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WHAT YOU SAY
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in response to ladyK's comment-
"Stay away from black women who have kids by other men too"
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So would you say this only applies to BFs? What about an AF or a WF who has kids from a previous marriage or a relationship? Should Danny avoid them as well? Or does this only apply to Black Women? Or what about a single AM who has a child already? I know of one. Should all the females avoid him?
I am curious as to why it seems like you are saying to 'steer clear' of BW specifically ... when it comes to this matter.
I have a two year old. I graduated from college and I work fulltime.I have a good relationship with my boyfriend who is a kind and loving AM.
Hes not the father of my son. My son's dad was killed in a motorcycle accident. I am not trying to bring about any drama by telling you what happened to my sons dad. I just needed to tell my situation, because it wasn't the stereotyped baby daddy stuff.
In my case there is no /baby daddy/
Not all of us have the same scenario you described.
seattle WA
Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 04:54:02 (PDT)
Sandy,
I think physically an open-minded AM will be attracted to your body type. I will certainly find your body type very attractive. Again I never dated anyone shorter than 5'4", due to coincidence not personal preferences.
The 2 major reasons for divorce in America are money and sex, so as shallow as I am, I do consider physical part of the relationship as important as personality, honesty, trust.
lfe_ny,
A great suggestion!
I am happy for you but at the same time unfortunately I live in Boston which is not as diverse as NYC. Plus honestly there are not too many high level BFs in my field since I am so specialized.
But I am still a young man and I will keep looking and won't settle for less.
Garote de Norte,
Now you are talking, sista... You are just slightly taller than me but since I 'handled' a 5'10" WF with success in the past, I think I can handle a BF of your height.:) I thought I saw someone of your stature briefly at work the other day!
To sum it up, I find a number of BFs attractive and increasingly so every day.
Asian Brother
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 21:44:05 (PDT)
To the "FAKE" AM/ BF12YR. person who posted on May 13.2002@20:54:53.
Try getting your wording straight. I personally don't call a man's penis a "dick". That is childish and immature. Since I DON'T KNOW MIKE personally, I DO believe Mike's story and the only idiot is you, honey. It's a shame that you are as "old as you are" and still can't come to an adult forum with common sense. If you have some input that will benefit US ALL, then by all means please share. IF Mike wanted to get his "tiddle winked" in the dentist office, that's his liking. *Icky, but if he wanted to do that, that's between the two involved.
I really DON'T care if a BW chooses to throw her career away for a few "jack jobs". As you said, and not I: "Black women work to damn hard...risk being reported for sexual assult...". I think that Mike is a grown man and if he was sexually assualted, he would be trying to get that "Dental Assistant" fired instead of writing a "steamy account" of the incident in this forum.
I personally think the only "TROLL" and idiot is a person who is so jealous of strangers, that YOU would actually steal their name tag/self descriotion. Pathetic, it's just pathetic.
Danny,
There are single people and married people here as well who give good advice. Yes, some are single moms and some are "Happily Married" who enjoy giving advice to others who are walking down the "inter-race/inter-marriage path as I have and many others have and yet doing:)
It doesn't matter how pretty the lady was or how sad she looked- Getting in the midst of other peoples marriage trouble is like grabbing a "mad animal" by the ears,YOU WILL GET HURT!!! Keep yourself from that chic, if fate have a Sister in your path, then time will surely tell. If she was a widow, then the door would be open,if you so choose to walk in. But if the path has "other mens" kids in it, think 5x's before walking through.
I'm not the copy, I'm the original..**.smackx2** poochie,poochie,pooh
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 17:11:53 (PDT)
Danny,
I did not write that message as I wasn't online Monday (I was visiting my brother in the hospital).
To whomever decided to use my name, STOP IT! I've already changed my name like 3 times on this damn site. So please quit. I wouldn't dare say anything like that, so quit for crying out loud.
Next time, I will leave an email address, but this time, I won't. Later (I have to go be with my brother at the hospital).
