is way tighter in mind, body, and soul than 99 % of Asian Males out there....

...and that somebody is me.
Asian Mack    Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 00:55:01 (PDT)
Asian Brother

I'm light skin. 5'9" and 130. People have tole me that I have a body like Naomi Campell.
Garota de Norte    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 21:15:01 (PDT)
Asian Brother the solution is simple.

Don't worry about dating or marrying a black woman who would only marry you for your job or wealth. Just marry a black woman who is just as educated, wealthy and as career minded as you.

My husband and I are both graduates of Ivy League Columbia University in NYC and we both have high profile, high paying jobs when we first met each other on a blind date.

So, you see if you just date a black female of your equal, you won't have to worry about anything. My Korean husband is very happy with me!
Ife_ny    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 21:11:35 (PDT)
Danny,

I wouldn't waste my time with that female. She may be pretty, but she sounds like poison.

She told you that she is unhappily married. She, and not her husband, may be the reason why their marriage isn't a happy one.

You don't know the situation and if she were to tell you the situation, you would only be hearing her side of it and who knows if she will be telling you the truth.

Stay away from divorced black women or black women who are in the process of getting a divorce.

Stay away from black women who have kids by other men too!

This might be hard to do with most of the women here, but women like me don't have a Baby Daddy.

Drop me a line...
ladyK ladykagero@collegeclub.com    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 21:01:46 (PDT)
I know Mike is lying about being fondled by a black dentist. No way any black dentist is going to risk losing her reputation and job and her many years of dental school/training just to grab some strange patients dick! Mike is a troll and the idiots felled for it. Black women work too damn hard to get in the position of the dental profession and you think she would risk being reported to the authorites for sexual assault, lose her license and risk exposure and ridicule and shame by her peers just for Mike's dick?
AM/BF 12yrs.plus    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 20:54:53 (PDT)
Celetialkiss,

You sound very hot! I tend not to like the overly skinny ones (sorry Asian Chicks, I know you like my money/material things, but I am not interested!). I like a bit of "meat" in my woman. I heard a black chick commented that I look OK ( trying to be humble here) because she did not like men who are too skinny either). Anywhere between 120 and 145 lbs are good enough for me for your height. Height does not matter to me as long as it is proportional, but I tend to go out with bigger girls 5'4" or taller. So what makes you like us Asian guys???
Asian Brother    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 18:18:05 (PDT)
AM/BF 12 yrs plus,

OK OK I do focus on the "thick" parts, smooth "bouncing" skin, and big beautiful eyes first. At a higher level when commitment is raised, definitely the HEART in the "chest":) counts the most.
Also one BF at work commented that since I am single and busy I will need a "strong" black woman ... not knowing that I am actually interested in BFs! I agree with her: that's another reason I like BFs, physically and mentally strong because I am a strong guy myself.:)
I actually do not like skinny, "boyish body" females. That is why I am not particularly attracted to AFs. AFs are definitely materialistic and I have some crazy advances from them at work. Again I do not have any interest in them.
Enough for the bragging about myself.. I am just trying to be honest here: black chicks are hot!

Asian Brother    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 18:07:44 (PDT)
Wannabe celestialkiss;

Whats with the sn stealing. LOL Why is it such a thrill to steal sns'. Its getting so overplayed. Come on now.
At least use it with some meaning when you decide to STEAL IT AGAIN the next time!
Wow! Maybe you could have said something with intelligence ... at least!
Your just a trifling sn stealer!
CelestialKiss    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 17:31:06 (PDT)
Caledonian is talking shi!t. If any girl stuck her hand do his pants and he was attracted to her, he'd be sprung. Bro, don't be all hating cause this guy Mike is excited about this circumstance. And if these ladies egg him on, as you've insinuated, how does that perpetuate the idea that thet are

"...so desperate to be with any asian male that you are willing to condone such sexually loose behaviour. "

People have misconceptions or should have ones by actual experience not hearsay. Dude just go somewhere with all that. I SEE why people have misconceptions about Asian Males.....
Take - JA    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 16:54:46 (PDT)
In response to Asian Brother:

I'm an African American woman who has always been attracted to Asian men.

Your post made me think of the height thing. I never really thought of it before, but I think one of the reasons I DO love Asian men is that their height often compliments my own. I'm 5 feet tall, about 130 pounds and I have a curvy, hour glass shape.

I've just always been worried that Asian men would not like ME! I've meet Asian men who find me attractive, but they are very traditional when it comes to family and, although interested, rarely date outside of their ethnic group. I've met many Asian women who date/marry black men, but I don't run into the reverse too often, and I think that's a shame.
~Sandy    Monday, May 13, 2002 at 12:27:58 (PDT)

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