Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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Never thought an Asian man would be interested in me.
m. Howe Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 03:19:59 (PDT)

Shy Angel,

Marriage to an African American woman is no man's land to an Asian or an Asian American male. He needs to learn how to move through the cultural and emotional land mines.

This is an argument for time.
Asian Male Married To An African American Female Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 22:15:06 (PDT)

To the asian males in here,

Just want to know what really attracts you guys to black females. I got hit on by a couple of black females in the past but I kind of brushed them off. There are some black females that are really pretty but for me they are like "for my eyes only" cause i don't really want to have a relationship with anybody else besides an asian lady, and besides my folks would disown my ass. But i take my hats off to you guys because I know it is hard to keep a relationship especially when both of you have different cultures.

Fil. Guy 19 Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 21:03:30 (PDT)

seattle WA

and to everyone else

I did not post those words. As I said before, I was with my brother at the hospital and will be going back in a few minutes (just wanted to check my email, take a shower, and grab fresh clothes for him too).

My sister is a single mother to a beautiful little girl (no, she wasn't and isn't married to the father), and I wouldn't dare tell a person to stay away from a woman with children, just because she has children. Like you said, there are different situations for different people. My aunt is a single mother of two wonderful little boys, but only because her husband died. Things happen. Now, I'll be the first one to say, if you can't handle a man or a woman with children, then leave it alone, b/c if you meet the kids then decide you don't want to do this, and the kids become attached, then it could be a problem. But if you can handle it, then go for it (my best friend just married a guy with a 3 year old daughter, and I told her, if you love him and you can handle being a step-mother, then go for it). My cousin married a guy with two kids already and is very happy, and I'm happy for her too.

I could end up being a single mother too, so I certainly wouldn't knock anyone who is a single parent. Everyone needs someone, including single parents.

Keep your fingers crossed my brother will be out of the hospital before the week's out.

Thank you for everyone's patience, and whoever has stolen my handle, don't do it again (I really don't like when others pretend to be me, lying through their damn teeth at the same time trying to make me look bad).

To my sexy Asian Brothers, if you really want to drop me a line, please do.

And if anyone wants to know if I really typed something, b/c you have doubt, please email me. Thank you. Later.
The real and original Lady Kagero ladykagero@collegeclub.com Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 14:31:20 (PDT)

The person who called himself/herself "Green" and posted that trash on May 7 is not me. I'd just like to let you know. That person is a coward who does not have the spine to voice their own opinions without the shield of someone else's name. By now, most of the people who have been here since I first started posting last year can tell that the imposter's crude language is completely different from my more carefully considered style. I'm sorry for being so blunt, but this is getting really trite.

But, I try to contribute something to the conversation when I can. For the Asian men (particularly those who immigrated from Asia): What lessons have you learned about women and black people from dating black women? What have you learned about yourself? What attitudes were challeneged? How was your life altered? How do you belive Asian masculinity is different from Western masculinity? If you are uncomfortable discussing it here, please email me.
Green afro_dyte2000@yahoo.com Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 14:25:35 (PDT)

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