LadyKagero not this time will I leave my email address
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 16:05:23 (PDT)
lfe_ny
Credentials have nothing to do with it. Ivy League or whatever. I just know what I like. I like BW. Beautiful and fine black women. They don't have to have some silly cedentials. If they do have them, great.If not thats great too. If I like her its because I like her. Plain and simple. I am a damn good tattoo artist. I guess I need to find a BW who is my EQUAL. Hmmm. And what would that be? Another tattoo artist? Or were you only referring to stereotypical doctors and lawyers type of AM? Whatever lfe_ny. Hahaha!How lame. I think your advice sucks anyway.
Danny
If a woman says she is unhappily married you should not trust her. I would be skeptical. That is the only reason I say that. Otherwise ... If I liked a woman who was pretty and intelligent, and she maybe had kids (2 kids is my limit) I would still talk to her. Only if she is a good mother. I don't respect a woman that does not take care of her kids.
DigitalXi100
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 14:57:33 (PDT)
NOTE; MY ID HAS JUST BEEN STOLEN!!!!
I do not use fowl language and such harshness. Oh, I'm not mad, only dogs get mad. And only a DOG would steal...
Also, Asian Brother,
Go for it Bro. Your answer is quite understandable. Please don't knock your Asian sisters. They can't help it that they weren't created so endowed in the right areas. Maybe if they got some "Soul Food":chicken, greens, sweet potatoes,cornbread,etc...into those small frames, you AM's might give them a second glance. My husband always wanted a gal he could hold on to. At 5,6 and 140, he always says "God really knows how to bless"HE!HE! Peace out Lil BRO. and Good Luck finding your perfect Sister.
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Still the original (AM/BF 12yrs.plus)
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 13:36:50 (PDT)
Fake azz Garota de Norte,
You must have A LOT of time on your hands. Also, why is it that you always have to steal my username or others names for your stupid posts? Why is it that you just come to this forum as well as other forums to start trouble? You are always online claiming everyone is this person and that person but yet you come online and do exactly what you claim everyone else does. When will you be satisfied? You know I know who you are and you still don't get it?
Either be a part of the positivity or just get the hell on. When are you going to make a real challenge to anyone here on this forum? Get your own name and post that nonsense. Why can't you just say you are deekritik. We all know that is who you are. So just be honest.
Henceforth, I sure as hell don't need you to be on here putting these phony measurements about my height and weight on this forum.
You know what, just get a hobby or get Jesus. I don't know why I waste my time with you.
Asian Bro. please don't even respond to that stupid post. It does not belong to me.
The real Garota
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 13:16:01 (PDT)
Hey everyone,
I never thought I'd find myself discussing my personal life with strangers, but I need some advice. I've been with my Asian boyfriend for almost a year now. We've been so happy and we both know that we're each other's soul mates. But, lately we've been arguing over small things and have been seriously thinking about breaking up. I don't want to and neither does he, but I guess we think it's the best thing to do. I just feel there's more to it than that and finally he's admitted to me that he's terrified of telling his mother about us. I had a feeling that was the issue more than anything else, but I didn't want to believe it. It's not just me though, he never told her about any of his Asian girlfriends either. But, I guess he felt he was becoming too attached; afterall this was his longest relationship.
He tells me he doesn't want to break up and wants to work things out. But, how can I stay with someone who's ashamed of me? Well maybe not ashamed, because I'm definitely not that. I'm 5'9", 130, light skin, told I'm beautiful, I go to a great university, and I'm studying to become a Pediatrician. I have so much going for myself and he loves that. He told me there are so many things that he loves about me, that he was willing to take the chance and risk everything. I guess that was a lie, because he still hasn't told his mom and that's why he's been acting so strange.
I just don't know if I can be with him, even though I want to. I just feel kind of worthless now if you know what I mean. I never asked him to choose between me and his mom. His mom is all he has, you know?( He's an only child w/ a single mom, just like me) So, I understand why he's so afraid. Ugh, I just don't know what to do. Sorry for the long post, but maybe you guys can give me some advice. Most of you seem to be very open minded, intelligent individuals. Thank you!
Shy Angel d0nth8t@aol.com
Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 12:52:19 (PDT)
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